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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 12:12 AM
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The highs and lows of being single

This week the lows outnumbered the highs.

The high:
Friday I banged two different chicks within 3 hours of each other, I feel like a god.

The low:
-Sunday I go to the movies with this one chick that I've known for a while and thought that she was interested, then when I go in for the kiss I get the "friends" speech. WTF? How did I misread her so badly.

-Today at work (over e-mail, we don't work together) I get the cold shoulder from a girl I have been dating. She has been getting kinda clingy so I have been kinda testy around her, and I have been busy with work so we haven't seen each othe much lately. This one I wouldn't mind so much except for what just happened.

-Another girl I was dating invites me over to check out her new TV (which I helped her to pick out), I am thinking cool maybe a little makeout session or so. WRONG, I am there for about a hour and after Nip/Tuck while we are channel surfing she drops this little ditty on me out the clear blue silence "Uh, me and my boyfriend got back together".

WTF am I supposed to do with that? We are chillin and she just lets it go like a fart in church. So I say "Congratulations, I hope it works out better for you this time", she says thanks, I say, "Yeah, I am gonna go now", she has the audacity to say "Now you know you have to come back so we can check out a DVD on the new TV". Please I don't need your sympathy, just let me leave, you'll be lucky if you ever see me again.

I hope this weekend is better because the last few days have not been so good.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 01:29 AM
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damn, it'll get better man. Hang in there!
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 01:51 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
damn, it'll get better man. Hang in there!
says the Other woman...
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 01:52 AM
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on and IBTorquesidioticwhitechicksremarks...
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 01:56 AM
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Originally Posted by sarlacc23
says the Other woman...

lol :P
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 04:46 AM
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i think the "high" outweighs all the other stuff
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted by rise
i think the "high" outweighs all the other stuff
Yeah, the 2 girls within 3 hours is key. And the second girl had no idea??? I hope you showered first. I thought 2 girls in 2 days was good, but you got that covered. Like the fart in church analogy too.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
Yeah, the 2 girls within 3 hours is key. And the second girl had no idea??? I hope you showered first. I thought 2 girls in 2 days was good, but you got that covered. Like the fart in church analogy too.
Oh yeah no doubt I showered. Chick #1 was right after work at my place and chick#2 was later on that night at her place I had it all planned out and executed to perfection.

Thanks Geisha.

BTW-
The high does outweigh the lows, it's just that the lows have all happened in the last two days, as the high is wearing off, so the lows are very fresh wounds. I am still replaying what happened last night in my head, it was like getting smacked with baseball bat in the back of the head, my whole body got warm when she said it, in my mind I was like
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 03:06 PM
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Ok it must be dump Waddy week I just lost another one! Who has been forwarding these threads to my bitches?

The chick that was giving me the cold shoulder yesterday who is also chick#2 from Friday just gave me the hook. Because I wasn't giving her enough attention, I told her from the beginning that it was just sex and to make sure she could handle it, I knew she couldn't but she said she could, I knew I was right.

Oh well it was a good few months, I'm gonna miss her friends, they were cool as shit. And of course I'll miss the regular sex, she was a mad nasty freak <-----whatever you are thinking, yes she did it.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 03:10 PM
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since it was just sex and she knew it maybe you didn't hit the spot correctly? Sounds like you have game but maybe you don't perform as expected...not dissing just throwing ideas out there.

Originally Posted by Waddy
Ok it must be dump Waddy week I just lost another one! Who has been forwarding these threads to my bitches?

The chick that was giving me the cold shoulder yesterday who is also chick#2 from Friday just gave me the hook. Because I wasn't giving her enough attention, I told her from the beginning that it was just sex and to make sure she could handle it, I knew she couldn't but she said she could, I knew I was right.

