I don't know why I'm starting a thread on this and I don't know why I'm a little nervous. I don't know why but I'm starting to feel anxious. Not anxious towards being married, but anxious towards meeting 220 family members and friends. I plan on shaking hands and meeting as many attendees as I can. And the thing is, this isn't as big of a wedding as my other family members!

I'm sitting at work and I have not done a single thing but think about what I'm going to say, how I'm going to say it, what should I do when I see a friend whom I have not seen for 10 years, etc. I have family members coming from all parts of the US and even from Vietnam and they're all coming in tonight! It's a bit exciting at the same time.

Normally I wouldn't share this much about my life, but you guys on Azine have helped me out before on stuff that I really needed (eg career advice, resume) so the least I could do is share with you my once in a lifetime event! (I'm Catholic, it's very hard to get married twice, haha)

I will not have any sleep tonight!

 

if you want i can buy you a drink and help ease those nerves. where in OC are you?

 

Smile, shake hands, give a couple hugs.

Oh and remember it's more about the bride than you

 

Haha I am in the Garden Grove area. I'm already planning on drinking a little just to relax myself. But don't you worry, my groomsmen got the alcohol covered

Oh man if you think I'm nervous, you should see her! Haha. I always feel like I need to do something. I can't just stand around and smile.

 

 

thats quite close. Im in the Anaheim area near the Honda Center. i have some free time after work today if ever you change your mind.

 

Thanks so much for the offer man but I am actually getting out of work early today to pick up flowers, meet incoming family members, go to rehearsal, set up for pre-ceremony, wash getaway car, go over introduction speech, brush teeth, put on suit, get married. As you can see, sleep is not in there

 

1st off gratz

2nd i think you are just overthinking on what to say or do. just be yourself and you will be fine.........besides you will have your wife next to you for support

 

 

This

 

Congrats dude. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness.



For the record....the Game Over T-shirt is funny, but I really love my wife and son and I enjoy being married. Couldn't imagine my life any other way.

 

^^^you were probably mature and ready for it and found the right one.

 

I enjoyed my single life, but was definitely ready to settle down when I met my wife. She was too. Knocking her up was probably not that mature but it was the best unplanned event in my life. We will have to figure out a way to tell him he was 5 months premature.

 

Don't worry, I don't take "Game Over" or "RIP" personally. I love my soon to be wife. She's been really patience with me during my military days and the stress from me going back to school with a kid. I have no regrets. After all these years I can finally call her my wife.

 

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Congrats!!!

 

Congrats!

 

^^^Now that's effin hilarious!
Yeah, I'm with you, man...if I'd married the girls I dated in my 20's...it'd be a catastrophe. The girl I'm with now, I'm engaged to and couldn't be happier to marry either.

OP, CONGRATS!

 

Thanks. When's the date for you guys?

 

 

I'm sorry...........

 

Just be yourself and make sure you have a good time, your only doing this once FFS. Enjoy it! and congrats!

 

Congrats

And I agree with Ken.... it's all about the bride. It's her big day.

 

I was gonna post this for you if you weren't around

 

That I completely understand. I just feel that it's rude to invite 200+ people and only interact with 1/3 of them. That's why I'm stressing a little on trying my very best to meet and greet with as many as I can during the time that I have available.

Thank you all for the wishes though! I'll share some pictures once I get them.

For now, I will give you guys a special look at one of the engagement pictures. I have not shown my friends our wedding outfit so consider this a special pre-viewing!

 

You've got one beautiful bride to marry tomorrow!

I know you'll probably be busy and feel overwhelmed but I hope you get to take a few minutes of peace and absorb everything in... By the way, are you guys planning to change into Ao dai during the reception?

 

and congratz

 

The wife is for sure. No way in FREAKIN hell am I going to wear one, haha.

I do not wanna look like this guy:

 

Literally the greatest day of my life.

Honeymoon will be a 7 day cruise in Hawaii paid for my dad! There are a ton of pictures but here are a few from a good friend of mine.

 

Wow, HOT!!! and the bride isnt bad either.....




call me.

 

Beautiful bride you got there, congrats bro

 

Congratulations!

 

+1 on the beautiful bride. wish ya'll the best!

 

Congratulations! Enjoy the honeymoon!

 

 

Nice!


For some reason when I saw the picture of her and her Dad, I thought of the Dad in the Hangover #2...hope he's not like that

 

Congrats! Threesome anytime soon? ;d

 

If you cover long distance calling :p

He is actually

But he has gotten a lot better at not being strict ever since we moved out on our own.

 

Congratulations! You both look very happy, and she is just lovely. Many happy years to you both!!

 

Silly Asians and their leaf throwing..