My roommate at college has this girlfriend thats absolutly terrible and I think I would nominate them as the "worst couple ever." This girl is crazy and literally doesn't have 1 friend that would stick up for her. For the best description of her, I think i should refer to my friend the urbandictionary:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...m=succubus&r=f

She pretty much moved in all year and makes up lies about everyone and is turning him against his friends with her female control ways. She also is with him literally 24/7, and when he is not with her they are talking on the phone. You can't see one without the other

Now EVERYONE hates this girl (and I think he knows it but im not sure) and he knows to a certain degree that she lies but he just turns the other cheek. My question is: how do you guys deal with these kinds of things? Do I just wait it out and ignore her, or stop hanging out with both of them? I am kind of insulted that he is choosing her over his friends (and he ditched one of his friends hard based on lies she whispered into his ear like wormtoung in LOTR). I don't know if hes even still loyal to anyone else but her, so I am tempted to push both of them away completely until she is gone.

Cliff notes:

1. Roommates super evil gf with no friends is here (or with him) 24/7
2. Do I, A) ignore them, B) ignore her, C) push both of them away because thats what you get for ruining your friendships over a girl

 

Ignore her especially, but ignore both if you must.

 

kill the bitch

 

3. Send her flowers as if they came from another guy. Repeat until she is gone

 

Have you and your friends called him out on it yet? That's the first step.

 

agree .. if enough people call him out on it he might actually listen.

 

I am pretty sure if we call him out on it he will just ditch us (his friends)...after all, thats what he did to our other friend. The fact that I am not even sure about his loyalty to his friends or some dumb college gf is stronger shows that hes a pretty weak friend

 

So, you have nothing to lose.

 

you are the third party, I am the third man.......



lol, no seriously just tell him your beef with her but do it around other friends who agree with you like a mini intervention...

 

soooo what lies did she say about his former friend?

 

She basically would say that he said all this shit (btw this has done this against me and our other mutual friends) when the bf wasn't around. We would all sit there dumbfounded because we never would say anything remotely close to what she calimed. She would tell her bf that we would call her a slut and say that shes below us and all this other shit, COMPLETELY out of thin air, and everyone is there to witness these fabrications except for him. She has no friends and shes comepletely alone, so i think she just wants to drag her bf down so that they are alone together.

Btw, daughter of a professional gold digger. The apple doesn't fall far..

 

I am also tempted to just ditch them, if I confront him I feel like she wins and somehow im the evil one. I totally ignore her lately.

 

Then this shouldn't even be a discussion because it doesn't sound like you care about your friend.

 

your friend no longer exists. be friendly, just not friends.

move on.

 

I said something as tastefully as I could (which is not very, to be perfectly honest). Man this whole thing is such a bummer because we were all so close before .

 

That's his loss. He'll figure out what he did when they break up. They WILL break up too. You guys are young and she seems like a bitch. It will just take some time and maturity for him to realize this.

 

I think you just answered your own question.
He will realize that after you stop talking to him, this bitch needs to go.....

 

leave some womens underwear in his bed and make sure she finds it...

she will be gone soon enough...

 

The pussy must be damn good to just dump everyone you know. Though it should have got old by now...

 

Is this the first chick that's jumped on his cock? He's probably just pussy whipped. Everybody has that happen to at least one friend. He'll get over it with time.

 

Just ditch them, later on he will have no friends but her, and that girl will get bored and go "wtf boy u dont have no friends . loser?" see ya...