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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 10:56 PM
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Unhappy girlfrind problem

okay so recently my girlfriend has been talking to this guy alot and i was suspicious for like 4 days cuz they went to magic mountain together i thought her and a bunch of frinds were gonig but the freidns other than him never showed so after she came back wiht him they have been talking alot and i told her this bothered me but its okay since me n him were firneds and him n her are. so today i was talking to her on the phone and i was like, are you okay youve been acting really weird lately and she just bawled, knew something happened took me a little bit to get her to tell me but she was like me and nick when we were driving around after we dropped off his sister we were goofing around and i ended up kissing him, now keep in mind weve been dating for a year and 7 months saturday so it was a really big deal cuz she always promised ill never do anything to hurt you blah blah blah. so i dont know what to do, i realy like her and she says she doesnt like him he called me and appoligized over and over and me n him are cool, he said he doesnt like her but idk what to do i love her and all and she " loves" me but damn, this girl just wasnt that kind of girl to me and that happenes is like ..............whatd you say???? kinda shit, so anyone wanna help me out on this please?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:02 PM
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:03 PM
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"Punctuation" is not a greek god.

She left you because you can't talk like a human being. Now I don't even know what to say regarding your problem.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted by FastAcura
She left you because you can't talk like a human being.
she didnt leave me and i diditn punctuate cuz i really dont thing being gramatically correct is a problem now for me is it?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
she didnt leave me and i diditn punctuate cuz i really dont thing being gramatically correct is a problem now for me is it?
It does become a problem when you have a one sentence paragraph. You have talent
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:07 PM
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thanks but when i was in a better mood i revise for you and make it better K?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:09 PM
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Did she return the kiss? I think that is worth taking into consideration.

edit: I read that she ended up kissing him, but did she start it?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:09 PM
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:shakehead i punctuated a bit i see periods and periods and question marks
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Did she return the kiss? I think that is worth taking into consideration.
well she said she kissed him so
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
thanks but when i was in a better mood i revise for you and make it better K?
Thanks. I will make sure to check it out in the morning.

And don't let your head hanging, there are a lot better girls out there. Sounds like she got a little attached to him.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Did she return the kiss? I think that is worth taking into consideration.

edit: I read that she ended up kissing him, but did she start it?
yeah she was like "we were driving home and i kept looking at him and he was like " your gonna regret looking at me like that when i have to do something about it" and she kissed him.....
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by FastAcura
Thanks. I will make sure to check it out in the morning.

And don't let your head hanging, there are a lot better girls out there. Sounds like she got a little attached to him.
yeah see they dated before me and her started dating and they never talked ti recently so that scares me too....
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
yeah she was like "we were driving home and i kept looking at him and he was like " your gonna regret looking at me like that when i have to do something about it" and she kissed him.....

fuck that. she initiated it so fuck her. there are better chicks out there
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
well she said she kissed him so
She said she ended up kissing him, which to me could mean that he kissed her and she ended up kissing him back or that she straight up kissed him. I guess she straight up kissed him then...which to me is definitely unacceptable. If she were truly happy in your relationship she wouldn't have been staring deep into the eyes of someone who is supposedly a mutual friend
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:14 PM
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Ehh stay away from her. If they dated and she's kissing him, that means she still has feelings for him. It wasn't a one time thing.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:17 PM
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which is what i was thinking fastacura and ggirl idk is this what you would do cuz im a forgiving guy and i told her its okay now cuz i couldnt go and see her but we have to talk tomorrow and we'll see from there, and idk i like her and am kinda like what if this kinda kills my hope of getting another gf ya know?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
which is what i was thinking fastacura and ggirl idk is this what you would do cuz im a forgiving guy and i told her its okay now cuz i couldnt go and see her but we have to talk tomorrow and we'll see from there, and idk i like her and am kinda like what if this kinda kills my hope of getting another gf ya know?
IMO you should move on. Apparently she has no respect for your relationship, other than that she had the courtesy to tell you she did it instead of you having to find out from someone else. Kissing someone else is a huge red flag that its time to move on, especially if she was the one initiating it. Don't let it kill your hopes for getting another gf, lots of chicks in the world that won't go around kissing your friends.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:20 PM
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dump them both. and learn to speak english too
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:20 PM
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true wanna move to ohio and live with me?? lol
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:20 PM
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The only thing that should be killed is her.

