to forgive or not to forgive....
08-06-2004, 11:33 PM
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to forgive or not to forgive....
ok, so i see an old friend of mine tonight and we start talkin the old days...blah...blah...anyway we get on the subjest of this old "lover" i had..i say lover because we were never "boyfriend-girlfriend"...anyway a little backround on this girl...we screwed a few times...i was very much in love with her and still do love her (unfortunately...), she's very beautiful (both of her sisters were in playboy...), anyway we were great friends, on a side note (sort of) she always was a rich spoiled girl (im sure you know the type) and prone to severe mood swings..etc...so without going into specifics one day she said some shit to me that was so hateful/mean/cruel that we never spoke again (probably around four years now)...so back to my conversation with old homie: after this girl gets brought up (i asked if hed seen her or somethin) he tells me she has diabetes and is now in really bad shape...like she might not live a whole lot longer (i guess she has some fucked up type or somethin)...but i didnt get specifics...year, 2...more?
so this brings me to the point: at first when he told me this i though: bitch got what she deserved (recall: she said some really hurtful shit to me...probably worst things ive ever heard, and fucked almost everyone else over she knew)...so try to understand wheere i am coming from...
or i was thinkn...damn maybe i should go see her (she would like to see me according to my bro) and i still do love her.....damn decisions...this is a hard one...pride or forgive...
what would ya'll do?
sorry bout the long post...
so this brings me to the point: at first when he told me this i though: bitch got what she deserved (recall: she said some really hurtful shit to me...probably worst things ive ever heard, and fucked almost everyone else over she knew)...so try to understand wheere i am coming from...
or i was thinkn...damn maybe i should go see her (she would like to see me according to my bro) and i still do love her.....damn decisions...this is a hard one...pride or forgive...
what would ya'll do?
sorry bout the long post...
08-07-2004, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by JHEIII850Turbo
man, if she passes away and you don't see her you will regret it until the day you die, it's been a while, did she ever apologize?
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Man, you really put a lot of thought into this one. You been mapping it out on index cards, creating everyones backstory? You might actually have a career in fiction...a shitty one, but one none the less.
08-07-2004, 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted by sarlacc23
Man, you really put a lot of thought into this one. You been mapping it out on index cards, creating everyones backstory? You might actually have a career in fiction...a shitty one, but one none the less.
08-07-2004, 01:45 AM
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no no no, you got it all wrong.
I don't think, I know your full of shit.
I don't think, I know your full of shit.
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08-07-2004, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted by sarlacc23
no no no, you got it all wrong.
I don't think, I know your full of shit.
I don't think, I know your full of shit.
08-07-2004, 02:24 AM
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if only i cared enough...
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Word im with Silvia like she said there is type I and type II. Type I isnt even all that bad, and then with type II you have to monitor your blood sugar and check your blood everyday. I have a couple of family members who have type II diabetes and it is under control. This girl must have some other sort of problems going on in addition with her diabetes to be so ill.
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Originally Posted by SickAcura
Word im with Silvia like she said there is type I and type II. Type I isnt even all that bad, and then with type II you have to monitor your blood sugar and check your blood everyday. I have a couple of family members who have type II diabetes and it is under control. This girl must have some other sort of problems going on in addition with her diabetes to be so ill.
thats what i throught ad well...i know she had been doind lots of meth as well in recent years and god knows what else..anyway..i need to just call her...you know how shit can snowball when you hear it thru the grapevine...
08-09-2004, 09:07 PM
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From HowStuffWorks.com http://health.howstuffworks.com/diabetes2.htm
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Type 1 (also called juvenile diabetes or insulin-dependent diabetes) is caused by a lack of insulin. This type is found in five percent to 10 percent of diabetics and usually occurs in children or adolescents. Type 1 diabetics have an abnormal glucose-tolerance test and little or no insulin in their blood. In Type 1 diabetics, the beta cells of the pancreatic islets are destroyed, possibly by the person's own immune system, genetic or environmental factors.
