i just found out that my bf has another gf. i don't know what to do. i dont want to break up with him. his other gf is long distance though. please give me some advice

 

Are you two serious? Have you talked about only seeing each other? Do you want a long distance b/f too?

 

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just

 

yea we're pretty serious. we talk everyday and see each other every weekend.

 

i dont even think he knows that i know about his long distance g/f.

 

Fuck him. Once he does it once he'll do it again. Leave and don't look back. Get someone who has some sort of respect for you.

 

we've only been dating for about 4 months. He says he respects me. Once i was looking through his phone and his messages and i saw that he sent a message to this girl and it had said call me later tonight and tell me about us i need to know. i asked him about it and he said that she was really upset and he just needed to know where thier friendship stood but i know that was bullshit and i just kind of forgot about it. but now im really upset that he saying he loves me but yet he has another g/f in another state.

 

how long have you been seeing each other?

I agree with TypeS, find someone who will respect you. Someone who cheats on you doesn't respect you, whether the chickenhead is next door or long distance.

 

about 4 months

 

THen I don't think there is any way he 'respects' you, regardless of what he says. Since you've only been dating for a few months, you should be able to get back on your feet without too much sweat shed. Are you a student? If so, you've got a sea of men out there for you. But if a girl ever cheated on me, game over. Keep your head up!

 

yea i am a student. (highschool)

 

oooooh. me too, so I can relate . That's even more reason to screw him. If you are a senior (I'm assuming you are), then you're going to college soon anyway, and you won't even have to see him anymore. Going away to school? or staying close to home? Well you're in cali, so you don't have to go someplace warm like I do

 

junior. i'm planning on going to uga. I'm so confused though. I don't want to break up with him but i also don't want to be used as a side dish.

 

I agree with the guys...find another man. There is never an excuse for cheating...even if it is long distance. If there was a problem that could have made him resort to this, he should have been up front about it. LD or not, cheating is cheating and there is no room for respect there. This is going to sound like BS, but you're in HS, you have lots of time to find someone who will love you and only you. Don't sell yourself short girl, and if you ever need a someone to talk to I'm here. I hate seeing fellow females being treated like crap good luck.

 

Does anyone else not smell

Bears too many sims to 97-3-pt-OH-C-el thread.

Its like one of Phins old pranks.

 

97-3-pt-OH-C-el.....what? yea i probably will end up breaking up with him. I think i could probably find someone better hopefully.

 

^^^ that crossed my mind.

 

Does Phin have this much time on his hands? I figured his semester of grad school would have started already. But I am confused, why would a junior in cali know that she wants to goto UGA? Or is there a school over on the left coast that goes by that too?

 

whos phin? my sister went to uga and i heard it was a pretty good school so i was to go there.

 

4 months u still got alot to look forward to....drop the zer0

 

I didnt say it was phin, but you know how phi would post as one guy then turn around as post as one of the victimizers?

Go read 97-3-pt-OH-C-el's posts again. Not to mention that story sounds halfway concocted and immature, now look at this, some "chick" who has never posted on here before whining about similar problems.

Smells like shit to me.

 

it is "Phin-esque". That Bastard would be happy to be collecting all these props....but then this young n00b will be even more confused.

Like we said before, drop your boyfriend.

/thread

 

well i dont know what youre trying to say? that me and 97-3-pt-OH-C-el are the same person?

 

^^^basically what it seems like. Have you read that 97-pf-OH-C-el post?

 

no

 

well if not you should...its the one about not getting into a shitty LD relationship. Maybe if you read it you'll see the similarities. I'm not trying to say anything here, just giving u a heads up~

 

Thats a pretty fucked up story and yea its really similar to mine

 

I really think that you need to move on. Whether you want to dump him or not, he clearly doesn't care about you as much as someone should. Find someone who does. High school's a bitch tho Too confining to really accomplish anything, either academically or socially. Oh well, you got another year more than me so *neener* *neener*

 

Im sorry if I come off as a bitch but...

I am so sick and tired of girls who wont stand up for themselves when they are clearly being disrespected and cheated on.

Its sad you even have to ask if you should stay with someone whos not faithful to you.

But i really love him, he says he loves me, he says he respects me..
Guess what?! PEOPLE LIE.

Its sad that so many girls feel like they have to determine their self worth and respect off of a man, and are so scared of being alone that they stay with someone who isnt treating them right.

If you have any shred of self-respect, youll dump this loser, never think of him again and move on.

 

yea i guess youre right. im scared of being alone. i should dump this asshole!!

 

*insert e-pimping pickup liine here*

 

you shouldnt be. go have fun, be yourself! someone who will like you for you and respect you will come along

 

yea ..im still young!

 

there you go, thats more like it.

If you live your life for a guy, youll always find yourself miserable

 

^^^ to that...I did that for a year and a half of my life...well if you can call that living, and I'll never do it again

 

i don't really know what its like to be single. The longest i've been single is about a week.

 

I'm the world's leading expert on being single. My verdict:



IT BLOWZ.

 

yea i bet but relationships are a pain in the ass too

 

I wouldn't know :o

 

lol TypeS, this thread isn't about you though.

Don't worry about being single...if the longest you've been without a man is a week, then it definitely sounds like you need to work on gaining some self-worth. You might be too young to see this, but running around searching for the right man won't help, unless you can build yourself into the "right woman". Once you do that, the right type of guy will notice you for that, and voila! you've met a good quality guy. Until you pick yourself up, people will just keep stepping on you right where you've left yourself