okay here's the deal i dated this chick that worked in the local ER as a RN for about a year cause i'm EMT on the local rescue squad for like a year. she was working 70-80 hours a week. she made pretty good money (well over 100 grand a year), pretty hot, and pretty good head on her shoulders.

well today we got called to a MCA(multiple car accident) so i go to the hospital. and i hadn't seen her in awhile. like about 6-7 months. we get to talking she calls me later.
the reason we broke up she was lieing. she was lieing about like she couldn't call me her cell was broke but yet i'd talk to her friends and they'd say she just called there 15 minutes ago.
or she'd lie to go out with her friends so she wouldn't hang out with me.
now fast forward to the phone call:
She said she was so sorry about what happened blah blah blah she shouldn't have done it. she wants me back and she's single. she's by far the hottest girl i've dated also probably the most "proper and lady like." which is good. just the whole lieing thing sucks.

should i take her back?

 

Do everything you can to her for one night, and then never acknowledge her again.

 

if you think she may have changed, give it a shot?

 

Well, if she's a liar, then she sounds perfect for you. Go for it.

 

They never change, people don't change, they're ex's for a reason, believe me i've been down that road a million times, they never change don't believe the

 

Dude, I say give it a chance. I would, just be a little cautious.

 

i wouldn't go back down a road i traveled already... some old memories may creep up into your mind and even if she did change, that doubt will prob destroy you or the relationship...

 

Try it, what do you have to lose? People grow up and mature in time, maybe shes done that now

 

Don't do it. She doesn't respect you otherwise she wouldn't have lied to you. There's gonna be a lack of trust on your part, even if you say you trust her, deep down you won't, and something will happen that will bring that back up to the foreground - and you won't even realize it.

A few of years back I dated a girl for a few months that was quite attractive. Very fuckable titties, I loved those boobs. Anyway, we broke up because of some differences we couldn't get over. A week later we were back together. That second time around, it was very hollow. It's like we were together because we missed just being with someone, not necessarily missed being with each other. So the makeup sex is fun, but after that, you'll be wondering why the hell you're back with this person when there are so many other fine pieces of ass out there.

Just think - if you were able to date this hot, smart girl, and SHE was the reason why you broke up, not YOU - then you should be able to find someone as hot/smart or hotter/smarter than her. Move on and move up

BTW It's "lying" not "lieing"

 

People can change, trust me. I did.

 

If she lied to you b4, chances are she will lie to you again, but I'm not saying you can't have fun with her, just be cautious young jedi

 

Don't do it [/thread]

 

Sorry, I don't know if it's just me, but I get a horrible feeling being with an ex, like a panic attack almost, and can't change my feelings for them after we break up. I wouldn't do it.

 

She's an EX....just go for the nEXt girl!

LIARS are a major red flag!

 

Besides, just because she's got her sh*t together and is cute/hot doesn't make her a good person. All that won't matter unless that person is wholeheartedly into YOU and most importantly RESPECTS you. One thing I've learned from cute/hot "ballers" is that they have way more reason to be dogs because they have advantage over their looks and income. I used to date someone who was an assistant vice president of Bank of America and that person definitely knows how to play their game right. I mean what's more appealing to the masses than a good looking and financially secure person, right? But you have to understand that what matters is how they really are as a person. It's harder to find a good-looking, smart, funny, ambitious person with a good heart and that's what you should aim for because girls like that are too easy. Believe me, she'll play you for a fool.

 

I've gotta agree with these guys. Lying is a huge red flag and should not be ignored. I know it's wrong but I would be tempted to find another girl on the side and then dump the current liar.

 

Agreed. Just get back with the ER nurse but don't completely trust her and tell yourself to just milk it for what it's worth....have fun with her, hang out, w/e, but don't totally commit yourself to her again. If she's proven herself over say 8-12 months I think you're good, but otherwise just jump ship when you find someone you can actually trust.

And say "baby I TRIED SO HARD but I just couldn't get over the whole lying thing. I know it was X years ago...but hopefully both of us can learn something from this experience, etc etc blah blah blah."

 

date and see how it goes. Dating is dating (getting to know each other). People change and why not give it a shot. But when/if it gets more serious, then tell her that if you find out she is lying again, then you guys are done. There are worse things that could have happened, like cheating and drugs. Take it in perspective.

 

Has it been established that you really are Water-S?

 

he just takes the tractor another round,
an' pulls the plow across the ground,
and sends up another prayer.
he says: "lord, i never complain, i never ask: 'why?'
"please don't let my dreams run dry,
"underneath, underneath this amarillo sky."

 

thats lyrics to my favorite song.
It's by Jason Aldean called "Amarillio Sky." the song talks about the struggles but the joys of farming.
the video for "Amarillio sky" was shot in Rantoul, Ill. a lot of the guys in the video from Rantoul FFA. it's a GREAT VIDEO I watch it atleast once a day. . it got tons of cool crap in it, a shitty new holland combines harvesting wheat , a John Deere 4020, a Cat 65 D, a dude bailing straw, a feed mill, grain bins, a dude working on front brakes of a old Ford truck, and at the end the guys look like are swimming/chilling with their g/fs.

 

yeah, you're water-s

i don't know if you're a fake or just incredibly dim

 

Its him or someone who has been spending a lot of time and/or money spoofing IP addresses to look like him.

 

Interesting. For the last month you've been telling everyone of your "new" girlfriend. You know, the one who is a pediatric surgeon? The one who you regularly go shopping with to buy her a new BMW X5? You're absolutely correct, however, that the "whole lieing" thing does indeed suck.

Terry

 

it's called playing the field douche bag

 

Now you sound like a major asshole (or jackass, or prick- a little one).

Since she's a liar too, the two of you are well matched. Please use condoms.

 

Please... don't reproduce.

kthanxbye

 

Boosted-S

 

Sounds like a bad situation. I would walk away.

 

I can't help feeling like we're being tricked by some greater intelligence when he posts...

Abstinence. It's the only answer.

 

There are not enough hours in the day to figure him out.....

 

Wait, was this the one that is Bi-polar???

 

Bipolar?

Delusional, compulsive liar?

 

I hate compulsive liars!

 

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Lol

 

I agree with KaMKuNg, getting back with an ex is like eating leftovers. It's never as good the second time.

 

Unless we're talking about spaghetti

 

...or left over pizza...mmmmm....left over pizza

Hey Water-S, if you ex is anything like day old pizza I saw go for it

 

i may be off but didn't water-s have a wife and kid... or at least a kid.....