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Old 05-01-2006 | 12:40 AM
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how often do you tell them?

If you have told your S.O. that you love them (or visa versa), how often do you tell them? i.e. every time you talk to them? before bed only? once in a blue moon? whenever you feel like it? etc etc...
Old 05-01-2006 | 01:03 AM
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post coitus only.
Old 05-01-2006 | 01:26 AM
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Only when it naturally comes out.
Old 05-01-2006 | 02:57 AM
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all too often...
Old 05-01-2006 | 05:36 AM
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Not enough.......

Dom, I love you...
Old 05-01-2006 | 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Only when it naturally comes out.

and how often is that?
Old 05-01-2006 | 07:02 AM
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Several times a day, I mean it each time.
Old 05-01-2006 | 07:44 AM
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When I'm at school usually right before I get off the phone before I go to bed. When I'm at home...whenever really. Not too often though because it looses its I donno.
Old 05-01-2006 | 07:46 AM
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hmmm, whenever I get the urge I guess. Usually when I am sleepy or post coitus
Old 05-01-2006 | 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
and how often is that?

Dont keep count.... maybe once a month?

I dont want the pharse to end up being routine.
Old 05-01-2006 | 08:59 AM
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i rarely say it to my boyfriend. i do love him, i've just never been good at saying that phrase outloud.

and it's nice to hear and all but i don't need to hear it all day long either....
Old 05-01-2006 | 09:36 AM
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when it seems right to say it, which is pretty often!
Old 05-01-2006 | 10:47 AM
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Just about everytime I talk to her.
Old 05-01-2006 | 02:47 PM
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I never say it, but I do love her very much.
Old 05-01-2006 | 02:55 PM
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In response to whenever she says it to me. Or if she helps me flip off and make obscene gestures at other drivers on the road I'll initiate.
Old 05-01-2006 | 03:01 PM
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All the time



<----------PMs girlfriend
Old 05-01-2006 | 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Ol Blue Eyes
All the time



<----------PMs girlfriend
Wait - your girl is a member here too? Does she just have one ID or do each of her "friends" have one too for a total of 3 IDs?
Old 05-01-2006 | 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Wait - your girl is a member here too? Does she just have one ID or do each of her "friends" have one too for a total of 3 IDs?





1 ID that actually gets typed on, the other two IDs sort of lurk around like imnotasquirrel
Old 05-02-2006 | 06:45 AM
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It's the way we end conversations, say goodby in the morning, wish each other well when one or the other goes out of the home, either for an extended business trip or around the corner for milk. Probably 3-5 times a day.....
Old 05-02-2006 | 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
In response to whenever she says it to me. Or if she helps me flip off and make obscene gestures at other drivers on the road I'll initiate.
She's a Keeper!

PS not sarcasm, if I found a woman who would join me in my horrible antics I would marry her on the spot...being an asshole is fun but having 2 is 4 times the fun.
Old 05-02-2006 | 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
She's a Keeper!

PS not sarcasm, if I found a woman who would join me in my horrible antics I would marry her on the spot...being an asshole is fun but having 2 is 4 times the fun.

or twice the poop...depending on how you look at it..
Old 05-02-2006 | 11:43 AM
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Old 05-02-2006 | 12:13 PM
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usually when we're about to hang up, or i'm leaving. We dont see each other that often, and when we dont, we talk like twice a week. It took me 2 years just to say it.
Old 05-02-2006 | 12:39 PM
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Old 05-02-2006 | 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Several times a day, I mean it each time.
Same here. I am the luckiest bastard on this planet. My wife is an angel.
Old 05-17-2006 | 10:59 AM
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i say....just when u are having a sweet moment..and never on the phone. i hate when guys say it on the phone. and i hate when people just say it all the time bc it loses its meaning. i say keep it special and say it only enough to where the other person knows how u feel but it doesnt lose its meaning.
Old 05-17-2006 | 11:06 AM
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Welcome to D&R Rori!



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Old 05-17-2006 | 11:39 PM
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Always post-coitus/after a swallow/roadhead
Always after a home cooked meal
Avoidance of a tear being shed
Any and everytime I know it will cheer her up with 3 simple words.

(long distance relationships suck)
Old 05-19-2006 | 07:23 AM
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All the time....whenever I feel it and want to say it....even if I've already said it three times in the past half day. I mean it every time and wouldn't say it if I didn't. No prescribed time of day or situation, and I don't have a quota.

I think it's important that the people close to me know how much they are loved, appreciated, and valued. I'm lucky to have such awesome people in my life, and they mean a lot to me!
Old 05-25-2006 | 05:32 PM
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i do all the time... she thinks im saying it because she wants me to say it... but i told her i say it cause i mean it... .. then we had sex
Old 05-25-2006 | 05:37 PM
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Once or twice a day.
Old 05-25-2006 | 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by PimpCL23
then we had sex




thanks to your avatar, that is one mental image I could have done without
Old 05-25-2006 | 05:42 PM
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Old 05-25-2006 | 06:58 PM
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Not that often really. Would seem sort of strange to me to just constantly say it. When it comes out its typically because I am really feeling it and its the right time to say it. On the flip side though I dont need to HEAR it constantly either. Its understood.
Old 05-25-2006 | 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Kitn
Not that often really. Would seem sort of strange to me to just constantly say it. When it comes out its typically because I am really feeling it and its the right time to say it. On the flip side though I dont need to HEAR it constantly either. Its understood.
I was going to reply in the other thread, but it disappeared.

First of all, welcome. Judging by your avatar (and by the mere fact that you have one) it seems like you are no stranger to internet forums in general. However, going to the Off Topic parts of a car related site does seem a bit odd. If you've been lurking for a long time and finally decide to post in OT, I would understand. But for someone to jump right into the Dating and Relationship section of a car site with something like that is rather unusual, IMHO.
Old 05-25-2006 | 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by moeronn
I was going to reply in the other thread, but it disappeared.

First of all, welcome. Judging by your avatar (and by the mere fact that you have one) it seems like you are no stranger to internet forums in general. However, going to the Off Topic parts of a car related site does seem a bit odd. If you've been lurking for a long time and finally decide to post in OT, I would understand. But for someone to jump right into the Dating and Relationship section of a car site with something like that is rather unusual, IMHO.

Thanks for the welcome
Yes lurking for quite a while. The off topic section of the forum is not the only place I have been here. Spent quite a bit of time in the car section. However today was suuuuch a long day at work and I was looking to kill time so I started digging into the off topic sections. I just had to comment on that guys thread because it was pretty odd. =/ My first post was actually in the other section in reply to someones baby pics which were suuuper cute.

My husband signed up here aaaages ago when we got our TL. I just felt like signing up today and contributing instead of just reading. I do like to hit up the OT sections first because its a great place to see what the people are really like. Someone giving you technical car answers isnt as apt to show their true nature as they are in the OT where they are chit chatting and giving advice, etc. May be unorthadox but its just one way I decide if a forum is the right fit for me.
Old 05-25-2006 | 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Not enough.......

Dom, I love you...

you cheating bastard!
Old 05-26-2006 | 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by jlukja
Once or twice a day.
whenever the mood strikes.... like now... gotta go!
J/P!




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