how do you get a girl off without using tounge, and no sex, using fingers and such (no penetration) i know to concentrate on the clit but is there anything else? any tips? it's been a while since i've had a girl i couldn't give a real good fingerbanging and or fucking to, so i dunno what i'm doing (imagine me saying that) @(#%@#%

thankz

 

No reason why you shouldn't pack a small vibrator. They will love it.

 

I call it the Houdini - put your middle and ring fingers together and press firmly together on top of your thumb. Jam it in there and yell "Presto Changeo!"






Or you could just pay attention to how she reacts to different things you do down there and see which she responds to with the most heavy moaning then repeat that.

 

nope, she doesnt like em..

 

wtf?!?!

 

 

Palm facing up, 2 fingers in, curl fingers back and forth, wash, rinse, repeat

 

read the first post, no insertion... any other ideas?

 

Thats fucking impossible...you should try talking to her in a REALLY REALLY sexy voice.

You could also pull a howard stern on her...but I doubt thats possible

 

Some girls its possible, everyone is different.

Lie next to her, kiss, rub clit with middle finger in clockwise and counter-clockwise motion. Also do the mouse scroll wheel motion. Seems to work

 

I just came.

 

 

Holy shit, that may have been the hardest I've ever laughed from reading something

 

Aw shucks, Stevie...did you hafta share that with us...!?



Now, I'm having this weird image of a dude with rabbit ears and groaning.

 

How is this suppose to be difficult?

 

 

 

yup, that's what i do and my girlfriend loovvves it.

 

I'm assuming this is the persian chick?

 

Actually, the Houdini is when you're gettin a girl from behind and just before you bust, you pull out and spit on her back. Then, when she's not expecting it, you bust in her face.


Anyway to answer AkuraCLS, tease the hell out of her first, kiss her neck, ear lobes, nips, etc. Then, when she's about to go crazy start using your fingers and trace them around her inner thighs. After that, tease her some more until she can't take it anymore. Then slide your finger in slowly and start gently playing w/ her clit.

 

You would be correct sir.

But yeah. Do what Kurt said, but realize every girl is different. Let her move your hand around until shes comfortable.

Theres a very fine line between playing and hurting down there.

 

I just came.

 

wstevens orgasm>whiskers orgasm

 

get her to show you how she likes it. Then when shes done, have her give you head.

 

I think Whiskers faked his.

 

 

Now you know how it feels....

 

if you can't get a girl off, using only your hands without penetration, then you seriously need to work on your game. It's not rocket science, just take your time, and pay special attention too all of her erogenous zones that are not between her legs or on her chest.

 

 

HOUDINI IS THE BEST
the chicks reaction---->

 

hands, feet, ears, neck, nose, forehead, thighs, forearms, small of her back, in her hairline.....

 

Are you referring to this one or this one(minus the knife, Dom) ?

 

I guess you can start with a massage to make her relax. Kiss her and work your way down the neck, chest, belly, inner thighs, and then kiss her lips very softly. Once it's wet, you can try stimulating her clit with your finger. Do it slowly first and watch her reactions. Ask her too what she likes (re: exact area, pressure). Communication is important.

 

Couldn't agree more. As a guy, I want to know what's good and what works. I'd rather be more certain as to what will be best for her. That and it's nice if, during this, there's a little sexier and sometimes dirtier conversation.

 

Please explain the reason for all of the restrictions. The no penetration thing I can sort of understand, but if you're allowed to rub with the fingers, why can't you use your tounge without penetration?

 

 

I went out with a girl who refused oral, and also had a friend who ran into the same situation. Its rare but it happens. I think its because they are self consious or something