Ok, I looked up some pics of 30 lbs weight loose and I guess it isn't a crazy huge difference but still, 30 lbs is a decent amount of weight to loose.

Who knows if it is really 30 lbs but I was thinking of adding 30 lbs to my gf would add almost a 1/3rd to her size, which to me, is a freaking lot.

 

not all of us are dating kate moss tho.

 

30 lbs on a shortie fills up a lot quicker than on an Amazonian. IOW, it's all relative.

 

It depends where those lbs are allocated.

 

 

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She doesn't trust you, brings you down, doesn't take care of herself or her shit, and doesn't let you keep a friend. Drop her before you knock her up. At least make sure she lets you first

 

Doom's hit 2 out of 3. Can he find the third smilie?

 

My dad has a saying, "When somebody shows you what they are, believe them."

If she's as insecure as you've portrayed and she's 26, that shit is forever and the only thing that will change are the people that she socializes with so she can feel better about herself. You don't want to be that person.

 

 

I'm saving it

 

:thief:

 

That's a quote worth remembering.

 

 

To the OP:

You should have left 2-1/2 years ago when she went through your email(s).
BIG RED flag, that you should have paid attention to.

Get out now, while you can, before you destroy your life with a divorce and have to pay alimony and child support.

Don't be stupid. Have some self respect. Man up and get out.
You owe her nothing. She owes you nothing.

You are 29 for crying out loud. Be a man. Have some self respect.

 

 

 

move on. Sounds like my ex and why I ended up getting divorced. It gets old really quick, the insecurities, jealousy, accusations, etc.... Do not even waste your time.

 

double

 

Has OP came back yet?

 

Negative ghost rider...

 

He's in hiding after strangling her

 

 

 

she probably forbade him from visiting azine after going through his internet history and finding this thread...

 

 

 

I'm back guys. Well, I was gone for two weeks due to Navy obligations and I'm back now and.......she's gone. Every time she called me, I really had no desire to see her like I used to before. I was just "meh." I think this is because I was becoming more and more aware of the fact that yes, we may have had a great past and we do have a lot in common and we have a lot of fun and attraction but that's about where it stops. She asked me what was wrong because I wasn't myself. I was honest and told her I was very unsure about us and it was breaking my heart. The biggest thing for me is her irresponsibilty. I want a family some day! She can't even take care of herself when everything is pretty much handed to her, how can she raise a family? Add to that the lack of household skills and crazy moodiness/jealousy and I there you have it. I told her all of that. So she said what do you think our chances are? I told her I think 10%. But I told her I'd still be willing to give it a try and read this book that we both had read again about relationships and we agreed that we would work on it some more. I didn't hear back from her for the next two days. The day I was coming back, I texted her asking if she was still going to pick me up at the airport. No reply. I texted her again later in the day, still no reply. So I text back fine, I'll just get a cab. I get back to the house and voila, all of her stuff was gone. Well when I was gone, she called up me saying her car was going to be repossessed soon if she didn't pay. Her car payment is only $150 or so a month and she is 3 plus months behind. Mind you, she barely pays any rent and makes 225 a week. So I tell her that I already have paid for her in the past and this irresponsibility has got to stop, etc. She agrees, takes responsibility and so on. 3 or 4 days later, she calls me up crying. The repo man called her and said she needs to pay 980 or he is taking her car. I told her I don't have that kind of money and I feel your pain but there is nothing I can do. So, the next day her parents agree to make the payment and she will repay them. (Yeah right.)

 

Good riddance

 

jeez.. be strong.. focus on work, hanging out with your friends, and don't get caught up in bs if she contacts you again.

Ruby, you're a Seabee?!.. fuck yeah buddy.

 

Oh man I'm so glad you got rid of her from your recent post. She sounds so freakin dramatic.

 

Thanks buddy for the advice! And yes I sure am and its a great job. Albeit I'm a reservist but still its pretty cool.

 

Wow bro fortunately she moved out. My head hurts from reading about her. She definitely would've brought you down.

 

Thanks man. I still feel hurt though because we did everything together for the past 2 1/2 years. Had so much in common and so many memories...Had delete about 500 pictures from my computer of us...but it was something I had to do. She wasn't right for marriage or kids. Too much growing up to do. I want someone that can contribute just as much as I can. I don't want to be the only one being responsible and making the money and taking care of things.

What sucks too is I tried so hard in this relationship. I did more for her and with her than I have with any other girl because she was worth it. But as time went on it became more clear...But I'm stronger now and the next girl is gonna have to be something special that's for sure. I'm not settling for less.

 

Good move OP. Don't settle for less!

 

She was worth it at the time, but things change, you're best move is moving on

 

Good for you! There is someone out there that will respect and love you.

 

You're on the right path.

No one can fault you for not trying to make it work. I'm sure you'll find the real one worth the effort.

 

This. Sometimes significant others don't grow up at the same rate as you. Now go fuck everything in sight, OP