Acura3.0CL

Ok, im have issues with my Girlfriend and I really want to call Loveline and talk to Adam and Dr. Drew about it. Does anyone know if calling Loveline costs $$?? (i definitly dont want to be spending 40 cents a min for 60 min on hold or anything...)

moeronn

That show is still on - nationally?

I don't think they ever charged - it was a 1-800-number. But what do you need Loveline for when you have AZ-line?

Moog-Type-S

TLover

The TV show isn't on, but the radio show still is.

moeronn

I think Adam Carolla (sp) has to regret leaving The Man Show. Him and Jimmy Kimmel were a great pair.

He was the funniest on the radio morning show (w/ Kevin and Bean and Jimmy on KROQ), though. His Mr. Birchem persona was the best!!

teg_to_bike

Dude, just ask us. I can already predict the responses:

Hit it
Hit it over and over
Ditch that Bitch
Hit it then ditch it
pics, then we'll decide

...and there is usually a response from one of the female members of the board who puts some thought into her post.

eve

Why go on a radio and wait 60 minutes on hold where you can get a response here in 5 minutes or less.... and don't forget that you'll get more than one answer.

iTimmy

Besides, its been a little dull in the D&R section today, give the sad, love lorn, horny children of acurazine something to talk about. And if it could include something graphic that would be swell

Acura3.0CL

hahaha this is EXACTLY why I will leave it up to the pros...all you horn balls...lol...i do admit you make me laugh, but it wont help my issues in the long run.

Ok then, anwser me this....my girlfriend dosnt put out as much as i want her too...what should I do?

(and the responce: Hit it
Hit it over and over
Ditch that Bitch
Hit it then ditch it
pics, then we'll decide.....is not what im looking for...lol

TSX 'R' US

Who needs loveline when you have Acurazine?

TLgirlfriend

you should find out why she doesn't want sex, you know, talk to her, and then try to figure out what you can do to fix it

Crazy Bimmer

Yea its wild what talking does these days

If that doesnt work then surprise sex her.

iTimmy

Is the frequency of sex any less then it has been in the past? How long have you been together? Are we talking like 2-3 times a week? or 2-3 times a month?

Even though I am single at the moment, I have never had a GF who could maintain what I felt my needs were in that area for long. Its not uncommon for a man's sexual desire to exceed what his GF is capable of delivering- at least in a relationship that is anything more then a sex based relationship, which won't last long any ways.

You aren't the sort who feels he deserves it, are you? Go out of your way to be the guy she fell in love with and it will pay off with dividends beyond your wildest dreams. What are you doing differently now then when you were getting as much action as you feel you deserve?

I disagree with talking about it, that's what woman do, they talk about there problems/concerns and it makes them feel better. Men, however, are problem solvers(yes Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus), don't solve her problem, solve yours and reep the rewards.

The answers are all so obvious when looking in from the outside, yet so hard to manage from the inside.

PsychoInDenial

Maybe you aren't being sensual enough with her. Chicks like to be massaged and pampered and stuff. The nicer you treat her, the more likely she'd be willing to suck a dick.

Or it could be you guys just don't have the same drive. I've mentioned this before in another thread, I have yet to meet a guy that has be down enough to fuck everytime I want to. I usually get response that I'm just "too much" for them to handle.

But I'm a rare case I know. Either way, the best way would just to be to straight up ask her, tactfully of course.I would ask her if everything is ok. There could be something bothering her, or she could just be getting bored with the usual routine. Go to a sex shop together and buy some new toys or porn. Try switching it up a little, try doing it someplace different or at a different time of day, try it out doors, be creative, that might be all you need to get the juices following again.

Acura3.0CL

Ok, if you all really think you can help...then heres the details...u tell me what im doing wrong because i cant think of anything.

Umm, we've been dating 5 yrs. (we're both 19) In the first 2-3 years everything was great, besides the fact she cheated on me a few times. These last 2 years we've matured alot. With that, came barily any "physical relationship" Seems like all she wants to do now is either hang out with friends and party and drink, or be cute and cuddly with me. Take for example the past few days. We've rented probably 5 movies and what have we done during the day/night....cuddle and watch movies. I try to put moves on her..I do try, and she rejects them, grabbing my hand and saying "no" or "im not in the mood" (and yes, before i even start to make a move, im rubbing her shoulders, her back, kissing her and kissing her neck, rubbing my hand on her stomach, back, legs.....and yet, nothing gets her in the mood.

Now as far as being romamtic....when she cleaned out her dorm room 2 weeks ago, we counted 8 dozen roses that i'd given her within our first year at college. The $180 in Victoria Secret underware (sexy underware) i bought her for christmas....shes worn it twice and ive never seen it on her and nothings ever happened when she was wearing it. (the latest time was 3 days ago one night watching a movie. She was wearing the underware, i tried to put moves on her and nope!...she didnt feel like it....

