I got this question from reading TypeSGearhead's thread about his breakup. How long do you guys usually keep calling the girl to hang out before you realize it's her turn to call? I give it no more than a month and if I've done all the calling up til then, she gets no more calls from me. What about you guys?

 

That is a pretty good time frame dean. If a guy tries to take me out for over a month and I just happen to be "busy" all the time and never call I really have no interest. I usually try to be up front about not wanting to hang, but sometimes its hard, especially if the guy is really sweet and/or hot.

 

A month is too long.

1 week.

 

What about if you're already hanging, but the guy is the only one setting up the hangouts and calling? A guy's gonna lose interest eventually if he's the only one who calls.

 

ONE WEEK

Especially if you hang out.

 

I have rule for everything when it comes to women:

"Three strikes and you're out!" addendum after the 3 strikes is she does something awesomely incredible to win me over, then she gets another at bat.

If I call 2 times and leave a message each time, she better call me before the third call. because if I call then and she doesn;t answer. that's it no more phone calls from me ever until she callas and has a good explanation e.g. My grandmother died and I was out of the country for the last week.

3 strikes applies here too, I will set-up 3 hang-out sessions without her setting up any. After the third I will not ask her to hang-out again, if she never does set one up herself then I stop talking to her.

 

How about if you're getting ass and she still hasn't called yet after a week? You still not gonna call?

 

If you are getting the ass screw hanging out, just keep calling her and set-up "fucking sessions" and bang her over and over again until one of you gets tired of the other.

 

If you're already having sex, and you can call her up to have sex - and she's down. wtf do you want a call from her for?

it's a booty call

 

But if she never calls, you still have to give that ass up in favor of a girl who will actually call. One sided shit never works out.

 

So then she should be giving you a cock call.

 

huh? booty calls don't last forever

 

 

Sounds to me like one of two things:

1. You like this girl and you want more from her than just sex.
2. Your ego is taking a slight bruising because you hit and she isn't all over you.

Me personally when I meet a girl that I know I can just call up and get ass from everytime, I am ecstatic. No BS, no dating, just hey me and my boys are gonna be having a drink at so and so, why don't you and your friends come through, and I know at the end of that night I got some ass fo sure. Or even better I'm at the crib and feeling horny and boom I can just call her up and go over.

I would try to either get over my ego and realize that I have instant ass on hand, or try to get past my feelings for her and realize that I have instant ass. Either way keep her on hand if only for the convenience of the instant ass.

 

I agree with Waddy

 

I never call. If they want me, then I TELL them to call me.



You have to be very assertive, if they know you want it, and know you can provide it, they will come to you. ====ARCHIVE THOSE WORDS.


My newest girl, a hotass flip honey, said to me: "that's a little demanding isn't it?"

 

Batin Dean, you got no game mang.


You're still in gramma school kid.

 

What? Nigga please! I didn't say I'm going through this bullshit right now! I asked how long you males give females before you stop calling them. What is wrong with your assuming asses?