I say, go to your guy friend and ask him how your cum tasted since he kissed her after you nutted in her mouth.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Astroboy
dump them both. and learn to speak english too
i speak english well just hate typing alot and puctuations a bitch
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Astroboy
and learn to speak english too


hey, that can be a good thing sometimes. Maybe she liked him because of his accent?
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by FastAcura
The only thing that should be killed is her.

I say, go to your guy friend and ask him how your cum tasted since he kissed her after you nutted in her mouth.
hahaha i should do that.... may have to
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:29 PM
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it'll prob. take some time to get over that . . .

but fuck that whore

think of the longrun and how much better you'll be w/o that shit
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:30 PM
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Originally Posted by bkmc24
true wanna move to ohio and live with me?? lol
thats to ggirl haha didnt realize that i didnt quote her lol
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:34 PM
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thats to ggirl haha didnt realize that i didnt quote her lol
I was wondering about that, I was like hmmm is he talkin to astro!
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:35 PM
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nope definately to you :wink:
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:38 PM
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More Acurazine romance.

Make sure to keep her tongue in your mouth ONLY this time.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:39 PM
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let me just tell you that my guy cheated on me. it wasn't just a spur of the moment thing either, he planned it and then didn't even tell me about it. so things could be worse.

anyway, I have always said that it would be unacceptable for someone to cheat on me, cuz I think I deserve better than that, and i hope that you think you deserve better than that also. but I know that in the end you are going to do what feels right for you, so we are here when you decide what that is.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by TLgirlfriend
let me just tell you that my guy cheated on me. it wasn't just a spur of the moment thing either, he planned it and then didn't even tell me about it. so things could be worse.

anyway, I have always said that it would be unacceptable for someone to cheat on me, cuz I think I deserve better than that, and i hope that you think you deserve better than that also. but I know that in the end you are going to do what feels right for you, so we are here when you decide what that is.
yeah i know i just cant get over her and idk i guess itll have to be decided tomorrow i know im not getting sleep tonight tho haha exam week to how great, good thing i dont study
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:45 PM
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I agree. Fuk cheaters. No matter how much I loved someone, once they cheat all the trust is gone. That's something I wouldn't forgive.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:51 PM
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:51 PM
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she has a crush on another guy.

she doesn't like you anymore.

you're 17. move on.
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Old Jun 1, 2005 | 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
she has a crush on another guy.

she doesn't like you anymore.

you're 17. move on.
i know im trying to move on but this is the longest relationship ive ever had and it was always perfect ys know?
when i told my best dude friend he was amazed he even said that we always got along and were the one couple anyone saw that didnt ever have problems till now and it sucks.
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 12:00 AM
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well im going to sleep cuz im dead tired and dont wanna waste my whole night thinking bout this

ill post tomorrow as an update or w/e thanks for all the help a-zine

g'night
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 12:00 AM
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kick that bitch to the curb and move on

or you can tie her up and throw in the lake
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
she has a crush on another guy.

she doesn't like you anymore.

you're 17. move on.


Time to trade her in for a new gf.
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
she has a crush on another guy.

she doesn't like you anymore.

you're 17. move on.

I'm with her on this. You're hella young dude, only 17! Trust me you have plenty of time to meet other chicks. At you're age you have a lot to learn and experiance. Don't get hung up on one chick especially right before summer, you never know what's out there waiting for you.

Plus its obvious she's confused and still has feelings for this other dude. Not worth sweating over, plus I bet anything she'll be all butt hurt if she finds out you're dating other chicks.. so get going and try to meet new folks!
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 01:23 AM
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1) Fuck her
2) Kick to curb
3) Find new, better woman
4) After a few weeks, start fucking her

All is now well
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Old Jun 2, 2005 | 03:04 AM
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KILL A HOE KILL A HOE FUCK THAT BITCH!!!!

keep fucking her but try and look for a new chick at the same time
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