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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 10:57 PM
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Ever been called the wrong name?

Well I have been talkin to this girl for a little while now and last night we were layin in bed and I touched her back (where she is very ticklish) and she called me one of my best friends names, which I know they have hooked up in the past and she used to really like him but nothing ever happened with that. Well after I got up and left for about 20 mins to chill out I came back to talk to her and she cried and kept on telling me she "fucked up" She then told me that I am the 1st person she seriously likes since my friend...I believe her but I was just really really bugged out by that. Has that ever happened to any of you?
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:08 PM
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Cant say that i have.....
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:12 PM
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Well no, but that doesn't mean much. Anyway, I understand that you get kinda weirded out.....would probably bother me too.
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:13 PM
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mmmnnope

I wouldnt read too much into it though. It could have been completly accidental. As the old saying goes, actions speak louder than words. If she acts kinda shady then you might have cause to question it. If she acts like she likes you then chalk it up to an accident.
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:16 PM
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oh I know it was an accident, thats not the question here. And although I know it was an accident I was completely weirded out and needed to chill out for a bit.
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:19 PM
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but ive done it several times to girls i've dated. it's never been because i still wanted the other girl, usually i think it's because they did something that reminded me of the other girl...or it was just me being stupid.
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:28 PM
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its quite possible that it was a freudian slip
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Old Jan 1, 2006 | 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
but ive done it several times to girls i've dated. it's never been because i still wanted the other girl, usually i think it's because they did something that reminded me of the other girl...or it was just me being stupid.
i have done it once and im sure ill do it again because i do dumb shit like that
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 12:05 AM
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um lemme just go ahead and say AHAAA (nelson voice)

dude just let it go and in two weeks call her melanie or something....
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 08:08 AM
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 08:42 AM
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I take pride when I can make them scream the names of people they don't even know in bed, its a sign that I am doing something right.

But prior to I've never had that happen.
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 02:29 PM
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Well, she keeps yelling GOD, but I'm sure she doesn't think that's my name....
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 02:34 PM
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 02:44 PM
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I told my girlfriend it is because they are thinking of someone else to help them get off...but then again that is just me being an asshole.
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 02:45 PM
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No,
But they all have a nick name for me that always amazed me they all call me the same thing, They call me "Im cummin"
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 03:37 PM
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at around age 24 I began to believe my name was "I'm going to call the cops"


couldn't figure it out
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Ol Blue Eyes
at around age 24 I began to believe my name was "I'm going to call the cops"


couldn't figure it out
Eyes rolled to the back of her head, blood coming from her noise, the smell of pepper spray in the air and the faint sound of a siren approaching rapidly... Its a familiar scenario for me too
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Ol Blue Eyes
at around age 24 I began to believe my name was "I'm going to call the cops"


couldn't figure it out
OMg you guys crack me up.
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 07:35 PM
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 08:14 PM
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mm never happened to me, but still the fact that she said it even if it was an accident, hopefully it was or shes just messing with your brain, still it shows that he was on her mid regardless
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Old Jan 2, 2006 | 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
its quite possible that it was a freudian slip


i wouldn't put too much thought into it though.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 02:32 AM
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happened to my friend a few weeks ago..

that shit would bug me out. sure its an accident and all and could be a mental slip, but it could also possibly mean shes thinkin about him when youre doin sexual stuff haha... hopefully thats not the case

i really donno what i would do in that situation... prob give her shit for it at first, let her "make it up to you" and then get over it. if it happens again, kick her ass to the curb and get a new chick
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 04:32 AM
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i was so wrong to think this only happened in chick fliks
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:11 AM
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Man, wouldn't that kill the mood...

That's subconscious stuff man, she obviously still likes the dude and I wouldn't be with anyone that was still that interested in someone. She'd probably bag your ass if she had the chance to be with the other guy.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:24 AM
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i dont know. I was 16 when i first started dating my current boyfriend, and at the time i still lived at home, with a little annoying brother.

whenever joe would annoy me and id go to yell at him, id yell my brothers name.
but now ive been away from home for a while so now when i go to yell at my brother (hes still annoying but comes to visit lol) i end up calling him my boyfriends name
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:54 AM
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Sounds like something from either Friends or a chick flick.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 08:44 AM
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I've been called "Dick" and that is definitely NOT my name.....
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:07 AM
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never, but i do remember girls at bars asking me if i remember their names from like an hour earlier, and the answer was usually
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:24 PM
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No, nor have I made the slip. It does help when you use pet names, though
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:36 PM
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Well a girl at school called my good friend by my name when he was up visiting and she was hooking up with him. Yes, it was because she was thinking of me at the time and yes she confirmed it after he told me and yes I got sloppy seconds a few weeks later.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
Well a girl at school called my good friend by my name when he was up visiting and she was hooking up with him. Yes, it was because she was thinking of me at the time and yes she confirmed it after he told me and yes I got sloppy seconds a few weeks later.
dont forget...

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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
Well a girl at school called my good friend by my name when he was up visiting and she was hooking up with him. Yes, it was because she was thinking of me at the time and yes she confirmed it after he told me and yes I got sloppy seconds a few weeks later.
some joke about sloppy seconds > sloppy JC hands...
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Shiffy
Well I have been talkin to this girl for a little while now and last night we were layin in bed and I touched her back (where she is very ticklish) and she called me one of my best friends names
to get back at her, the next time you are long-stroking her, moan out your friends name
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 08:49 PM
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:05 PM
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I made the mistake of calling out Whiskers last night during sex....it blew my cover.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:09 PM
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the sad thing is that's the most action whiskers has ever had
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
the sad thing is that's the most action whiskers has ever had
I would certainly be able to comment on such things
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted by rock chic
I would certainly be able to comment on such things
oh ok.




no actually i dont know what youre talking about.
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:18 PM
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I'm Whisker's wifey
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Old Jan 3, 2006 | 09:18 PM
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there goes the neighborhood.
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