Drunken fun or the game is on?
#42
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So here's the update for you fools:
Last night was pretty chilled. Nothing exciting happened for those of you who are wondering![Tomato](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/tomato.gif)
Went over, she had dinner ready, pretty impressive, 3-4 course meal. We just talked A LOT about random stuff, and then chilled in her living room continued talking and watching a little of the tube. I knew she had a quiz and she hd to study so I checked out. She walked me down, hugged, said bye and I left. That's about it.
I get home and I'm just putzing on the computer, talkin to some friends. I saw her come off away, she didn't IM me or anything. And right when I was about to head up to bed, my phone gets a text message from her IM screen name. I was still online without an away message so I have no idea why she didn't just IM me. Anyways, she says something to the effect of "Thanks for coming tonight, sorry if I chewed your ears off. Anyways, ttyl take care"
So I'm not entirely sure what's goin on. Her and I are goin to my alma mater in a week and a half, to meet up with friends, and we'll have drunk fun then. I think the only way to break this girl initially is when she's buzzin, but I'm still skeptical though...
Last night was pretty chilled. Nothing exciting happened for those of you who are wondering
![Tomato](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/tomato.gif)
Went over, she had dinner ready, pretty impressive, 3-4 course meal. We just talked A LOT about random stuff, and then chilled in her living room continued talking and watching a little of the tube. I knew she had a quiz and she hd to study so I checked out. She walked me down, hugged, said bye and I left. That's about it.
I get home and I'm just putzing on the computer, talkin to some friends. I saw her come off away, she didn't IM me or anything. And right when I was about to head up to bed, my phone gets a text message from her IM screen name. I was still online without an away message so I have no idea why she didn't just IM me. Anyways, she says something to the effect of "Thanks for coming tonight, sorry if I chewed your ears off. Anyways, ttyl take care"
So I'm not entirely sure what's goin on. Her and I are goin to my alma mater in a week and a half, to meet up with friends, and we'll have drunk fun then. I think the only way to break this girl initially is when she's buzzin, but I'm still skeptical though...
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
I think the only way to break this girl initially is when she's buzzin,
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Originally Posted by teg_to_bike
sala! What part of "bring wine" did you not understand!
1. I didn't know what she was making
2. The brownie that she is, she's a good school girl that had to study so she won't drink
3. I don't even know if she likes wine
#45
Originally Posted by phipark
I think she likes you. She's liked you for awhile but the alcohol just let it out.
Alcohol doesn't make us do things that we don't want to do; it allows us to do the things we really want to do, with something to blame it on if things go poorly.
#46
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
So here's the update for you fools:
Last night was pretty chilled. Nothing exciting happened for those of you who are wondering![Tomato](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/tomato.gif)
Went over, she had dinner ready, pretty impressive, 3-4 course meal. We just talked A LOT about random stuff, and then chilled in her living room continued talking and watching a little of the tube. I knew she had a quiz and she hd to study so I checked out. She walked me down, hugged, said bye and I left. That's about it.
I get home and I'm just putzing on the computer, talkin to some friends. I saw her come off away, she didn't IM me or anything. And right when I was about to head up to bed, my phone gets a text message from her IM screen name. I was still online without an away message so I have no idea why she didn't just IM me. Anyways, she says something to the effect of "Thanks for coming tonight, sorry if I chewed your ears off. Anyways, ttyl take care"
So I'm not entirely sure what's goin on. Her and I are goin to my alma mater in a week and a half, to meet up with friends, and we'll have drunk fun then. I think the only way to break this girl initially is when she's buzzin, but I'm still skeptical though...
Last night was pretty chilled. Nothing exciting happened for those of you who are wondering
![Tomato](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/tomato.gif)
Went over, she had dinner ready, pretty impressive, 3-4 course meal. We just talked A LOT about random stuff, and then chilled in her living room continued talking and watching a little of the tube. I knew she had a quiz and she hd to study so I checked out. She walked me down, hugged, said bye and I left. That's about it.