Oh well it was a good few months, I'm gonna miss her friends, they were cool as shit. And of course I'll miss the regular sex, she was a mad nasty freak <-----whatever you are thinking, yes she did it.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
since it was just sex and she knew it maybe you didn't hit the spot correctly? Sounds like you have game but maybe you don't perform as expected...not dissing just throwing ideas out there.
I knew somebody was gonna suggest this, you guys are so predictable

Nah not that, I've been hitting it since April, and she is repeat performer I used to hit 2 years ago before my last relationship. Then as soon as she heard I was single again she called up and I started hitting it again that same night. I know for sure it wasn't the sex.

Remember a few months back I posted a thread about a girl that I was hitting and she was having doubts about having a fuck buddy relationship? Same girl.

She thinks I am boyfriend material and wants to be my girlfriend, she has been hoping that through good sex I would develop those feelings for her. Lately I have been super busy with work so I haven't been seeing her much, and I didn't call her all that much to begin with. Then I kinda let it slip that I had been on a couple dates, she finally put 2+2 together and realized that I meant it when I said I wanted to keep the relationship strictly sexual.

I knew it was coming, it just sucks that it happened in the same week I get shot down by one chick, and waived by another. I guess bad things do always come in 3's.

EDIT:
Found the thread I was talking about, if you wanna check it out:
http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showthread.php?t=138166
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 03:59 PM
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I think I remember it...like I said, just thinking out loud.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 04:23 PM
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Don't listen to ferizzo he is just mad at his fat sweaty greasy ass getting married and feels the need to hate on your game because he has none whatsoever!

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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by phil2
Don't listen to me because I am just mad at my fat sweaty greasy ass getting married and feel the need to hate on your game because I have none whatsoever!

Phil, we knew this already...we've seen the pics, no need to rehash!
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
Phil, we knew this already...we've seen the pics, no need to rehash!
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 04:43 PM
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Code:
You take the good, you take the bad 
you take them both and there you have 
the facts of life 
the facts of life 

There's a time you've got to go 
and show you're growing and now you know 
the facts of life 
the facts of life 

When the world never seems 
to be livin' up to your dreams 
and suddenly you're finding out 
the facts of life are all about you, you 

It takes a lot to get 'em right 
when you're learning the facts of life 
learning the facts of life, 
learning the facts of life
To me, the good outweighs the bad in your case.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 06:05 PM
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x10000000000000000000000 = Mantis.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 06:13 PM
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damm with the way your game sounds you got that shit on lock. there are more then 3 fish in the sea. could you hook a brother up with some pointers. fuck i need to meet some hot single females.... ugggg being single sux if you dont have any laidies.
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Old Jun 30, 2004 | 11:16 PM
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lmao mantis
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 07:26 AM
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 07:39 AM
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manitis .... awesome

oh yeah and :ghey: for even remembering that show
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 08:59 AM
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oh yeah and :ghey: for even remembering that show
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 10:10 AM
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Waddy, what's up playa?
Those chicks were your 2004 2nd Quater chicks.
It's time for some fresh fish. I'm sure within the next two weeks you will find some new 3rd quater chicks to hangout with/bang.
congrats on your "highnote" way to close out the 2nd quater w/ a bang!
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Gixxster
Waddy, what's up playa?
Those chicks were your 2004 2nd Quater chicks.
It's time for some fresh fish. I'm sure within the next two weeks you will find some new 3rd quater chicks to hangout with/bang.
congrats on your "highnote" way to close out the 2nd quater w/ a bang!



I like the way you put that, "second quarter chicks", yesterday was the end of June now wasn't it? I'm gonna have to incorporate that into my vernacular, let the third quarter of '04 begin!

Well this weekend I am going up to Austin, and tonight I'm hitting downtown wit ma boys, so I'll be out recruiting some new prospects.
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 12:42 PM
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let the pimp juice flow playa!
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 05:05 PM
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haha, i love the "quarters" thing.

single is good and bad...

good- no clingy bf/gf shit. (i had a clingy bf, it sucked.) can date 2+ people, flirt all you want.
bad- no one that you can just hang out whenever you want, laze around with, all that mushy stuff. all sex when single is usually meaningless and empty .

and i'm really glad you showered.. lol. that would have been nastyass for the 2nd girl.
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Old Jul 1, 2004 | 05:18 PM
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haha, i love the "quarters" thing.

single is good and bad...

good- no clingy bf/gf shit. (i had a clingy bf, it sucked.) can date 2+ people, flirt all you want.
bad- no one that you can just hang out whenever you want, laze around with, all that mushy stuff. all sex when single is usually meaningless and empty .

and i'm really glad you showered.. lol. that would have been nastyass for the 2nd girl.
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Old Jul 28, 2004 | 04:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
Ok it must be dump Waddy week I just lost another one! Who has been forwarding these threads to my bitches?

