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Old Jan 18, 2006 | 03:23 AM
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^^means she's gonna beat you. hard.

doubt it.
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Old Jan 18, 2006 | 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted by 925tsx
what exactly are we going to handle again?
hah wat do you think we're handling? *wink*


Originally Posted by saiko_cl_duck
^^means she's gonna beat you. hard.
hah more like leave him in my dust
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Old Jan 18, 2006 | 04:21 AM
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Originally Posted by strawb3rri3
hah wat do you think we're handling? *wink*




hah more like leave him in my dust

what do you drive?
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Old Jan 18, 2006 | 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by strawb3rri3
hah wat do you think we're handling? *wink*




hah more like leave him in my dust

whatever happens happens?
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Old Jan 18, 2006 | 02:28 PM
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Old Jan 19, 2006 | 02:31 PM
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guys just want to meet a nice girl that wont cheat on them and women seem to need to be put in their place "in just the right way" by a guy in order to be happy (along with 100 other requirements that can change daily). rediculous. most women these days are self centered and spoiled IMO.
Bingo.
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Old Jan 19, 2006 | 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
There's a big difference between being nice and being a wuss. It seems a lot of guys have difficulty understanding the fine line so they resort to hiding behind what is supposedly a cool facade and acting like jerks. :shakehead

big difference <> fine line
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Old Jan 19, 2006 | 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by mamboking
big difference <> fine line
Maybe she meant big difference in how the girls will see you and if you get the poon or not....and a fine line is what separates how you act.

So basically your fine line actions mean 100x to the girl than you
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Old Jan 19, 2006 | 06:48 PM
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Give the bitch a donkey punch...shell love you for life.
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 04:12 AM
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It doesn't really matter. I did everything for my "man". I cooked, cleaned, ran errands, helped with kids. Stayed away when asked, got closer when asked. Did EVERYTHING in the bedroom he asked....and it didn't get me SHIT! Not even a respectable break up. I truly believe that it doesn't matter how you treat someone, they are going to do whatever they want regardless of the cost or consequence. No more Mrs. Nice guy for me. I am def done here.
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 08:30 AM
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You guys are funny. There's no real formula. Just be yourself. You're either with someone who will appreciate it, have things in common, and like you for it, or you're with the wrong person. Not saying everything will be just perfect, but you shouldn't have to 'act' one way or another to make it work. Treat someone how you would want to be treated. You guys are making it so complicated for yourselves.
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 09:50 AM
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I think the general overtone is that guys (and girls) too are complaining because they ARE treating people the way they want to be treated (being nice, bending over backwards) yet they're still getting shitted on. So how does one avoid that?
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
I think the general overtone is that guys (and girls) too are complaining because they ARE treating people the way they want to be treated (being nice, bending over backwards) yet they're still getting shitted on. So how does one avoid that?
I don't think you can avoid it - dating is just trial and error and testing things out to see if s/he's the right person for you. Everyone is unique. One person might take advantage of it, while another will appreciate and respect it. Just cuz you're treating someone the way you'd want to be treated doesn't mean that s/he's the one that'll reciprocate it....Just might not be your match. You've just gotta keep trying til you meet the right person for you instead of getting bitter and generalizing an entire gender. When you meet the right person, it will work.

(Easy said, easy done - I know)
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 12:28 PM
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when the correct person comes along, there will be no shitting on anyone










unless you are into that sort of thing
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 01:10 PM
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yup, nice guys finish last


and girls are fucking confusing
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Old Jan 20, 2006 | 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted by 925tsx
what do you drive?

94 civic hatchback, B20 vtec turbo
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Old Jan 21, 2006 | 12:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Osamu
yup, nice guys finish last


and girls are fucking confusing


Girls arent confusing. You just dont understand them yet.
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Old Jan 21, 2006 | 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
You guys are funny. There's no real formula. Just be yourself. You're either with someone who will appreciate it, have things in common, and like you for it, or you're with the wrong person. Not saying everything will be just perfect, but you shouldn't have to 'act' one way or another to make it work. Treat someone how you would want to be treated. You guys are making it so complicated for yourselves.


granted, girls are a little more EMOTIONAL than guys....that's just what it is, emotion, it will pass...just don't ignore her or act like a dick, she will forget about it in 2 days unless it's really important to her...
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Old Jan 21, 2006 | 12:42 AM
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Most women are very cut and dry. Most of them tell you exactly what they want, you just have to know how to read them. They arent gonna come out and tell you, they want you to figure it oiut.
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Old Jan 21, 2006 | 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by SwervinCL
Most women are very cut and dry. Most of them tell you exactly what they want, you just have to know how to read them. They arent gonna come out and tell you, they want you to figure it oiut.
I don't want anyone to figure me out....I tell people exactly what I want and when I'm not getting it. If you leave it up to hints and imagination...it NEVER works out and everyone is disappointed!
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Old Jan 21, 2006 | 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by SwervinCL
Most women are very cut and dry. Most of them tell you exactly what they want, you just have to know how to read them. They arent gonna come out and tell you, they want you to figure it oiut.
lol .. when will women learn that men are not mind readers .. and definitely can't keep up with 25393 moods
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