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Old May 19, 2008 | 06:13 PM
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Girls in the building across from us...

There are some girls in the building across from us. A co-worker and I can’t see their faces because of the lighting, but they can see us since they claim they have binoculars and they’ve noted what our office looks like in good detail. We did notice them waving to us and we happened to catch a glimpse of their body’s. They seem to be very young and very fit.

Well 4 days ago, they printed out an email address and put it on the window for us to take down. We took it down and emailed these girls. We have been emailing each other for a couple of days. There’s about 4-6 of these girls emailing us. My co-worker already has a girlfriend so basically I am the only one talking to the girls through email. I have tried to ask them out for drinks and give me their Facebook names, but they don’t reply but send links to YouTube on ballet and other weird stuff.

I don’t know if I should continue talking to them because I don’t know if they want to hook up or just fooling around. They do give hints however like, they mentioned they’re intention was to get my attention, ask me questions about me, etc.

What do you think of this? I know it’s silly, but this could be a good opportunity to hook up with one of these girls. This is not the first time we have communicated. A month prior they would post up signs like “Hello”, post up riddles, and even YouTube links on their windows. We eventually stopped acknowledging them, until 4 days ago they posted up an email address to talk to them.

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Old May 19, 2008 | 06:17 PM
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Are you out of high school yet? Are these girls? Because passing notes by writing on the windows would fit right in.

But seriously, these girls are just f'ing with you guys for something to do. If they wanted to go out, it would be done already.
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Old May 19, 2008 | 06:29 PM
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put a picture of some wallnuts on your window and ask them if they want some nuts
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Old May 19, 2008 | 10:32 PM
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put a picture of some wallnuts on your window and ask them if they want some nuts

They're bored and playing with you. Probably taking bets to see how many YouTube videos they can get you to watch.
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Old May 19, 2008 | 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted by 1Louder

They're bored and playing with you. Probably taking bets to see how many YouTube videos they can get you to watch.
"Ya, ya, send him that one of you giving birth"

I'm always up for some flirting but writing messages across office buildings? Be a man and head up to their floor, ask them what they're up to, if they want to grab some lunch and see how it goes. If they laugh at you, get back to work.

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Old May 19, 2008 | 10:58 PM
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just hit it
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Old May 19, 2008 | 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted by S A CHO
Be a man and head up to their floor, ask them what they're up to, if they want to grab some lunch and see how it goes. If they laugh at you, get back to work.
Its gonna take some confidence but thats what I would do.
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Old May 19, 2008 | 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted by S A CHO
I'm always up for some flirting but writing messages across office buildings? Be a man and head up to their floor, ask them what they're up to, if they want to grab some lunch and see how it goes. If they laugh at you, get back to work.
Damn right!

Is there any other way to put this in simpler terms?? Like he said, make like Nike: "JUST DO IT"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chances are though that you have already been clowned, but hey, you can't strike out from the dugout! Handle it!
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Old May 19, 2008 | 11:31 PM
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Keep the flirting going if its fun. If they want it to go a step further THEY will let you know. Have fun
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Old May 19, 2008 | 11:53 PM
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Maybe you should bring your own binoculars...
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Old May 20, 2008 | 02:34 AM
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Dude, go for it, I think she likes you..
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:14 AM
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put a picture of some wallnuts on your window and ask them if they want some nuts
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:17 AM
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i want your job.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 04:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Keep the flirting going if its fun. If they want it to go a step further THEY will let you know. Have fun
agreed. I'll keep the fun going.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 07:52 AM
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You dont work in the same office as Csmeance by any chance, do you?
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Old May 20, 2008 | 08:34 AM
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You dont work in the same office as Csmeance by any chance, do you?
If he did, he would be breathing on the glass and writing "H-E-L-P" on it!!

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Old May 20, 2008 | 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Maybe you should bring your own binoculars...
Girls bringing binoculars to spy on men is cool...men doing the same thing to women is called "Stalking".
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Old May 20, 2008 | 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted by TzarChasm
Are you out of high school yet? Are these girls? Because passing notes by writing on the windows would fit right in.

But seriously, these girls are just f'ing with you guys for something to do. If they wanted to go out, it would be done already.

*I agree!
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Old May 20, 2008 | 09:21 AM
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The fact that they have never revealed their identities only mean they are just having harmless flirtation with you guys. They want to remain as the "fun girls in the other building."

