think you guys may have been right, but i don't want to give in and admit that maybe she still has feelings for me b/c if she really doesn't it'll hurt again. BUT the clown called me last night at 10:30 twice - no message. who calls at 10:30 at night just to say hi?
i have no idea what she wants. and i'm afraid to know.
should i call back? or......................
should i just kill her?

 

okay take this how you want okay man.
first off do you want your ex back? If so let her come to you. if she comes to you(like as in calling or come over). because if you call her and she isn't intrested in you(and still pissed at you) it's like a victory for her because she knows she's won because your feeling realing depressed because you can't have her back.

Dude I was in your same shoes about a month ago. I was engaged with my shorty(we were together 1.5 year). she had everything(the nice ring, i took her to Alaska for our 1 year annivesery, paid for everything) but she wanted to change my personality I basically said no your not changing me. she said either change or it's over. so i chose it's over.the reason why is i couldn't handle someone changing my personality. pretty soon your spirit dies. and I'm thinking if I'm gonna marry this girl I want the rest of my life to be fun not blow.

So my mom said why don't you call Sherri(that's my Ex) I called her 1 time(the day after we broke up) but i made her life hell. I said we talked awhile and said HEY YOU KNOW I GOT 3 DATES LINED UP FOR THIS WEEKEND.Then she hung up the phone.(what did i have to lose she already broke up with me).

it all depends if you want her back man.