The chick that was giving me the cold shoulder yesterday who is also chick#2 from Friday just gave me the hook. Because I wasn't giving her enough attention, I told her from the beginning that it was just sex and to make sure she could handle it, I knew she couldn't but she said she could, I knew I was right.

Oh well it was a good few months, I'm gonna miss her friends, they were cool as shit. And of course I'll miss the regular sex, she was a mad nasty freak <-----whatever you are thinking, yes she did it.
maybe it's the bad karma from bangin 2 chicks in 3 hours??
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Old Jul 28, 2004 | 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
maybe it's the bad karma from bangin 2 chicks in 3 hours??
It has to be since then I have only banged one chick in 3 weeks!

Well tonight Operation: Get My Cawk Wet goes into full effect, it's time to get out the black book and call in reinforcements.
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Old Jul 28, 2004 | 09:44 AM
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i miss being single and free, ben with my current chick for 5 years, the other day i see this chick with the prettiest eyes and body, we kept looking at each other all night at this party, and i wanted to try and talk to her and turns out i am scared to approach girls. I use to approach girls easily now its a mission just to say hi. i know i could have talked to her.....
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Old Jul 28, 2004 | 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by The Eliminator
i miss being single and free, ben with my current chick for 5 years, the other day i see this chick with the prettiest eyes and body, we kept looking at each other all night at this party, and i wanted to try and talk to her and turns out i am scared to approach girls. I use to approach girls easily now its a mission just to say hi. i know i could have talked to her.....
That's because you're a sissy a straight up wuss. :ghey:














j/k
I know how it is.
I've been single for about 3 months after being with my ex for 5 years and
lost a lot of my game. However I am looking for a chick that is worth my time.
I really don't like chicks with baggage.
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Old Aug 1, 2004 | 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted by 12MiDNiTe
That's because you're a sissy a straight up wuss. :ghey:














j/k
I know how it is.
I've been single for about 3 months after being with my ex for 5 years and
lost a lot of my game. However I am looking for a chick that is worth my time.
I really don't like chicks with baggage.
guess you will be single the rest of your life....hope you look good in a monk suit!!!LOL
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Old Aug 1, 2004 | 06:58 AM
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he probably means he wants to find someone who doesnt wear their baggage on their sleeve. We all have baggage but no one likes a psycho
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Old Aug 1, 2004 | 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
he probably means he wants to find someone who doesnt wear their baggage on their sleeve. We all have baggage but no one likes a psycho

You can't expect to be close to another person and be able to completely ignore their problems/issues. It's finding someone that's well balanced that's the hard part.

And IMO, after a 5 year relationship you should really not try to get into another one so quickly. Just chill out and enjoy being single for a while. Being single doesn't necessarily mean being lonely or bored
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Old Aug 15, 2004 | 03:51 PM
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shit in va i think all of the girl come with prescriptions. i think there all crazy!!!!!
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Old Aug 20, 2004 | 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
he probably means he wants to find someone who doesnt wear their baggage on their sleeve. We all have baggage but no one likes a psycho

But for some reason, i find the ones with soo much baggage!!! Not just a carry-on either...a whole damn luggage line of baggage!!!!!


-sigh-

signle is great, cause of the ability to flirt and date whoeever whenever...
horrible,cause when you're ready to settle down...chances are they aren't..or you'll get dicked over like WADDY.
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Old Aug 20, 2004 | 03:46 PM
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damn, wish I could stop the drama llama from following you home good luck reflex!
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