This might sound like a really stupid question, but has anyone noticed that people gain weight while they are in a relationship? The other day my bf told me that he gained 5lbs and I noticed that I probably gained the same amount of weight. I asked a few friends and half of them said they usually gained weight in relationships and the other half didn't know wtf I was talking about. Opinions?

 

its kuz u dont have to try to look good n e more so u just let yourself go..

 

yeah its true.. 3.5 years of a relationship.. but both him and I have gained weight,

and kevin what the hell is with the teenie bopper AOL spelling?

 

when your in a relationship you dont do nothing but go out to eat and sit at home on the couch, and shop once in awhile!!! lol

 

I gained 20 pounds the first year of my marriage. I lost 45 pounds the last year of my marriage.

 

not sure if i should congratulate or offer sympathy

 

I thinks he's gained a few pounds. I've stayed the same.

 

At the beginning of a 4 1/2 year relationship we were both in the gym 5 days a week and looked damn good (if I do say so myself).

At the end of the 4 1/2 year relationship I was the biggest I had ever been and the same could be said for him. You just get comfortable.

 

Exactly!

When I met my girl 2 years ago I was 190lbs, now I am 205lbs.

 

In the two years I dated my first girlfriend I went from 180 to 210. I turned into a giant fatass. It was gross.

After we broke up I got down to 175 so fast though...

 

I agree completely with this theory, and I've been with my girl for almost 10 years now.

 

I think it depends on the relationship. My last long-term one I'll agree with that statement, she wasnt active at all except to go out to a club but now me and my girlfriend both make going to our repective gyms a part of our daily routine and we've both stayed the same or lost

 

remember, women weaken legs

 

It does happen... you relax, get into a comfort zone... you become less active and all those dinners out.. you geta fat ass.... what can you do?!?!?!?!

 

I will never gain weight....I was a fat ass 3 years ago and I'll never go back. As fo my girlfriend...I think she's stayed the same....probably because I look better than I did when we first started dating!

 

DUH

 

its not teeny booper!! im just lazy and ghetto!

 

I gained a shitload of weight over the first 6.5 years of being with my girlfriend/wife (about 45-50lbs) but have lost it all and a little more (about 55 total). I agree that you get in a comfort zone. Not only that but spending more time with the significant other usually means giving up a few things (unfortunately the gym is it for many). We both go now just to get healthier (only she hasn't gained much while we've been together).

 

No sympathy necessary. While I was too thin at 178, it was certainly better than the 223 I had been nine months prior. I'm around 188 these days...a couple pounds heavier than I'd like, considering I don't exactly exercise much anymore.

 

I constantly exercise, and when I'm in a relationship, I want to look my best. I don't slack and get lazy.

 

ditto
I try to get her to go to the gym also. She goes to her gym and I go to mine. I let them know in the begining that working out is part of my life, then can join in if they want but I am not going to stop going because of her.

 

People should get off their fat assES, eat heathy, and exercise. There's no excuse... I'm going on 6 yrs of marriage and actually trimming down every year. I don't believe in that comfort zone BS. The key is monitoring your diet carefully and getting off your ASS! I never understood why some people just eat themselves to death and function like a 75 yr old at 40 for no reason.

Beats me...

 

I like to fatten my girls up...keep them in the house barefoot and pregnant. all they do is cook and clean for me..do my laundry and wash my benz. she loves me so much for it....and I love her to we're made for each other.

she loves it when I bring Baskin and Robbins and sweets she knows I car

my motto is

more plump the better the pump

more the ounce better the bounce

more cushion for the pushing

 

reading the Cracker Jack boxes again i see

hey you still coming to Acura Wars on the 27th??

 

fat girls need love also, you can't discriminate, just hang on to the rolls and get ready for the ride.

 

geisha why dont you post a pic of yourself that way I can see if you have enough ounce for the bounce

 

its bounce fo dat ounce....whiteboy!



Geisha, body pic so we can evaluate.

 

definitely, i would venture to say most people gain weight when they are in a relationship....i know my favorite thing to do is sleep with the girl, so....im a lazy fuck

 

I try not to post anything obscene sugars

 

Uh....if you try not to "swallow" next time, you won't gain any weight. J/K

Who cares...fat girls rock. The bigger the cushion, the harder the pushin'. Shit, banging a fat girl is great because you can bend her everywhere and she won't complain. Skinny ass girls are so fragile, I swear I might crack their hips due to excessive forces.

 

^^^I like it rough too

 

show me a girl that doesn't like it rough...

 

 

hahah, owgh! OK, but may 85 years ago she liked to get spanked!

 

haven't gained a pound. Have actually been loosing a little weight :sexy:

 

she does like it rough. wtf do you think is going on in the areas not being shown?!



beetroot for president.

 

^^^shudders at the mental image

 

2 words....sex fat

 

i never gain weight......ive been with my girl for 1.5 yrs.....ive stayed in shape... :-) but shes gotten a bigger belly..not to big...but its there....i tease her all the time.....

 

After 2 years with my boy I haven't gained any weight. He has.