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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 12:55 AM
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How do you break up with a girl with low self esteem?

At first i was digging her, but after a few dates, this girl is really wack. I know for a fat she has low self esteem, and was looking for a way to be nice about it. For the last 2 days she has only been getting voicemail, and im tired of blocking her calls. she knows somethign is up, but how can I be nice about it?
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 12:59 AM
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just fucking man up and do it, dont be a fuckign pussy, its only delaying the obvious, she knows whats comming, shes been through it before.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:08 AM
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All girls have low self esteem.
Just break up with her on AIM
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
All girls have low self esteem.
Just break up with her on AIM
try the suggestion in a previous thread and fax her
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted by thatguy
At first i was digging her, but after a few dates, this girl is really wack. I know for a fat she has low self esteem, and was looking for a way to be nice about it. For the last 2 days she has only been getting voicemail, and im tired of blocking her calls. she knows somethign is up, but how can I be nice about it?
Maybe you should tell her why your breaking up with her & encourage her to do something about it.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:46 AM
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If it wasn't for girls with low self esteem, who would work at strip clubs?
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:53 AM
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Give her a Golden Shower..that should help her out.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
All girls have low self esteem.
Just break up with her on AIM
Right on both accounts
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:06 AM
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If it wasn't for girls with low self esteem, who would work at strip clubs?
Saw that on Comedy Central last nite too. Funny guy.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted by thatguy
At first i was digging her, but after a few dates, this girl is really wack. I know for a fat she has low self esteem, and was looking for a way to be nice about it. For the last 2 days she has only been getting voicemail, and im tired of blocking her calls. she knows somethign is up, but how can I be nice about it?


Hey aren't you thatguy?































I knew it!

Back to the topic:
I'm sure that you're not a D*ckhead (like some people here), because if you were you wouldn't care so much about her feelings. My advice is to tell her that you're not
interested in her and even though she is a wonderful person, you know for a fat that their is someone out there that will treat her better. Encourage her and tell her that mr. right is out there somewhere, so just be patient. Apologize and tell her that she is not what you're looking for. Then turn around and walk away!
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 09:56 AM
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Yeah, let her know that its just not working out. One of the shittiest things in the world is just to be left hanging without so much as a reason. It'll probably make her self image even worse that way Just man up and tell her whats going on.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 09:57 AM
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Is she a fat girl? What makes her so self conscious? What exactly is turning you off about this girl aside from her lack of confidence? I've never met a girl who wasn't at least a little self conscious and lacked some self esteem. If you get rid of her because she lacks self esteem, the next girl will have to go as well.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 10:53 AM
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fuckin break up with her......do you think most of those girls would think twice about breaking up with a guy? fuck no.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 12:03 PM
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like this "BITCH YOU"RE UGLY I DONT WANT TO BE W/ U ANYMORE!!!"
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by chris3240929
Saw that on Comedy Central last nite too. Funny guy.
Actual heard it in a song/rap on a radio station in NYC last week.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
Give her a Golden Shower..that should help her out.
Or try a nice nothing says I dont wanna be with you anymore than a hot karl.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
All girls have low self esteem.
Just break up with her on AIM


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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:31 PM
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btw, i'm a GLORIOUS BEACON OF LIGHT!
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 01:36 PM
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Wow, you guys sure know how to give great advice.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 02:34 PM
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Fax it to her.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 02:39 PM
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Turn it around on her, make it seem like she's breaking up with you. Get all clingy around her like you can't live without her, but make a lot of blunders as well. Always show up late, forget your wallet and let her pay, talk very negatively around her(ex girls, bad boss, underpaid, etc.). You should whine around her often and make her feel like your life is shit. She won't want your company any longer, she'll leave you within 2 dates.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
Turn it around on her, make it seem like she's breaking up with you. Get all clingy around her like you can't live without her, but make a lot of blunders as well. Always show up late, forget your wallet and let her pay, talk very negatively around her(ex girls, bad boss, underpaid, etc.). You should whine around her often and make her feel like your life is shit. She won't want your company any longer, she'll leave you within 2 dates.
That could work, but you'd be surprised what some people will put up with, especially a chick with low self esteem.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 04:42 PM
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Tell her you just want to be friends!
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted by mc_yanzo
Tell her you just want to be friends!

ask her What have you done for me lately
And then tell her I don't see no rings on your fingers.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 04:58 PM
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Tell her she's fat
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 05:04 PM
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tell her you slept with her mother. that should break things off nice and clean . heh
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 05:27 PM
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if u care enough to not care about just cutting the cord... then maybe u should stay with her
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by charlesgage
Tell her she's fat
This is a good strategy.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
All girls have low self esteem.
Just break up with her on AIM




I'm usually just mean to them to try to make them go away. It doesn't usually work.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:12 PM
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Tell her the truth!

Tell her you have dated men that give better than she does


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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by DivineCL
Wow, you guys sure know how to give great advice.

i didnt see your advice here.....
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:07 PM
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if u care enough to not care about just cutting the cord... then maybe u should stay with her
no way, but i dont want some psycho broad trying to kill herself ya know? I did what divine said, and she still wants to be friends.....
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:24 PM
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no way, but i dont want some psycho broad trying to kill herself ya know? I did what divine said, and she still wants to be friends.....
You gave her that friendship speech? That was pretty bold of you because I don't think I could make any premeditated speeches to a girl. Were you fooling around with this girl? how far did it go with her?
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 08:28 PM
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wait a minute here...You got a girl?
I'm still in a little shock, explain how this happen

I'm just fucking with you...good job breaking the shit off, you are coming here in a few months where there is pussy all over the place.
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 10:00 PM
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Another favorite break up technique of mine:

1) IDB @ her place
1b) optional ass-to-mouth conversion
2) nut in her eye
3) wipe your wang on her curtains
4) steal something on the way out
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Old Nov 3, 2004 | 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Another favorite break up technique of mine:

1) IDB @ her place
1b) optional ass-to-mouth conversion
2) nut in her eye
3) wipe your wang on her curtains
4) steal something on the way out


HAHAHAAHAHAHA..
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Old Nov 4, 2004 | 10:30 AM
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2X ^^
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Old Nov 20, 2004 | 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted by thatguy
At first i was digging her, but after a few dates, this girl is really wack. I know for a fat she has low self esteem, and was looking for a way to be nice about it. For the last 2 days she has only been getting voicemail, and im tired of blocking her calls. she knows somethign is up, but how can I be nice about it?

Be straightforward: tell her she's not good enough for you. Then leave.
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Old Nov 20, 2004 | 02:40 AM
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man, we're all assholes...

ask a friend to call her for you...

owned by Smitty again
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