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Old May 4, 2004 | 02:27 PM
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I just got dumped...

I got dumped about 3 weeks ago, and my ex started calling me. So I just decided not to answer his calls 'cause he made me go through a lot of shit(he hurt me a lot). For instance, all that matter to him was his friends and car club. Like I was saying, I didn't want to talk to him, so I told him not to look 4 me anymore that that was it between us. Now he doesn't call me. Moreover, I'm starting to talk to my best friend and I think I like him, but I don't know if its just the love I have for him as a friend. So know my best friend just told me he has had a crush on me since 3 years ago. And now he is reaaallllyy in love w/ me. I'm scared to fall for him right now cause I don't know if those feeling are for a boyfriend or a friend. I don't want to hurt him... I don't know if I should fall for him or keep him as a friend instead? I want to know ur opinions?
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Old May 4, 2004 | 05:01 PM
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Re: I just got dumped...

Originally posted by DivineLady28
I got dumped about 3 weeks ago, and my ex started calling me. So I just decided not to answer his calls 'cause he made me go through a lot of shit(he hurt me a lot). For instance, all that matter to him was his friends and car club. Like I was saying, I didn't want to talk to him, so I told him not to look 4 me anymore that that was it between us. Now he doesn't call me. Moreover, I'm starting to talk to my best friend and I think I like him, but I don't know if its just the love I have for him as a friend. So know my best friend just told me he has had a crush on me since 3 years ago. And now he is reaaallllyy in love w/ me. I'm scared to fall for him right now cause I don't know if those feeling are for a boyfriend or a friend. I don't want to hurt him... I don't know if I should fall for him or keep him as a friend instead? I want to know ur opinions?

hmmm....the only way to decide that is 4 you 2 post pics of urself so that we can decide whther ur goodlooking enough for your best friend
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Old May 4, 2004 | 05:07 PM
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j/k


but seriously, i say tread the waters very very carefully....I mean you may be confused b/c u recently broke up and feel like you need someone to love as a result....

I think you need to spend some time w/ur best friend and see how you really feel abt him and whether you can view him in a greater role than just a friend....unfortuantely it'll be hard for you 2 keep him as a friend since he just procliamed that he has a crush on u 4 ages and loves you ....trust me, its pretty hard 2 go back 2 normal and just be friends w/the dude esp. after his proclamation


btw, how old are ya esp. 4 ur friend 2 say he's falling in luv w/ya?
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Old May 4, 2004 | 05:15 PM
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let the leg humping begin.....sorry to hear about that tough spot to be in. Dont know what to say
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Old May 4, 2004 | 06:58 PM
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ummm, what car club?
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Old May 4, 2004 | 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by bent09
let the leg humping begin.....

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Old May 4, 2004 | 08:02 PM
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Old May 4, 2004 | 10:46 PM
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Old May 4, 2004 | 10:49 PM
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Old May 4, 2004 | 10:57 PM
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If you're willing to take the chance that it may not work out with your best friend and could lose him as a friend, do it. I know a lot of people hold back because they don't want to ruin a friendship. As for the X, if you told him to piss off and he did, good for you! Sometimes those losers just don't get the damn hint!
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Old May 4, 2004 | 10:57 PM
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just have casual sex with him and u wont get hurt
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Old May 5, 2004 | 08:39 AM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
just have casual sex with him and u wont get hurt
I dont think there is such a thing. Eventually one person starts to want the other full time.
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Old May 5, 2004 | 12:35 PM
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Originally posted by unsure
j/k


but seriously, i say tread the waters very very carefully....I mean you may be confused b/c u recently broke up and feel like you need someone to love as a result....