I get home and I'm just putzing on the computer, talkin to some friends. I saw her come off away, she didn't IM me or anything. And right when I was about to head up to bed, my phone gets a text message from her IM screen name. I was still online without an away message so I have no idea why she didn't just IM me. Anyways, she says something to the effect of "Thanks for coming tonight, sorry if I chewed your ears off. Anyways, ttyl take care"
So I'm not entirely sure what's goin on. Her and I are goin to my alma mater in a week and a half, to meet up with friends, and we'll have drunk fun then. I think the only way to break this girl initially is when she's buzzin, but I'm still skeptical though...
A girl making you a 3-4 course meal? It's obvious she likes you but she's playing it low right now since she's afraid she might have appeared aggressive with the way she danced with you the last time.
#47
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Originally Posted by sasha
A girl making you a 3-4 course meal? It's obvious she likes you but she's playing it low right now since she's afraid she might have appeared aggressive with the way she danced with you the last time.
I dunno, it was still simple stuff, salads and pastas and what not
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#48
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
Maybe I'll have to up the aggressiveness so she feels more comfortable. Just don't want to get pinned into the "friends zone"
#49
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Originally Posted by sasha
The next time you are with her (when she's sober), try holding her hand and see how she'll respond. Show a bit of affectionate but don't go overboard.
Next time will be when we're driving up to go visit the friends, she's got midterms this comin week so its not like I'll be seeing her till after
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
I dunno, it was still simple stuff, salads and pastas and what not
. Maybe I'll have to up the aggressiveness so she feels more comfortable. Just don't want to get pinned into the "friends zone".
![Dunno](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/dunno.gif)
and PS. Go ahead and buy the ring. She cooked for you, that's like the golden sign that she's a keeper.
jen
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
So you're saying I should slip my tongue down her throat ![Shrug](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/shrug.gif)
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#55
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
So this girl seems to be a big flirt, I knew this was too good to be true.
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Well I didn't get it from her directly, but the buddy that came with me was talkin to our friend. She was asking if I was attracted to homegirl. He just said a lot of guys find her attractive cause he wasn't trying to reveal nothing to her. Anyways, she went into how she's a really flirty girl and how her and homegirl had a convo about me and how she's hoping that she isn't doing anything to lead me on. Just a tease... sall good, there are always others
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Wow didnt see that coming. Oh well you got a free dinner out of it. ![Woot](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/woot.gif)
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She's brown, how could you not see that coming, with them, you must expect the unexpected
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Now that I'm single, I thought I'd check in with the ol flames. Took this girl to a Michael Bublé concert on Wednesday. She definitely has matured and I actually had a great time with her. I think I'm going to see where this goes. Sometimes I wish I had ended up with this girl than my gf. Incidentally, she broke up around the same with with her guy when I broke up with my girl. I think its time for a 2nd chance, game on!
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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
Is anyone else thinking "rebound?" Everyone else looks awesome and great when you first become single.
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Doesn't necessarily mean it's an automatic failure though. Good luck with her, hope it works out!
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Originally Posted by amisconception
So she's brown, she likes you, is going to feed you... when's the wedding?
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#69
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Its not really rebound, we remained friends and I've thought about her from time to time as something more. Hanging out with her was fun and we keep each other on our toes, it was a good time. Doesn't hurt to see where things go I think.
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Originally Posted by poohlikeshunny
i agree ctlgo...wy not if you've been friends? unless the friendship is too good to "risk" it...
I have learned that in most cases, a friendship with a girl is always worth risking. I rather take a risk than live with the "What If" regret.
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
I have learned that in most cases, a friendship with a girl is always worth risking. I rather take a risk than live with the "What If" regret.
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
I have learned that in most cases, a friendship with a girl is always worth risking. I rather take a risk than live with the "What If" regret.
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