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Old 09-11-2014, 02:11 AM
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Could you say the same when you were in your early 20's
I plead the 5th on that one
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Old 09-11-2014, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Could you say the same when you were in your early 20's
Yes.
Old 09-11-2014, 11:40 AM
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Yes.
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Old 09-12-2014, 09:06 AM
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OP hasn't been back for a while.. wonder how the friendship is going..
Old 09-12-2014, 07:34 PM
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OP may have gone to cougarlife.com and picked up an older woman to make his "friend" jealous.
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Sounds like someone wants out of the friend zone.
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
I plead the 5th on that one
Old 09-17-2014, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Acura_Dude
Oh really...?
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Old 09-18-2014, 08:53 PM
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Yep I think the OP def has feelings for her... And is mad that she's tapping someone else...
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Here's an update:
The guy turned out to be a Stage 5 clinger and even tried to have sex with her when she was unable to consent. She cut it off with him, which followed up with a barrage of texts and phone calls. She blocked his number and now we're back to being friends with benefits.

Originally Posted by Cu2Suspect
Yep I think the OP def has feelings for her... And is mad that she's tapping someone else...
Is this news? ...just mad she was tapping a scumbag.

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Originally Posted by 1black_seven
Here's an update:
The guy turned out to be a Stage 5 clinger and even tried to have sex with her when she was unable to consent. She cut it off with him, which followed up with a barrage of texts and phone calls. She blocked his number and now we're back to being friends with benefits.


Is this news? ...just mad she was tapping a scumbag.
Originally Posted by 1black_seven
I have a friend, let's call her Alice. She is 21 years old as of May. Me and Alice are just friends, she is very beautiful and I care about her, but I have no interest in dating her. Out side of regular conversation and casual drinking I find her alcoholic lifestyle and her lack of motivation in life a persistent turn off.
yea you didn't mention this in your first post. we all assumed you had some feelings for her that were unrequited.

so you were banging this chick for funsies and when she found someone else to bang you got jelly? but now they're not banging anymore and you guys are back to banging for funsies. congrats i guess? not sure what else to say here...
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Might as well give her a ring.
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I gave her a ring already..
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dunno about you guys but...pics of the chick? i mean, you guys are only fuck buddies right...nothing emotional? like jealousy over dating another guy... RIGHT? RIGHT????
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fo shizzbot.
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"just friends"

"back to being friends with benefits"

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I feel sorry for guys like the OP. Oh wait...no I don't.
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Old 10-16-2014, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted by 1black_seven
She cut it off with him.....
she got da bola-bolly




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..and now we're back to being friends with benefits. ..

...and OP digs creampies.
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It's never a good situation when you find creampie on your dick that's not yours.
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