I think you need to spend some time w/ur best friend and see how you really feel abt him and whether you can view him in a greater role than just a friend....unfortuantely it'll be hard for you 2 keep him as a friend since he just procliamed that he has a crush on u 4 ages and loves you ....trust me, its pretty hard 2 go back 2 normal and just be friends w/the dude esp. after his proclamation


btw, how old are ya esp. 4 ur friend 2 say he's falling in luv w/ya?
First of all thanks for the advice. Second of all I think I might be confused because of the fact that I just got dumped. By the way, latelly I have been spending time w/ my friend also because of the fact that in about 2 months he may be send to Irak for more than 1/2 a year... In which thats the worse part, that I don't want to fall for him because long distance relationships don't work for me, but in a way I think I'm starting to like him a lot. He lets me be myself and feel confident!

By the way, I'm 19...! Also you had asked how I looked, I'll put it this way, I used to do modeling for this expensive agency that ripped me off, and I won an audition for best appearances and personality!
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Old May 5, 2004 | 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by DivineLady28
First of all thanks for the advice. Second of all I think I might be confused because of the fact that I just got dumped. By the way, latelly I have been spending time w/ my friend also because of the fact that in about 2 months he may be send to Irak for more than 1/2 a year... In which thats the worse part, that I don't want to fall for him because long distance relationships don't work for me, but in a way I think I'm starting to like him a lot. He lets me be myself and feel confident!

By the way, I'm 19...! Also you had asked how I looked, I'll put it this way, I used to do modeling for this expensive agency that ripped me off, and I won an audition for best appearances and personality!
I will be second....


Told you it would happen!
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Old May 5, 2004 | 12:44 PM
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Originally posted by Ashburner
ummm, what car club?
Well my "X" had this car club called "Sadistik", but what the idiot didn't know was that there was another car club w/ the same name so now they changed it to ....."Diverse" (something Like that). His car club is full of idiots and cheap cars, my CL could smoke 1/2 of their cars! I know cause I 1/2 done it twice. I raced this ugly Prelude.
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Old May 5, 2004 | 12:55 PM
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Ahh, take your time... why rush things? Just stay friends and let things progess naturally.


But, you guys have already gone over that. :o
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Old May 5, 2004 | 12:59 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
If you're willing to take the chance that it may not work out with your best friend and could lose him as a friend, do it. I know a lot of people hold back because they don't want to ruin a friendship. As for the X, if you told him to piss off and he did, good for you! Sometimes those losers just don't get the damn hint!
Wazz up girl...Thanks 4 the advice. And u know what, I'm going to take the chance, but the problem is that in about 2 months or so, he will be living to Irak for more than 1/2 of yr. So for right now, we been going out every single weekend, & the more time I spend w/ him, the more I like him (I also feel very attractive to him, he works out a lot)! And as for my "X" the idiot, keeps calling me but is talking to someone else. The true I just don't understand guys.
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Old May 5, 2004 | 01:03 PM
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where's Irak, is that between Iran and Iraq?
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Old May 5, 2004 | 01:07 PM
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Originally posted by Aprille
Ahh, take your time... why rush things? Just stay friends and let things progess naturally.


But, you guys have already gone over that. :o
I know we should take our time, we have talked about it and agreed w/ it. But every weekend when he has liverty (his a marine & they only 1/2 weekends off), we want to go out as friends, but we end up acting like a couple. I guess his winning my heart (he is so sweet and funny)
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Old May 5, 2004 | 02:51 PM
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So what's the status of those pictures? are they comin?
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Old May 5, 2004 | 03:43 PM
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So what's the status of those pictures? are they comin?
You sound like your asking. Everyone knows you have to demand for pics. Oh yeah and end it with "or else." Good luck.
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Old May 5, 2004 | 04:09 PM
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Re: Re: I just got dumped...

Originally posted by unsure
hmmm....the only way to decide that is 4 you 2 post pics of urself so that we can decide whther ur goodlooking enough for your best friend
Damn you had me cracking up so hard at work! hahaha.

