Why hot chics date losers?

I swear, the last 10 chics I met are dating deadbeat losers with no jobs and major baggage (car repo'ed, kids/babies, live with Mom & Daddy).....and they are all over the age of 25 YEARS OLDS!!!...

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,, i seriously need to get out of this piece of shit city.

 

Let me go ask my wife...

 

Its not any better here either. I guess it happens everywhere. You tell me how a girl is with guy with a painted civic with a giant wing

 

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what losers that you know of have $$$? just 3 $ signs let alone all those ^^^

 

Cuz those guys know how to make women feel the magical emotion of attraction. And when attraction is there, not much else gets factored into their decision.

 

Because women are inherently illogical creatures.

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emotes is this WoW or something???


funny thing is, you are right

 

sometimes even losers have good qualities...thought I shouldn't talk, my bf of almost 2 years just went to court for his 2nd dui

 

A loser always has "good qualities" that women find an irrisitable need to "bring out" like a "project man". (sorry ladies, but) I find most women are inherently insecure in social situations. A "project man" can make them feel better about their own problems, being a good samaritan, and they will always be better than the man in that case.

This is why the following week/month after a coupole gets married, the arguments start. She is trying to better her man/life.

Please note that some men do this as well and this is not intended to be a chauvanistic post, but one based from my own personal observations/experiences.

 

I've only mentioned it in about 5 threads so far. Men with pride don't chase girls while losers have no problem doing it. I'll mention once again how a stupid Dominican girl cancelled our date an hour before I was supposed to pick her up. If she had simply cancelled, it might have been forgiveable, but the dumb ass cancelled when I called her to let her know I was coming. She had the nerve to tell me to call her later and see if she was home to which I replied, no, you have my number, call me if you get back early. The difference between me and a loser, is that the loser would have actually called back later and checked to see if she was home. Losers continue chasing girls long after the intelligent men move on to the next girl, so the girl gets angry at the smart choice for leaving her because of her games and she winds up with the loser who continues giving her attention.

 

I know where you're coming from. I was in high school and this chick that was HOT AS HELL she dated this dude that was pretty good on the basketball team. Everytime I saw them in the hall he'd treat her like crap or say something mean to her. . The thing was she probably could of modeled. Only reason I think She dated him was he was popular she was popular. I pulled her aside one day and asked Jordanne why she dated Randy.(randy was the guy that was a Jacka$$) she's like "what do you mean he's a jerk i think he's fine." i just laughed and left it at that. she finally dumped him like a year later. Of course after i'm out of school. and when she goes to college.

Then another case at my high school that didn't end so good(In my opinion) was Jason and Abbey. Jason thought he was the coolest thing since Oakley sunglasses. He always thought he was above everyone.He was popular and Abbey was a cheerleader. he was an ass to anyone who wasn't popular. they got married. I saw them together in Lowe's. the funny part is he flunked out of college. Abbey was pretty she could have had about any guy in the school. She had that carribean darkish skin look to her. very pretty.

Then we got Kyle he was popular in school. dated this one hot chick in high school(i forget her name) He thought he was gonna be the next Eddie George.(thought he was gonna break rushing records) but he was dumb as a box of rocks. I was a junior when he a senior and I was a WAYYYYYY BRIGHTER than he was.He always made fun of the football team because "his team mates weren't worthy of him"(he always said that) yeah he was a decent Full back but he wasn't as good as he said was. The thing that was Bull SH!T. he kept on saying the linemen(which I was one) wasn't doing their jobs. well the thing was the HB wouldn't blow out the linebacker better than 1/2 the time so Linebacker would read the play and blitz the line and stuff him. Then he'd get up throw his little fit. then come back to the huddle and start tearing into the linemen. his buddy was the HB so he'd never tear into him.
but if you asked him what the 3 squared was he'd never be able to answer that.
the thing is I lost 125 lbs since high school and now concidering playing amatuer league football(it's kind of semi-pro type deal) a kid from my high school team wants me too. The funny thing is they want me to play full back. since i'm 6 ft 4 235 lbs.