Shes no into the whole sex toys and spicing up trying new things. Ive tried to take her to a sex shop...she thinks their trashy. Ive been soo sweet and kind and nice to her....tonight we went and got icecream and another movie...and still nothing...

I am soo frustraited...everytime I try to hint something or put moves on her, she tells me, "your addicted to sex and thats all u want from me!" I honestly dont know what to do...and i know its not just me thinking this because my best friend and his girlfriend do stuff all the time and have a great relationship...they have been dating for 3 yrs.

Oh yea...last time we had sex or basically did ANYTHING...(and im talking anything as in even touching "areas")....umm its been 3 months...

Now on adverage, Im lucky to have sex maybe once a month....oral or any kind of fondeling is usaully 2 times a month.


NOW....tell me what im doing wrong....(and yes, her and I have "talked" about this before...she just gets upset, cries, yells at me saying that all I want is sex and that imn addicted...and then she gets confused and dosnt understand why she dosnt want to do anything more often, and then nothing changes...

JJ4Short

rule of thumb, girls are full of shit

Heres whats going on, your too available to her and she is getting uninterested. I went through this with my current girlfriend and the common cure? Stop caring about sex/her. Most if not all of my friends who get normal sex, girlfriend does their laundry, and cooks for them usually take advantage of their girlfriends then show them love about 20 percent of the time. The thing is not to be really "mean" about it just go about your business and when she asks you, "Whats wrong?" just be like "Got homework, I am tired, blah blah blah" The thing about you is that your always there for her and she knows it so she does whatever the fuck she wants.

Girls like sex and want sex but only from guys who don't really care that much and give them room to breathe. It's retarded and prolly stems from some deep seeded father issue. BTW when girls start posting BS about her just not wanting sex don't listen to them because they are retards as well.

Do your thing, if she leaves shrug your shoulders and keep doing your thing. That way your not really in the wrong and when someone asks why she left you can be like, "well I was trying to focus on school, or work and she couldn't take that." Then hell what can they say? This way you keep her wanting because she sees you don't want her which gives you a life time pass for getting pussy from this chick.

Plus your young what the fuck are you doing dating someone so fucking long, hit the gym, flirt with harlots and get drunk and fuck fat chicks. No fat chicks under your belt, sir you have not lived.

Acura3.0CL

oh, i forgot to menchon the fact that from march till may we were "on a break" and barily talked or hung out...so i gave her space for 2 months...and still nothing this whole month....soooo keep trying, cuz none of your guys ideas are working....but thanks for trying to help...

JJ4Short

cause your ass came right back, when she said "hey lets get back together" you should have already been having sex with harlots! Damn! Get pussy elsewhere, this bitch cheated on you and your trying to make shit better?! Shit you should make it so she has to make things better.

Next time she starts crying, just say "Yeah well I got needs and this ain't working out" and walk to fuck out...BE A MAN!

thatguy

listen to JJ

iTimmy

JJ is spot on!

One other thing, if she's not getting it from you, she's getting it from some where- sorry I had to be the one to break it to you. Attractive young woman don't just stop having sex for the hell of it. It sounds like you've given this a lot of effort and maybe is time to move on, you are young.

This is what pisses me off. The nice guy gets burned enough times then they end up like me, woman suck most of the time!

ric

If you have a relationship that started at 15 and is now waning, that's not exactly a bad track record for puppy love, and it may be time to consider your options and move on. Have you ever dated much as a young adult? Might find a brave new world out there, and one filled with interesting women that you might like.

Being single is lonely, but being in an exclusive relationship that lacks sexual intimacy is a hellofa lot lonlier......

And it really does not much matter whether she's boffing the seventh fleet when she's not with you, or whether she has problems with sexual intimacy that prohibit the development of a stronger relationship. She is declining sexual expression, and she is declining your interest in discussing it on any mature and thoughtful leve. That is pretty much a non-negotiable position she's taking, whether she realises it or not. Time to move on.

CL Platano

Ummm move to Jersey

iTimmy

Or New York- East coast in the house!

mfkitson

This is right on the money! Talk to her specifically about your relationship. See what she says. I'm guessing ric has it right though. Either she has a problem with sex or she just isn't there for you anymore. Communicate with her! As ric says, being together from 15 till now is a major accomplishment and you may want to broaden your horizons...you're only 19, have some FUN!

PsychoInDenial

Well I am considering law school in a couple years. I never know where that might take me :wink:

As for this dude's situation, it sounds to me that (1) this bitch is getting laid on the side or (2) she's prematurely fallen into that I'm comfertable with a guy and he's always going to be there for me and I don't need to fuck him any more mode. She might be one of those chicks that believes sex is only for procreation or someshit. Maybe you haven't really gotten her to cum to appreciate what its like to get fucked good.

Either way, you're only 19, your young love relationship isn't worth holding onto at this point. Sounds like you need to drop her and start dating other chicks, this chick ain't worth your time.