I have always treated my lady friends and my exgf with tons of respect. I just went through a break up (sorry you had tolisten to me whine about it on my other thread)
and made me realize, wait I treated her with respect and went out of my way just to make her happy, and it takes 2 people to fight not just one.

I give alot of relationship advice to friends and 99% of it is a sucess. So my point is we should start listing what a guy should do to make a lady happy, granted ever sistuation is differ. So anyone needing help let me know. It took a 3 hour convo with my ex's friend to realize how perfect I was for her and maybe one day she will see it.


So let it rip.... I can be the Dr. Phil of acurazine.

 

if you're too worried about making her happy, as opposed to making sure she makes you happy, then you become a wuss in her eyes. there has to be a balance.

 

Whats with people who cant stay in relationships the ones who think they are pros. (TLD)

 

Respect != opening doors. It means a lot more if someone is polite and respectful to me because I'm a nice, respectable person rather than because I happen to have a vagina.

 

to that

[GRUNT]

And the most tactless BUT best advice I've ever heard is: be a fucking man. If a girl wanted another girl, she'd date one. Grab your nuts and act like a damn man. Don't be needy, whiny, obssive, dependent, ect.

You'll notice a trend that the break up threads are from usually the biggest pussy bitch dudes on this forum - and they get called it over and over in their threads. Girls don't want to date another version of themselves. They want that piller of strength, inspiration and confidence. Thats what we bring to the table. They bring sensitivity, nuturing and compassion from their side.

If you offset that balance, it wont be long until you're starting another breakup thread on AZ and joining the pussy guys club.

[/GRUNT GRUNT]

 

I was just on the verge of throwing up. Perfect does not exist, and that Dr. Phil shit is uncalled for. You are def gonna get a :ghey: for that.

Other than that, just be respectful, treat a lady like you would treat someone who is paying you to do you're job. I mean pussy does cost, so technically she is paying you. Unless you work for free, then I would deem you an asshole.

I also hear that women love pearl necklaces.

 

Edit: ref. Ducks:

I know this firsthand since I used to be like this in my younger days. I used to think "look at all i could do for her, why doesnt she like me?" Now that I've matured a bit my line of thinking is more like "I know i can do everything her, but what can she do for me?"

 

So is it going to be Dr. Phil vs. The Love Doctor then?

 

Ack! No more love doctors here please.
Move along, nothing to see.

 

no offense, but @ 21....you are no expert.....Hell @ 26 and married, I am just scratching the surface.

 

maybe those girls need to learn how to treat a man also

 

Ive realized something treating a lady nicely=her taking advantage of your love and kindness and never returning it. I give up with just being a romeo.

 

Or perhaps you guys have been meeting girls who just can't appreciate what you can offer and don't know how to give. There are nice women out there who are also wondering the same thing.

 

agreed.....

 

Dude you are 21. You don't have a fuckin' clue.

 

Im not much older but i have quickly come to realize the nicer you are the more they walk on you. If you are nice and respectful of her she and her friends will love you but come to expect more from you then possible from a human being and it will let her know that she can do whatever she wants and her nice bf will be understanding and let her get away with it. In the end being nice gets you fucked and not in a good way, i know this yet continue to keep learning

 

no doubt about that one... I'm amazed at the youngins saying their life is over after a relationship and they are only 20 years old...

 

 

<--- Could never understand why all the hot girls only went out with guys that didn't respect them.

 

How to treat a Lady
Always show her respect (this does NOT mean be wimpy, just respect her as a PERSON)

Open doors etc. , do the chivalrous thing. A real Lady will appreciate the gesture (if it's genuine)

Never whine or slobber, be a man, but show some sensitivity. Every lady I have ever been in a relationship with has appreciated the BALANCE of being a man but understanding she isn't one

If your relationship ends, let the damn thing end. If it ended it wasn't correct for at least one of you. Don't flog a dead horse. Believe me, you WILL survive and be better for the experience

Be nice, don't be a doormat. Being NICE is important to a real Lady. Being a wimp or not expressing your individuality is NOT a good thing in a relationship. Either she will love the you that is you, or she won't....

Ladies are unpredictable, and can be difficult to understand. Just be there for her, be your own man and be for real, the rest will follow...

 

This imho is probably one of the most important ways you can show a woman you care.

 

That is brilliant, its tough to find the balance and that's what growing up is all about.

When I was younger(don't laugh because I still am not old) I was the big pussy and it got me no where. But being a huge dick isn't cool either, its a fine line.

 

Not true at all.
Being nice gets you a lot further. But being nice cant be a front. it has to be genuine. Women arent dumb, they can pick up on when you are fake. Thats when you get walked on. You allow them to walk on you. So stop blaiming them for walking on you and start blaiming yourself for letting them. Women want to have a man, not a boy.

 

BIG HUGE WERD!

Best thing to do is have your own life and keep then 2nd to yourself. I have been trying to get myself out of this "gentleman" mentality because it doesn't work at all. You can be nice to them but you can't pay too much attention to them. it doesn't meant treating them bad its just letting them know that if they fuck up you will leave. When you are too nice they take advantage of you and don[t appreciate shit.

 

Werd too being nice isn't the problem its being too nice or putting the pussy on a pedestle.

 

There's a big difference between being nice and being a wuss. It seems a lot of guys have difficulty understanding the fine line so they resort to hiding behind what is supposedly a cool facade and acting like jerks. :shakehead

No woman wants a doormat, but no one also wants a self-centered dick so a guy has to find a good balance in being sensitive and giving as well as being grounded and firm.

 

Right out of the mouth of a woman. Just be yourself. If your not a nice guy, dont try and be one. If you are nice guy, dont let yourself get walked on and be a man.

 

a Perfect guy, Will accept the fact that my car is faster than his & not ask me if he could drive it all day long.


thus, meaning he can give me space and not wear the pants all the time.

 

^ ill rip you

 

I would suggest treating them like trash and a piece of meat, then seeing how far you get before coming back here and starting a thread about how they broke up with you and how you can't get or keep a decent girlfriend.

 

hah really? I'd like to see that make sure you make it a big spanking k? otherwise I'd have to rub the sweet sound of boost in your face

 

<--------doormat






but you drive, i can't afford the gas

 

haha ironic, how are you the 'doormat' if I'M the one driving & paying for your gas? lol

 

in my 32 years what i have learned is that this perfect balance can be achieved with the just the right amount of bitch slappage.

its an art form really.

seriously though, your post just proves that women suck. guys just want to meet a nice girl that wont cheat on them and women seem to need to be put in their place "in just the right way" by a guy in order to be happy (along with 100 other requirements that can change daily). rediculous. most women these days are self centered and spoiled IMO.

 

hahahaha. Another reason why your swell

 

lets do it

 

Putting together coherent sentences might give you more credibility.

But seriously, I don't need a "Dr. Phil of AZ" to tell me how to be a sappy push-over.

 

awwww <3, You tickle my fancy too little lady


hah ok so fly down to cali first n then we'll handle it

 

what exactly are we going to handle again?

 

^^means she's gonna beat you. hard.