Hmmm.... this kinda reminds me of Red Shoe Diaries Season 1. In one of the 4 short stories, a man and a woman flirt from their office window at night by faxing messages to each other and daring one another to do stuff.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 10:16 AM
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sounds ghey to me. just stick your ass against the window after you drop a deuce and smear it really well.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
sounds ghey to me. just stick your ass against the window after you drop a deuce and smear it really well.
Then he's left with a smelly, obstructed view. He needs to pay the window washer $5 to do that to their window.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
Girls bringing binoculars to spy on men is cool...men doing the same thing to women is called "Stalking".
It's not stalking if they're doing the same thing.

If I were in your shoes I'd want to know if they were worth even making a fuss over. Don't take it too personal, but this is kind of gay... They could really not be worth even walking over there or entertaining some e-mails.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
It's not stalking if they're doing the same thing.

If I were in your shoes I'd want to know if they were worth even making a fuss over. Don't take it too personal, but this is kind of gay... They could really not be worth even walking over there or entertaining some e-mails.

Yeh...its kind of childish. Like I mentioned, we stopped window messaging them a month ago, then all of the sudden they put up an email address to talk to them. Seems like they just wanna fool around and nothing more. I have not really replied to them in the past 2 days since it's foolish now. Women....you can never figure them out
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Old May 20, 2008 | 12:15 PM
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Old May 20, 2008 | 01:20 PM
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I smell a sexual harassment lawsuit

They are just messing with you.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 01:57 PM
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walk around your office naked
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
Yeh...its kind of childish. Like I mentioned, we stopped window messaging them a month ago, then all of the sudden they put up an email address to talk to them. Seems like they just wanna fool around and nothing more. I have not really replied to them in the past 2 days since it's foolish now. Women....you can never figure them out
Walk over to their building and deliver a "package" to the hottest one.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted by The Dougler
Walk over to their building and deliver a "package" to the hottest one.
It's quite a big office building. I have no idea what department they are in. I don't think this communication will last a couple more days anyways.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:25 PM
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walk around your office naked
I do...
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:28 PM
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I do...
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Old May 20, 2008 | 03:34 PM
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whats with the avatar?

https://acurazine.com/forums/ramblings-12/my-proud-parent-moment-today-391321/
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Old May 20, 2008 | 04:00 PM
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Camera with a decent zoom lens?

And I agree with Ken, if you're having fun, keep it going, but don't expect anything.

Stop asking them out, they're loving the attention right now. If they want to meet you, let them broach the subject.
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Old May 20, 2008 | 05:47 PM
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you should bring a camera with a decent zoom lens then make a sign that says WoW... then post the pics for us...
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Old May 21, 2008 | 03:37 PM
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LOL...this is great...they send us a phony number that was a phone number for a psyhic hotline....we send them back this Youtube vid: http://youtube.com/watch?v=iiiHkuVH9OI

Now thay ain't talking anymore! They seem to be insulted...LOL
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Old May 21, 2008 | 05:12 PM
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they're attention whoring. pure and simple.
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Old May 21, 2008 | 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
It's quite a big office building. I have no idea what department they are in. I don't think this communication will last a couple more days anyways.
Where do you work/what kind of job do you have? Where do they work? Downtown?
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Old May 21, 2008 | 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
Where do you work/what kind of job do you have? Where do they work? Downtown?
He works right across the street from you, so stop messing with his emotions!
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Old May 22, 2008 | 12:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Black Tire
LOL...this is great...they send us a phony number that was a phone number for a psyhic hotline....we send them back this Youtube vid: http://youtube.com/watch?v=iiiHkuVH9OI

Now thay ain't talking anymore! They seem to be insulted...LOL

Thats great. It is immature but whatever it looks like your having fun, so who cares. Btw pics pics pics
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Old May 22, 2008 | 02:18 AM
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I would back off a little if anything... if they really want to hook up or hang out or whatever... they'll come after you... if you back off and they don't respond... then it wasn't meant to be...
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Old May 22, 2008 | 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
I would back off a little if anything... if they really want to hook up or hang out or whatever... they'll come after you... if you back off and they don't respond... then it wasn't meant to be...
Well the instigator of the whole thing gave me her personnel email address yesterday. I'll work with that.
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