Getting married in 3 days....
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Getting married in 3 days....
Didn't really care about getting married since we have been together now for 5 years with a 2yr old daughter. 2 years before all that we were together for almost 6yrs, so it's like we have been married all along. Well now that the day is approaching I've been getting anxiety bad. This is all normal right? It just hit me like a ton of bricks today and I can't figure out why and now im starting to second guess the whole thing.
On top of this we are buying a house which we just had inspected today and just found out my groomsmen gifts are arriving 3 days late so now I must go buy a replacement for tomorrows rehearsal dinner. Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhgggggggg!!!!!!
Any advice is appreciated. Just feel a little lost and none of my friends in RL are married. Otherwise hopefully I just needed to vent.
On top of this we are buying a house which we just had inspected today and just found out my groomsmen gifts are arriving 3 days late so now I must go buy a replacement for tomorrows rehearsal dinner. Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhgggggggg!!!!!!
Any advice is appreciated. Just feel a little lost and none of my friends in RL are married. Otherwise hopefully I just needed to vent.
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Didn't really care about getting married since we have been together now for 5 years with a 2yr old daughter. 2 years before all that we were together for almost 6yrs, so it's like we have been married all along. Well now that the day is approaching I've been getting anxiety bad. This is all normal right? It just hit me like a ton of bricks today and I can't figure out why and now im starting to second guess the whole thing.
On top of this we are buying a house which we just had inspected today and just found out my groomsmen gifts are arriving 3 days late so now I must go buy a replacement for tomorrows rehearsal dinner. Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhgggggggg!!!!!!
Any advice is appreciated. Just feel a little lost and none of my friends in RL are married. Otherwise hopefully I just needed to vent.
On top of this we are buying a house which we just had inspected today and just found out my groomsmen gifts are arriving 3 days late so now I must go buy a replacement for tomorrows rehearsal dinner. Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhgggggggg!!!!!!
Any advice is appreciated. Just feel a little lost and none of my friends in RL are married. Otherwise hopefully I just needed to vent.
26 - 5 = you got back with her at 21
21 - 2 = you fucked around when you were 19
19 - 6 = you've been together since you were 13?
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Of course anxiety is normal. Just woo-sah a little bit and crack a cold one with some xbox/ps3.
Why wouldn't you be nervous? Between buying a house and marriage, plus having a 2 yr old I think this should be the peak of nervousness. After this, it should be easy sailing.
You will be fine man, just make sure everything is right and don't let anyone, and I mean anyone mess up your wedding day. I was prepared to kick family out if need be, lol.
Just remember you always have az for moral support.
Why wouldn't you be nervous? Between buying a house and marriage, plus having a 2 yr old I think this should be the peak of nervousness. After this, it should be easy sailing.
You will be fine man, just make sure everything is right and don't let anyone, and I mean anyone mess up your wedding day. I was prepared to kick family out if need be, lol.
Just remember you always have az for moral support.
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Thanks guys. I think I was just bein a little bitch yesterday. I'm just ready for it to be over with and in Vegas already.
Majofo, he said something about iron bear cause it sounds burly
I dunno, I guess Justin has a thing for beards....
Majofo, he said something about iron bear cause it sounds burly
I dunno, I guess Justin has a thing for beards....
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the obligatory 
for me the marriage has been more than a dream....we were together only for a year but you sometimes you just know its right....
I wish best of luck for times ahead and hope this turns out as you are expecting it to....
for me the marriage has been more than a dream....we were together only for a year but you sometimes you just know its right....
I wish best of luck for times ahead and hope this turns out as you are expecting it to....
You guys have been together for a long long time, no real need to be nervous other then to make sure everything goes smoothly for the wedding. As for the actual marriage part, it's basically a formality for you guys, just a piece of paper with both your names on it. No biggie.
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Some of the most stressful things in life include getting married, buying a house and having kids. And 2 year olds are not easy. So write this off as event-induced stress. It's perfectly normal, and it will pass. You'll look back and wonder why you were ever so uptight, but right now in the moment it's easy to get that way.
The problem with weddings is that we build them up to be these unachievable events where the expectation is perfection, therefore anything that is less than perfect is a crisis. All of a sudden things like groomsmen gifts and flower arrangements seem like issues of life and death. Resist that temptation as best you can. Even if stuff goes wrong, arrives late, or whatever, you'll still get married. You'll still go on your honeymoon, and the really important things will all happen and work out. Just try to keep perspective, and expect that some things will go wrong. You'll laugh about it on your honeymoon.
I can think of six things that went wrong with our wedding. No one remembers them. Just remember it's not about them, or the event, or the party, or the stuff. It's about you, your wife and your child. And since you've had a lot of practice at that part, don't sweat the rest.
The problem with weddings is that we build them up to be these unachievable events where the expectation is perfection, therefore anything that is less than perfect is a crisis. All of a sudden things like groomsmen gifts and flower arrangements seem like issues of life and death. Resist that temptation as best you can. Even if stuff goes wrong, arrives late, or whatever, you'll still get married. You'll still go on your honeymoon, and the really important things will all happen and work out. Just try to keep perspective, and expect that some things will go wrong. You'll laugh about it on your honeymoon.
I can think of six things that went wrong with our wedding. No one remembers them. Just remember it's not about them, or the event, or the party, or the stuff. It's about you, your wife and your child. And since you've had a lot of practice at that part, don't sweat the rest.
Congrats!