Type 2 (also called adult-onset diabetes or non-insulin-dependent diabetes) occurs when the body does not respond or can't use its own insulin (insulin resistance). Type 2 occurs in 90 percent to 95 percent of diabetics and usually occurs in adults over the age of 40, most often between the ages of 50 and 60. Type 2 diabetics have an abnormal glucose-tolerance test and higher than normal levels of insulin in their blood. In Type 2 diabetics, the insulin resistance is linked to obesity, but we do not know exactly how this occurs. Some studies suggest that the number of insulin receptors on liver, fat and muscle cells is reduced, while others suggest that the intracellular pathways activated by insulin in these cells are altered.
Gestational diabetes can occur in some pregnant women and is similar to Type 2 diabetes. Gestational diabetics have an abnormal glucose-tolerance test and slightly higher levels of insulin. During pregnancy, several hormones partially block the actions of insulin, thereby making the woman less sensitive to her own insulin. She develops a diabetes that can be managed by special diets and/or supplemental injections of insulin. It usually goes away after the baby is delivered.
Type 2 (also called adult-onset diabetes or non-insulin-dependent diabetes) occurs when the body does not respond or can't use its own insulin (insulin resistance). Type 2 occurs in 90 percent to 95 percent of diabetics and usually occurs in adults over the age of 40, most often between the ages of 50 and 60. Type 2 diabetics have an abnormal glucose-tolerance test and higher than normal levels of insulin in their blood. In Type 2 diabetics, the insulin resistance is linked to obesity, but we do not know exactly how this occurs. Some studies suggest that the number of insulin receptors on liver, fat and muscle cells is reduced, while others suggest that the intracellular pathways activated by insulin in these cells are altered.
Gestational diabetes can occur in some pregnant women and is similar to Type 2 diabetes. Gestational diabetics have an abnormal glucose-tolerance test and slightly higher levels of insulin. During pregnancy, several hormones partially block the actions of insulin, thereby making the woman less sensitive to her own insulin. She develops a diabetes that can be managed by special diets and/or supplemental injections of insulin. It usually goes away after the baby is delivered.
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Originally Posted by 98AcuraCLpimp
thats what i throught ad well...i know she had been doind lots of meth as well in recent years and god knows what else..anyway..i need to just call her...you know how shit can snowball when you hear it thru the grapevine...
08-10-2004, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
Who were the playmates?
08-10-2004, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
These 2 girls?
08-14-2004, 11:38 PM
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i say fuck it go say goodbye. and dont talk to her after that!! just end it ona good note let her know how you feel and walk away because you dont want to be all stuck on someone who might be alive much longer exspec after that amount of time. just let her know how abd she fucked up andwhat she missed out on for the last couple of years.( i mean dont be a dick kill her with kindness if ya know what i mean)
08-25-2004, 04:26 PM
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Yeah man you don't have to forgive her or anything, you obviously want to see her, and i don't think anyone would think less of you for it. Friends and love are things that really matter, sickness and death have a way of weeding out what doesn't.
08-25-2004, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by charlesgage
Yeah man you don't have to forgive her or anything, you obviously want to see her, and i don't think anyone would think less of you for it. Friends and love are things that really matter, sickness and death have a way of weeding out what doesn't.
08-25-2004, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by oneilc
Another thread brought back from the dead by a
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I guess somebody is very touchy about being called a noob. Awfully sorry I hurt your feelings. Try not to cry. Unreal! Well, I suppose it would be too much to ask that a person sends a private message with their complaint. Hit em in the back and run so they can't see who did it I say! Internet tactical genious!
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Originally Posted by oneilc
I guess somebody is very touchy about being called a noob. Awfully sorry I hurt your feelings. Try not to cry. Unreal! Well, I suppose it would be too much to ask that a person sends a private message with their complaint. Hit em in the back and run so they can't see who did it I say! Internet tactical genious!
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If you click the point it should bring you to the post it was for, i have never given out any negative rep points, no harm done man, my flame is over
09-22-2004, 01:31 PM
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why thank you. I figured it wasn't you who did the neg rep. You're right though, I shouldn't be calling people noobs until I get at least a year or 1000 posts under my belt 
this thread is done!
this thread is done!
09-23-2004, 02:33 AM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
ive never heard of a type of diabetes that is uncontrollable?