 

most people that i know date others who are less educated/intelligent than they are. it seems a lot of people are more likely to want to date someone as or less intelligent than they are.

we might think the women are dumb for it when in fact they aware of their situation and know they have the education/intelligence (and consequently leverage) over the guy. but i'm sure some in many cases the woman is just plain dumb. or desperate.

 

Thats not true, im still single.

 

Women like to "fix people" just as men sometimes like cars with potential.

Unlike cars though, people can only be fixed by THEMSELVES.

Women = teh illogical

 

nice guys come in...........................(someone help me with this)

 

their sock?

 

i'm not a loser

 

girls like bad ass guys

and the good guys always don't get to fuck them

 

ha.. i must be the exception then.

on the other hand, is there ANY guy out there that has a fucking brain? i hate to sound conceited, but i want a guy who can match and/or supercede my own intelligence, and as i'm finding out, it's damn near impossible. and try combining that with good looks...

your question is why do hot chicks date losers? my question is why do hot guys date dumb girls...

the only answer i can think of, is that no one can really find what they want, so they settle... at least for the time being. people are fearful of being alone.

 

lol hot guys date dumb chicks because the dumb chick is probably hot and they just want some ass. Most of those dumb chicks aren't soul mate material though, and I notice a lot of guys end up dumping them for more intelligent women later on in life.

As for why hot chicks date losers...I have no idea

 

Yep. But then they get hurt in the end. One of my lady freinds just broke up with her BF of 2 years. We really thought they would be getting maried. Seems like commuincatiion between the two broke down and the relationship failed. Oh yeh, the guy was a dumbass jock type. They went with us to Cuba. Boy, the way he treated her was sometimes unforgivable, but she would always tell me she loves him... ..untill now.

 

I think its a security issue with the women. I read an interesting article about a woman and how she would always look for men who were "below" her, and it all boiled down to her dad leaving her family when she was young. She was afraid her boyfriend and eventual husband would leave her for something better, so by dating losers she would dictate the relationship and that person would never want to leave her because he couldn't get anything better.

it makes a lot of sense considering her past but women are still teh illogical.

 

good post Dean.

Like the other guys/gals said too... low self-esteem is my guess.

 

Smitler,

I think they're just turned by your embalming fluid cologne.

 

exactly, b/c the 'loser' appears to be a challenge

 

No no no, look at VBB and HTML - the end of a tag is denoted by a /.

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see?

so /thread means...

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Some women have esteem problems and some chose a loser 'cause they are looking for some one to protect them with out any regard for any other redeeming qualities. Victims of rape, child abuse, etc. will often times be attracted to rough and tough men of questionable character. Both of my sisters are with guys that fall into the "guys that are great to hang out at the bar with, but I wouldn't want to date my sister" category

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The days of Chivalry and courtly love are over my friend

 

YOU DID GO OUT WITH HER AGAIN even after that. THE difference between you and a looser is non existent . YOu cant let go of the fact you didnt get none.

 

I think that most of the "weird" things that women do are related to low self-esteem.

 

it's because we are good in the sack







and in all honesty, how do you know these women aren't complete basket cases themselves?

 

 

oh O.. i smell

is this true Dean?

 

if so...









...

 

ok here are a couple of ideas
first- off yes women love bad boys and they love to fix them

second- there are these things called "drugs" and if you have them our your on them then you aren't exactly going to make great choices.

third- what are those peps real situation, I am 25 recently divorced and paying off huge debt, so for the next 6 months I have to live with my parents.

Fourth- if they take care of him if I lock him down they will take care of me
My ex-brother inlaw is prime here- 27 with a chick that has his baby living in the back room. the kicker is that there familey is respected and not to bad off.

fifth- they don't have money but once again it could go to drugs, toys, whatever
no rent and so on

all in all it's really a choice of the person. I'm not a loser but I live with my parents (for now)
there are lots of reasons and lots of good looking women

 

I definitely prefer nice guys. If the guy treats me like shit, his ass is dumped. Arrogance also turns me off.

 

u hit the screw on the head batin dean

 

well from the sound of it, his head didn't get screwed

 

 

now that was funny