how do you guys feel about girls that you hook up (aka sex) with on the first date..

does it change your perception of the girl? do you think she's a "ho" because if she did it with you, how many others has she done it with?

input plz!

 

Honestly, I won't even want to hook up on the first date, especially if it has relationship potential. It just makes it more special. But if she is willing to go all the way the first date, you kind of have to think if this is a special thing or if she does this all the time. Maybe the date went really well? Then I guess it's okay.

I'll probably get flamed for this or get my man card revoked.

 

well one thing is for sure, it wasn't planned at all (by her or by me) and it just kinda happened...but it still makes me wonder

 

You can tell that she didn't plan it?

 

maybe she just had a long ass dry spell and felt a connection? women usually make up their mind if they're sleeping with you within the first few minutes, whether it has relationship potential or not.

 

lol lets just say ya i could tell she wasn't prepared... lol

 

pics? lol

 

Ho or not, it's awesome.

 

I hooked up with my wife on our first date. Married over 15 years now.

 

About the same, don't think it was the first date, but wasnt far after. Married 15 years.

Also, need pics.

 

I bet she didn't orgasm.

Naturally furry?

 

^

 

fixed.

 

there's a lot of things that could play into the decision, you have to look at more than just when it happened

 

Double standard much? Hopefully she's wondering if you're a ho, too.

 

 

Wondering? Have you seen this guy....

 

Yes! But has she?

 

Hi I'm here for the pics?

 

LMAO I'm assuming she didn't see the legendary Maui 3-way photos starring our boy Akura. Or....maybe she did and that's why she gave it up?

 

 

 

Same here, first date, July 4, 1980; married 31 yrs. And she was 'fresh' at the time.

 

Personally, I've never hooked up with a girl on the first date. Closest I ever got was her topless and some inside the pants hand stuff. And that was when I had some serious alcohol and self esteem issues. At that point, I would've hooked up with anything that moved though. Now that I'm older and wiser, my outlook on sex and dating has changed. Would I hook up on a first date? Well, if I saw any real relationship potential there and I wanted to pursue it probably not. If I was just looking for a piece of a and not really wanting to commit, certainly. But then I wouldn't care if she was a ho. Bring it on.

 

If it was an actual date, then no, it wasn't the first date or even the second.

 

IMO it's only slutty if getting poked was the girl's intention from the start. Like if the date (getting dressed up, eating dinner, talking, etc.) was all just a formality.

 

lol i'll take a pic next time she comes over and i'll post it for you horn dogs..


and for the ones who said i bet she didn't orgasm....yah she didn't..not even once..LOL thats why she's come back everyday since...

oh and no she doesn't have any tattoos either

 

pm me her pic and number, I'll get the job done.


It's really hard to say. You need to make that decision on how she acts. You guys could have simply 'clicked'. Maybe she found you irresistible, or maybe it was the roofies you used. (Which also explains how you know she wasnt 'prepared' and also why she didnt orgasm)

 

Lol

 

Dont get laid much huh?

 

I do this on first dates.

 

 

Right now, not so much. Gf's on the other side of the country (literally.) At my last job we had a lot of interns who came from all over the country on various educational programs. They put them up 2 to a room in an apartment complex and provided transportation to and from work for them. There were 2 washers and 2 dryers per building. I had a car, a washer/dryer and beer in the fridge so I was getting laid all the time. Hey, gotta do something while you're drunk and waiting on your laundry

 

@ thread.

It's only weird if you make it weird. My buddy poked after hanging out with a girl. She was hot too.. he felt so weird how easy it was, he didn't see her again. Get out of the way Poindexter.

 

I don't know that I see it as a problem. Hell most of us here try to hook up as soon and as often as possible. Why get bent out of shape when a woman does it?

 

Morals and standards have changed, nowadays I think its starting to become normal, almost an expectation.

 

Double standard, stereotypes, old fashioned thinking, etc.

Maybe your expectation lol

 

Who cares I wouldn't think any less of a woman who slept with a guy on the first date.

If you feel a connection you feel a connection; let those balls drop and get it in.

/thread.

 

Eww.. a chick that sleeps with Hapa on the first date.

 

Don't be jealous. You wish you could pull off my chain wallet, wolf t-shirt, leather jacket, pony tail and faded black jeans

Chicks dig it.