end it officially or just chill?
01-13-2006, 01:02 PM
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end it officially or just chill?
My girlfriend of 4 months has recently moved upstate which leaves me back on the prowl. My gf will be back in NYC every few weeks or so, but I don't want to wait for her. Should I just let her know that it's over and that long distance relationships don't work or should I just keep my mouth shut, get with other girls while she's upstate and get together with her when she comes to town? BTW, I figured we were unofficially broken up and that's how I wound up banging the petite girl 4 days after she left.
01-13-2006, 01:07 PM
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My advice would be just to end it, period. Sounds like you don't have a problem meeting other bishes, so what's the point?
Plus, if the roles were reversed, would you be cool with her telling you that you two would be together and then banging other dudes behind your back?
Plus, if the roles were reversed, would you be cool with her telling you that you two would be together and then banging other dudes behind your back?
01-13-2006, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Tripp11
My advice would be just to end it, period. Sounds like you don't have a problem meeting other bishes, so what's the point?
Plus, if the roles were reversed, would you be cool with her telling you that you two would be together and then banging other dudes behind your back?
Plus, if the roles were reversed, would you be cool with her telling you that you two would be together and then banging other dudes behind your back?
01-13-2006, 01:17 PM
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I think you should have your "Doctor" title revoked.
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01-13-2006, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
I think you should have your "Doctor" title revoked.
01-13-2006, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by TLD
Killer! You don't mean that. Sometimes a guy just wants some steady ass, but variety is the spice of life. Maybe I should just be the lust doctor because I don't even believe in love.
01-13-2006, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by TLD
I hinted to her that we should see other people. The gf knows of the petite girl, but she doesn't know I banged her. I don't know if 4 days was too soon, but I knew I was tired of the same ass for 4 months. Don't get me wrong, the gf is a great looker, but too much of anyone can get to you so if she sees other guys upstate and I know guys will be asking her out, that's my excuse to bail.
Anyways, dump her. It's the decent thing to do.
01-13-2006, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
You didn't REALLY answer his questions...
Anyways, dump her. It's the decent thing to do.
Anyways, dump her. It's the decent thing to do.
I don't know about that, if you've been having Frosted Flakes every day for 4 months, I can understand perhaps wanting Fruit Loops for a change... its not that you don't want to have Frosted Flakes any more, its just some people like a little more variety... They're called swingers.
01-13-2006, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
You didn't REALLY answer his questions...
Anyways, dump her. It's the decent thing to do.
Anyways, dump her. It's the decent thing to do.
01-13-2006, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
Using your own words...take some advice and stop posting so much retahded crap. 
Totally not joking
Totally not joking
Thanks in Advance.
01-13-2006, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted by SwervinCL
Oh come on. Since when does decency ever apply before marriage. If you like the sex, then you always have a backup plan if your not getting and ass when she comes into town. Besides if your "seeing other people'" then whats the big deal.
The point is he's just assuming she's seeing other people, he has no clue what she's up to. End it.
01-13-2006, 08:03 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
The point is he's just assuming she's seeing other people, he has no clue what she's up to. End it.
01-13-2006, 08:13 PM
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If she's up for the casual thing why wouldn't you keep her around at least for the visitation rights. Providing you don't mind if the relationship goes to shit, as it will likely at some point, it's probably worth risking. You've been with her for 4 months...you should be able to read her. If she isn't, then end it. The ass isn't worth the headache and if you have ANY feelings whatsoever for this girl it's the right thing to do.
Not all women are opposed to the casual thing. We like our fair share of play to.
Not all women are opposed to the casual thing. We like our fair share of play to.
01-13-2006, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted by rock chic
If she's up for the casual thing why wouldn't you keep her around at least for the visitation rights. Providing you don't mind if the relationship goes to shit, as it will likely at some point, it's probably worth risking. You've been with her for 4 months...you should be able to read her. If she isn't, then end it. The ass isn't worth the headache and if you have ANY feelings whatsoever for this girl it's the right thing to do.
Not all women are opposed to the casual thing. We like our fair share of play to.
Not all women are opposed to the casual thing. We like our fair share of play to.
01-13-2006, 08:29 PM
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Cool, when are you up in NY?
01-13-2006, 08:33 PM
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You 2 are a couple? I thought you were a metrosexual.
01-13-2006, 08:33 PM
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I hope none of my gf's ever find out about this place it would make life very difficult - not saying i have multiple gf's I just never keep them around long.
01-13-2006, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
When I let her.....
Anways, in the city all the time for business. Great city but admit I don't think I could live there.
01-14-2006, 02:50 AM
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meh, I think you suck as a boyfriend, do her a favor n break up with her. I don't think you'd like anyone cheating on you behind your back.
So please... just let her go.
UNLESS you guys have an open relationship n both of u guys were openly positive about a 'swinger' relationship then er... i guess have fun?
So please... just let her go.
UNLESS you guys have an open relationship n both of u guys were openly positive about a 'swinger' relationship then er... i guess have fun?
01-14-2006, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted by rock chic
Please....they have all figured out that I own you.
Anways, in the city all the time for business. Great city but admit I don't think I could live there.
Anways, in the city all the time for business. Great city but admit I don't think I could live there.
01-14-2006, 03:22 PM
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NYC is an expensive place to live. Keep her around if you financially benefit. If not she's worthless to you.
Keep her on the DL, when shec omes back do not let her meet anyone that has incriminating evidence on you. Just bang her out and send her on her way.
Keep her on the DL, when shec omes back do not let her meet anyone that has incriminating evidence on you. Just bang her out and send her on her way.
01-14-2006, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by strawb3rri3
meh, I think you suck as a boyfriend, do her a favor n break up with her. I don't think you'd like anyone cheating on you behind your back.
So please... just let her go.
UNLESS you guys have an open relationship n both of u guys were openly positive about a 'swinger' relationship then er... i guess have fun?
So please... just let her go.
UNLESS you guys have an open relationship n both of u guys were openly positive about a 'swinger' relationship then er... i guess have fun?
01-14-2006, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
Ooops, sorry! I meant Mr. "Love Doctor" -- not friend. 
Appears you're the one with abandonment issues.
Appears you're the one with abandonment issues.
02-04-2006, 05:37 PM
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I hope none of my gf's ever find out about this place it would make life very difficult - not saying i have multiple gf's I just never keep them around long.Soopa is your neighbor, so you better tread carefully LOL
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