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View Poll Results: How long do you wait to call a girl?
Call the very next day
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5.56%
Wait one day
6
33.33%
Wait two days
4
22.22%
Wait three days
5
27.78%
Wait four days or more
2
11.11%
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How long do you wait?

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Old 01-04-2004, 08:14 PM
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How long do you wait?

Okay here's the deal. This past weekend I went out and got some numbers. 3 to be exact. Anyway, my question to you guys is how long do you wait until you call them? I usually wait about a couple of days. I know some people call the next day but to me that seems like you might come off looking a bit desperate. So whats the norm? I'm gonna leave this up for discussion. It would be nice if we could a girls point of view. So everyone leave your suggestions and dont forget to vote!!!
Old 01-04-2004, 08:25 PM
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Didn't you see Swingers?
I think you're supposed to wait three, but I'm kinda desperate so two it is.

Since you got multiple numbers, I'd stagger them. Call the girl you liked the most after three days, and the other two one day before and one day after. This way you can make plans that don't overlap since you'll have 1 day advance notice of what you will be doing with the other girls.
Old 01-04-2004, 08:38 PM
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i say wait one day but thats just me.

If i was interested in you and gave you my number and you waited more than 3 days, i would think youre not interested, or youre so unsure of what to do you listened to a movie.
Old 01-04-2004, 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i say wait one day but thats just me.

If i was interested in you and gave you my number and you waited more than 3 days, i would think youre not interested, or youre so unsure of what to do you listened to a movie.

Old 01-04-2004, 08:51 PM
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I meet a lot of people and I'm never really pressed to talked to someone. I don't really give them a time limit. I often forget the people whom I gave my number to and vise versa.
Old 01-04-2004, 09:12 PM
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Originally posted by einsatz
Didn't you see Swingers?
First thought that entered my mind.
Old 01-04-2004, 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by einsatz
Didn't you see Swingers?
I think you're supposed to wait three, but I'm kinda desperate so two it is.

Since you got multiple numbers, I'd stagger them. Call the girl you liked the most after three days, and the other two one day before and one day after. This way you can make plans that don't overlap since you'll have 1 day advance notice of what you will be doing with the other girls.

Hmmmmmmmmm........ Good advice! I just might have to do that!
Old 01-04-2004, 09:25 PM
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lol yet both the girls on this post just disagreed with that, youre going to do it lol.
Old 01-04-2004, 10:08 PM
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am i seeing dejavu here or what. see my thread farther down the page as many people have answered the same exact question. Thread title "should i call or no".
Old 01-04-2004, 10:11 PM
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few days
Old 01-04-2004, 10:46 PM
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hahahaha, oh gosh
Usually I don't call back.

But if I meet a girl at school or at a party, I wait till the next weekend. or leading up to the next weekend.
Ex. Saturday night party, i'll call her thursday afternoon.

If I meet a girl on a trip and see her and she says call back, i'll call her back in a few weeks then tell her the next time I will be in the area and call her then.

Oh there are so many different rules, but never, ever, ever, call the next day even if they say oh call me tomorrow. NO DON'T!!!
Call them next week, and if they ask why, make up some excuse that sounds really important. Always works, trust me
Old 01-04-2004, 11:05 PM
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yay Tony!!
Old 01-04-2004, 11:26 PM
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Originally posted by pgatour1
hahahaha, oh gosh
Usually I don't call back.

But if I meet a girl at school or at a party, I wait till the next weekend. or leading up to the next weekend.
Ex. Saturday night party, i'll call her thursday afternoon.



if i get a number on a Friday or Saturday...i will usually call the next Thursday..works out great. Yeah and never all the next day or even the day after i think.
Old 01-04-2004, 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by CL Hype


if i get a number on a Friday or Saturday...i will usually call the next Thursday..works out great. Yeah and never all the next day or even the day after i think.

Gotta think like a playa to be a playa,


And to everyone, we might sound like assholes, but we are getting laid. So if that is your goal, might want to listen damnit

Like I always say "Getting Laid is Easy"
Old 01-05-2004, 12:30 AM
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Originally posted by UNCTYPE-S
am i seeing dejavu here or what. see my thread farther down the page as many people have answered the same exact question. Thread title "should i call or no".
I must of missed it!!! I dont get on here to often but either way it's to late.



So whats this movie everyone is talking about??? I feel left out! I gotta go look it up on the net!
Old 01-05-2004, 12:38 AM
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If i get a girls number i usualy dont call till thursday either, you dont want to be desperate and its the right dya to set up plans for the weekend. If you call her during the week you'll probably want to call her again to confirm your plans or something, and you met the girl once, what the hell do you have to talk about?

To silvia and geisha, yes girls want to be called the next day, but anticipation is important.

Its all a game, do it right and you'll be rewarded.
Old 01-05-2004, 10:37 AM
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i wasnt exactly talking about the NEXT day..
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