Yeah and I can't make an informed decision unless I know what you look like. For example, your friend might want some tail before leaving for Irak :gaylaugh: but I can't determine that without pics. You say you were a model but for what...handcream, big&tall, etc...no way to know if you are good looking. Too many variables!
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Old May 5, 2004 | 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by DivineLady28

By the way, I'm 19...! Also you had asked how I looked, I'll put it this way, I used to do modeling for this expensive agency that ripped me off, and I won an audition for best appearances and personality!



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Old May 5, 2004 | 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by DivineLady28

By the way, I'm 19...! Also you had asked how I looked, I'll put it this way, I used to do modeling for this expensive agency that ripped me off, and I won an audition for best appearances and personality!
I gotta call on this one. (unless we see some pics )
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Old May 5, 2004 | 11:27 PM
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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by DivineLady28
Wazz up girl...Thanks 4 the advice. And u know what, I'm going to take the chance, but the problem is that in about 2 months or so, he will be living to Irak for more than 1/2 of yr. So for right now, we been going out every single weekend, & the more time I spend w/ him, the more I like him (I also feel very attractive to him, he works out a lot)! And as for my "X" the idiot, keeps calling me but is talking to someone else. The true I just don't understand guys.
Well, if he is worth it I'm sure you'll be able to wait for him while he is serving in Iraq . Just forget the X, if he has moved on you should too. Not saying you haven't but it seemed as though you were bothered by it earlier. Have fun with him while you can girl, and make sure you get him one of those long stress reliever looking cock massagers since he probably wont be getting any for a LONGGG time
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Old May 6, 2004 | 10:42 AM
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Old May 6, 2004 | 11:16 AM
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Seriously....I need to see some pics before I can make a proper judgment.
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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:10 PM
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Hay! You guy's are been too tough on me...but I'll post some pic.
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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
Well, if he is worth it I'm sure you'll be able to wait for him while he is serving in Iraq . Just forget the X, if he has moved on you should too. Not saying you haven't but it seemed as though you were bothered by it earlier. Have fun with him while you can girl, and make sure you get him one of those long stress reliever looking cock massagers since he probably wont be getting any for a LONGGG time
Trust me, he is worth it. He is 10x's better looking than my X. And he has a "goooood" body. And as for my X Fu** him, I don't need him. I have the whole package w/ me now (my marine). So for this Sat. I'm going to have a lot of fun
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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:33 PM
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Re: Re: Re: I just got dumped...

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Damn you had me cracking up so hard at work! hahaha.

Yeah and I can't make an informed decision unless I know what you look like. For example, your friend might want some tail before leaving for Irak :gaylaugh: but I can't determine that without pics. You say you were a model but for what...handcream, big&tall, etc...no way to know if you are good looking. Too many variables!
:o When I post a picture, you will see what I mean
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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:34 PM
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Re: Re: Re: Re: I just got dumped...

Originally posted by DivineLady28
:o When I post a picture, you will see what I mean
CANT SAY IT ENOUGH











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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:41 PM
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I just got dumped...

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CANT SAY IT ENOUGH
ok ok, divinelady sent me a pic of her and asked me to host it...here she is:

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Old May 6, 2004 | 12:43 PM
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ok ok, divinelady sent me a pic of her and asked me to host it...here she is:




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Old May 6, 2004 | 01:22 PM
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Old May 6, 2004 | 02:15 PM
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Old May 6, 2004 | 02:52 PM
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I gotta call on this one. (unless we see some pics )
she's going to be at the CL meet in so.cali.

ill have pictures up after the meet ^^
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Old May 6, 2004 | 03:06 PM
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Is that snot or :bukkake: ? DivineLady....still waiting!

Hey, are you in san diego by any chance? One of my buddies is a marine down there and he is getting ready to go to Iraq in a month. He's a pilot though.
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Old May 6, 2004 | 03:17 PM
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nah she can't be SD because she said she was 15 minutes away from Downey. I'm guessing Cerritos, Whittier, Cypress?
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Old May 6, 2004 | 03:30 PM
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i think


take some time, and consider what it would be like to date him, and whether or not you wan to be in a relationship like that, and be realistic about it
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