What should i do i went to some other girls house and now my girlfriend hates me. I kissed another girl and i been dating my gf for 2 years. i cheated on her within the first month and she feels like i will always be a cheater now. I cant lose her what do i do?

 

Stop being a douchebag?

 

 

Don't be in a relationship

 

Couldnt have said it better, lol.

Its all in her hands now young sir. You can beg, plead, whatever, but that trust is gonna be damn hard to win back. Especially since you said you did it in the first month, now youre on two years, and from your statement, it appears she just found out. You are a "hider" liar in her eyes. Best of luck to you. If anything, take solice in that youre 19??

 

see if you girl will have a 3 way with the new girl

 

Say that you didn't inhale...

 

but yea, you fucked up..

 

be a man and move on...an let her move on

its not that hard homie

 

Out of morbid curiousity, how did she find out?

 

Technically it's gonna be in his hand from now on.

 

You fucked up, should have told her you did it when you did it.

Actually, you shouldn't even had done it in the first place, once a cheater always a cheater. If I were her, I wouldn't trust you, and find a new person to be with.

You gotta prove to her that she can trust you again, and that my friend, is alot easier said then done. Good luck.

 

 

at the responses! They are not necessarily helpful, but mostly ring true.

Sorry, Orlando, you're pretty much done-- time to learn and move on.

 

Buy her an iPod nano. It's got a camera

 

 

woman never forget... just cut your losses now and find a new one. Plus a kiss isn't cheating... and if you are getting an earful now... RED FLAG! 19 yrs old why the hell do you care about keeping her around? shoot odds of you staying together with her are very slim as it is. Go find yourself a set of twins that will help you forget all about her.

 

Move on and learn

 

Stop cheating. But I agree with the others, you've betrayed her trust to the point now that unless she's very forgiving I think you're done here.

But it's contradictory to say "I can't loose her" yet cheat on her twice. If she meant that much to you, you'd have avoided those situations in the first place.

So she's going to be the girl you lost because you screwed up. I'd encourage you to learn from this and treat the next one better.

 

Dont cheat. live and learn. trust is gone, and shes gonna have sex with someone else.

 

she will never forget that you have done it, and if you are willing to put up with her throwing it in your face every time you fight then good luck. you should have never been in a relationship in the first place if you weren't fully committed. you need to do something that will gain her trust back but i really doubt you will ever fully get it because a girl will always think that you are going to do it again good luck

 

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Kissing another girl is not cheating? What constitutes cheating for you then?

 

^^^ yes please do explain in detail what u consider cheating lol

 

you fucked up learn from it and move one your still young live your life to the fullest and just don't do it again

 

From what I understand hookers either refuse to kiss/charge more as they consider that more intimate.

 

Marry her.

You fucked up. If she dumps your ass, then move on and learn from your mistakes. You're 19. It's not the end of the world.

 

Sorry bud. You lost her the moment you kissed her.

If she stays with you, hopefully your stupidity is gone by then and you'll quit being a douchebag.

Other than that, if she leaves you, you're 19. You're not losing anything.

 

I did leave this too open. If it was kiss goodbye like a peck to the lips, cheek something like you do to family members or friends it isn't. IF you are sucking face. Then it is cheating.

 

and she's gonna love it..

 

Move on, you fucked up.

 

this girl will always have that doubt in her mind even if you do manage to patch things up. Good quote I got from my dad, its like a rope; when it breaks and is retied its not the same.

Move on, and let her move on. Learn from your mistakes and don't let the temptation get to you.

 

Hook up with the chick you cheated with

 

Time to be single again... you're only setting yourself up for fail

 

and you're only 19? Dude. you've got years of experience to catch up with. Dont sit on one of those 4-5 yr relationships with the same girl until you're in your mid-twenties.

 

start making up lies that it wasn't you... keep on lie-ing, it works

 

haha I doubt it was a peck on the cheek lol

 

You failed miserably. I hope she's smart enough to not stay with you.

 

So you cheated, admit to it, and still want your GF to stay with you?

I have to go with e30cabrio... stop being a douchebag.

 

bro I cheated too but I was in highschool and it was a realtionship that was going no where. She never found out and I never told her. If I did tell her, I for sure would not expect her to stay with me, that was up to her. I also wouldn't deal with her constantly throwing it back in my face if she did stay with me. How did she find out? if you told her, you're an idiot. Or should I say, even a bigger idiot since you shouldn't have cheated in the fist place.

 

+1, if you told her you cheated, just tell her JK. It always works