The other day I was texting this girl I go to school with and she starts flirting and saying how nice I was. Then all of the sudden she says she wants to be more than friends. I know she has a boyfriend so I asked her just to see what she would say. She asked how I knew, I told her from her myspace. She still didn't give up. Geez, I'm going to stay away from her, knowing that she is going behind her boyfriends back like that, they've been going out for a year and a half. Just thought I would share.

 

umm, thanks

 

IDK, I'm guessing I should stay away right? Just wondering what others had to say.

 

where's darksom..he gives the best advice in these type of situations

 

Why should you stay away? Maybe she broke up with her boyfriend. Why not just ask her. Tell her that you are not into dating a chick with a boyfriend, and if things were different then you're game. See what she says. If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend, then run. I could never trust a girl like that.

 

They are still going out, but she likes me a lot, and considering breaking up with him. I just don't want to be the reason she breaks up with him.

 

...whatever happens make sure you DO NOT date her... booty call is one thing, but a girl like that = trashy.

 

If she breaks up with him, I would take it slow. But as for not wanting to be the reason they broke up....get over yourself a bit....their relationship is already doomed. If it was not you it would be some other guy.

 

Just make a booty call situation out of it. When she tries to make you two exclusive, say "you left your old guy for me, why should I think you won't do the same thing to me down the road?"

 

^ that's exactly what I planed on saying.

 

Why not? She's the one who is looking, so her current relationship is ending anyway. But if she's just playing, you could be in for a lot of unnecessary drama.

 

I'm just always concerned that if she is willing to bang you on the side then who knows how many other guys she has banged on the side.

I knew a guy in college who's gf slept with a friend of his. He did the smart thing and broke up with her and shortly after found out that she slept with pretty much any one that she could find and he now had a burning sensation when he took a piss.

 

That's the other thing I was worried about. I guess I have to remember the rule of 3.

 

That's a good rule.

 

she'd never tell her bf that...

 

I'm not a fool, I wrap my tool.

 

wrap it before you tap it

 

Be like OJ.....Always wear a glove.

 

^ just don't leave it behind.

 

Well, it's all up to you. And the only way you know she has a bf, is through her myspace page? Stalk much? Honestly, if she's going the extra mile towards you, just fuck her and be on your way. However, only fuck her at her place, you don't want her to know where you live.

 

if it was me then i would stay away. I don't like Karma. Its just a red-flag for me.

 

Doublewrap it!!

 

fixed!

 

She has a b/f and has no problem doing things behind his back. I'm going to stay away from this one. Karma is a bitch.

 

 

Lol, do we even need to ask to know what he would say???

 

do it blind folded so you don't feel as bad?

 

Good call. See if she actually breaks up with her boy friend. If she does, and there is still interest there, then play ball. Until that, I would stay away.

 

Good idea. There are pleny of others out there, although for some...pune is hard to pass up

 

That is a tough one. Last month I met a nice girl in my building who i slept with only to find out she has a bf but she claims along with her friends that it has been over with him for along time. She apparently just keeps him around for sex until she finds someone new but when I heard about him I was done. She told me she would get rid of him and I believed she would but you def. dont want the drama or hassle of him harassing you and being pissed at her. I also told her she couldn't break up with him for me because it just doesn't work. SHE had to want to do it for herself not for another guy.


In my case dropping her was the best thing ever because her crazy side quickly surfaced. She was calling, texting, knocking on my door, along with asking the building security and front desk if they had seen me numerous times a day and at all times a day. It got to the point of her threaten her life so I would come over.

This is no something you want to deal with and I gotta agree with the karma but I know as well as you that this situation is hard to resist. Good luck

 

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The difference is that he knows she has a boy friend before he sleeps with her. For the most part it sounds like she is kinda shady. Your girl is just a whore.

 

Agreed but he is going to have the same issues. I am sure there are exceptions to this but for the most part it seems breaking up with one guy for another guy never really goes well and the girl goes back to the first guy over the smallest thing (fight with new bf or whatever). This guy will be a complete rebound which is fine as long as he understands that and in the end the girl will cheat on him. Just hope he doesn't end up with the Herps

 

I'll keep you guys updated.

 

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All updates need to be attached to PICS.

 

Thats always what it boils down to, isn't it. Pics, or ban.

 

She tells me today she wants to be friends with benefits behind her B/F's back. I'm defiantly going to decline.

 

and remember this: if she doesn't do it with you, she's going to do it with someone else.
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We need pics to better understand the situation

 

What a whore.