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Sep 12, 2007 | 07:38 AM

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Mokos23

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Thanks guys again for all your opinions on the matter. I've moved on and will just act normal like I did with the other girls I've dated and I do remember I didn't get attached too early with my other 2 ex-gfs right away.

The reason was that girl I went out she had everything I wanted in a woman. She was pretty, laughed a lot, could cook well, thought she had a nice personality, only child, and even drove a TSX too.

Sep 12, 2007 | 07:46 AM

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Mike 350Z

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^^Just curious, what's so great about someone that's an only-child?

Sep 12, 2007 | 08:11 AM

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geez, you give up fast. Just cause 1 date does not work, you give up on the site. Keep plugging. You got 1 fun date, you may get more. Besides which, you took it all too seriously after 1 date. Just cause you felt something after 1 date, does not mean she has to too.

Keep plugging.

Sep 12, 2007 | 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by 04EuroAccordTsx

The reason was that girl I went out she had everything I wanted in a woman. She was pretty, laughed a lot, could cook well, thought she had a nice personality, only child, and even drove a TSX too.

1. pretty? check.
2. laughed a lot? check.
3. cook well? double check.
4. nice personality? check.
5. drove a tsx? check.

but seriously, what's with the only child?

Sep 12, 2007 | 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Mike 350Z

^^Just curious, what's so great about someone that's an only-child?

only child i like cause i don't have to deal with a lot of other relatives like brother or sisters especially ones who are a bit overprotective of their sister.

Sep 12, 2007 | 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks

1. pretty? check.
2. laughed a lot? check.
3. cook well? double check.
4. nice personality? check.
5. drove a tsx? check.

but seriously, what's with the only child?

same as last answer, btw, if you were looking pics for her, i posted her pic back in the pretty girl thread, i forgot what page it was on.

Sep 12, 2007 | 09:13 AM

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thank you sir. i'll keep plugging and chugging. i have to cause my subscription doesn't expire until either october or november.

Sep 12, 2007 | 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by 04EuroAccordTsx

only child i like cause i don't have to deal with a lot of other relatives like brother or sisters especially ones who are a bit overprotective of their sister.

Well if she's a grown-ass woman you shouldn't have to worry about that anyway. If they all still live together, well that's a different story.

Still though, I think the stereotypical cons of an only child (selfish, doesn't play well with others, used to having undivided attention) outweigh the stereotypical pros.

Sep 12, 2007 | 09:39 AM

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post pics here, want to see if this girl is worth obsessing over

Sep 12, 2007 | 10:09 AM

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amisconception - great post.

Sep 12, 2007 | 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by 04EuroAccordTsx

thank you sir. i'll keep plugging and chugging. i have to cause my subscription doesn't expire until either october or november.

Dating does suck. I have a friend that did the online thing for a while and she hated it. She just hated being single more. And while all this was going on, we had a co-worker that married the guy she met on Match.com.

Good luck. You never know.

Sep 12, 2007 | 10:20 AM

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sorry, dude.

but raphael would have gotten the second date.

seriously, what's wrong with the old fashion way of dating?

no michaelangelo was the ladies man of the turtles!

Sep 13, 2007 | 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL

My advice:

Judging from what I've seen and experienced, the best relationships come from accidental meetings where people aren't looking for a date. Don't go to a bar or a club or online. Thats just setting yourself up for failure in the long run. Some people have success but IMO they're flukes.

The best way to meet a decent person you'll be compatible is through family, friends, a church etc. Maybe you'll meet that special someone where you both have the same hobby. (You'd be amazed how many smart and pretty girls are into scuba diving for example)

Agreed! There's a lot of nice girls in the produce isle at the supermarket. Besides, I always thought my dream guy was either in Alaska or Africa anyway.

Sep 15, 2007 | 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker

Agreed! There's a lot of nice girls in the produce isle at the supermarket. Besides, I always thought my dream guy was either in Alaska or Africa anyway.

Or... Get a dog.

I have noticed that men and women that share a common interest tend to develop stronger relationships. (Big surprise).

I noticed this at the dog park this morning. A woman approached a man about his dog and an instant conversation started about their common interests and hobbies.

Oct 2, 2007 | 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by 04EuroAccordTsx

I'm serious, I was talking to this girl because I finally tried to give one of those matching sites a chance. So after talking on email and the phone a few times we meet up. She looks really nice and I gave her 1 white rose. So, I thought we're having a good time. We eat a nice restaurant and then went to Borders to talk. At the end of the date we hugged and she said it was nice to meet you. Well, I asked her when I can call her, she said mid-week because I had told her before that I was going on a business trip. So, yesterday I called her from the airport because I was going home from my trip, got her voicemail yesterday evening, so I left a message even if my phone reception was bad. This morning I called her again and left another message stating that I was sorry if you couldn't get my last note. Well, anyways, other girls in the past if they said that they had a good time, but didn't feel any chemistry normally email me or let me know the next day or not if they want to go out again. I wish she could tell me whether or not she wants to go out again.

This is the puzzling thing though, when we were at Borders, I asked her if she wanted to go bowling too, she said no she couldn't because she had talked to her mom while we went to the washroom and her mom was ill, but she said she would like to go bowling on the 2nd date. Was she just saying that as BS or the truth?

You calling her like that is a sign of desperation, she probably don't want a desperate man. You should get the hint if you never speak to her again, and stop leaving messages on her answer machine just another sign of desperation.