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Old Dec 25, 2003 | 06:53 PM
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how many is too many?

How many girls to date an once is TOO many?


I know, most of you guys will say, AS MANY AS POSSIBLE,


but it actually gets very time consuming, since my time is so limited.




Typically, my limit is 6, anymore than that at once gets difficult to remember individual things about each one.


So what's your answer?!

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Old Dec 25, 2003 | 07:40 PM
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I dunno........I'll let you know when I get more than 0.
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Old Dec 25, 2003 | 07:53 PM
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6 is my limit. Anything more is just wierd.
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Old Dec 25, 2003 | 09:15 PM
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I couldn't handle more than two, and that's only if one's on the way out and one's a new interest.
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Old Dec 25, 2003 | 11:41 PM
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there was a time I was dating 2 girls, one in NY one in AZ and at the same time sleeping with 3 once a week or so.

It got too expensive and too busy. I think I ended up talking on the phone 4 ours a day between the 5 of them.
The kicker is when I was talking to one and I sent an IM to the other but I recovered quickly from that slip up.

Now I'm on the date no one, sleep with one night stands and have the few occs. fucks that you take out to dinner a few times and that's it.

The toughest thing ever was hooking up/dating two girls that went to the same high school and both were friends. That was fun for the three of us, everyone was hiding everything from each other. We laugh about it now 4 years later though.
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Old Dec 26, 2003 | 09:58 AM
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i used to date 4 or 5 at a time... i never paid for athing and all the girls knew about each othere.. since I was honest they seemed to not care.. then i grew outta the player role and somewhere came a conscience.. and I wont date MORE THAN 1 AT A TIME anymore... i feel that i need to find a girl for a relationship and in order to do so i gotta give each a fair shot at it... i dont know anymore whats right or wrong.. i guess its whats right for you!!!
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Old Dec 26, 2003 | 10:51 AM
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uhhh. are you guys talking about girls you just fuck? i don't really consider that dating. i consider that just calling a girl specifically for sex. i'm stocked for now on those.


girls i can date are far an few. I'm real picky. because i only like a certain personality. I can't stand dumb girls with voices that crack glass at any site of mass advertising. The type of girl i date usually is somewhat of an intellect, good looking, shorter than me, and is good in bed. I live bymyself and for someone my age, the girls i date get comfortable in my apartment quick. I always have to decide quickly whether or not to get rid of them.

check the thread "mental relapse" to see how this playa got too caught up.
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 09:15 PM
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no i meant girls that i would go out with and then fawk... DATING
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 10:05 PM
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however many you can handle comfortably without breaking the bank? i think you know the answer to your own question
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 10:05 PM
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dating 6 girls at once has to be expensive
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 12:47 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
no i meant girls that i would go out with and then fawk... DATING

is that DATING though?

when you are dating, isn't it implied that you are looking for a girlfriend or something?

When i say i'm dating a girl, that means that i'm truly considering her, or something.

If i'm just fucking a girl, i say she's my friend. thats it.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by amisconception
dating 6 girls at once has to be expensive
yep 1 is bad enough. Hell i think I'd own hollywood if i went and saw 6 movies a week.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 01:07 AM
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When you're dating, you're playing the field. Unless you agree to be specific, or move beyond simple fun stuff like movie or whatever, you're free to date as many as you want.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 10:54 AM
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One is enough.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 11:01 AM
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Originally posted by dets
is that DATING though?

when you are dating, isn't it implied that you are looking for a girlfriend or something?

When i say i'm dating a girl, that means that i'm truly considering her, or something.

If i'm just fucking a girl, i say she's my friend. thats it.
I see dating as casually enjoying ones company and letting things take its course... Booty call / friends with benefits is what I call what you are describing...

Yes in Dating there is some attachment emotionally to the girls.. NOT just FAWKING!!!
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 12:34 PM
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More than 3 starts taxing my financial and time resources to the point where the rtn in investment is not worth it. If i'm dating 3 and i'm interested in a different girl then it's time to rpl one.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by Bulldog01
One is enough.
I don't know if I could deal with the stress of dating more than one person. If it were just random sex I wouldn't go beyond 3, but 4 if 2 of the guys were into a group thing
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 03:13 PM
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3 is my limit.
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Old Dec 29, 2003 | 10:55 PM
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can't handle more than two.... i'm lucky my two girls now haven't totally found out about each other.... they'd have my head if they knew...
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Old Dec 30, 2003 | 09:42 AM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
can't handle more than two.... i'm lucky my two girls now haven't totally found out about each other.... they'd have my head if they knew...
LITERALLY?





Whats up dude?
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Old Dec 30, 2003 | 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by Ashburner
6 is my limit. Anything more is just wierd.
as ash rides the wave of his Vegas post........
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