Sorry about the lame refrence

Anyway so Friday I threw a big party here at my place, for my birthday.

This girl I have been friends with for a few months made a move on me...she is a great girl, but she is 19 and it shows. That said we always have something to talke about, there is an attraction there and all that good stuff, but deep down I know that she is not long term material. Not the kind of girl I could take home to mom and dad you know. So do I end things before it gets too heavy to try and save that friendship, if at all possible, or do I just ride things out for a while and see what happens?

I could ride things out, but I don't want to end up hurting this girl she is really awesome, but I just have doubts about any sort of 'real' realationship.

What do y'all think?

 

just have sex with her, and don't date her...

I know what you mean by "not-take home material"

but fuck it, there is obviously an attraction. Just go ahead and have some fun, maybe you'll find some things out about her you didn't know.

or maybe you'll find out worse things about her and it'll make it easier to hit it and quit it.

 

It depends on what you want out of it. You could just ride it out, but unless something happens to change your mind about her being long term material nothing can really come of it. She'd also probably get attached, unless shes into the casual thing in which case a relationship probably isnt even required. If you don't want to hurt her just try not to give her any false hope and you should be fine

 

she obviously wanted to hook up with you since she made the first move.

Just fuck her, and then worry about the consquences afterwards.



I am not really a good person, am I?

 

No, just a bit shortsighted.

 

Thats pretty much my whole philosophy.

 

Unfortunately I know exactly what you mean by "not take-home material"
and a 5 year age difference...

But since she's 19, which puts you in a bit more favourable position than I'm in right now, just go with what feels right. If you've been friends for awhile don't hit it, because that will change things. If you haven't been friends for awhile, and don't mind losing her as a friend, hit it and run, as long as you tell her what your intentions are ahead of time.

 

Be upfront with her. Don't blurt out "I want to screw you, but don't want a relationship" but mention that you think the age difference is a major issue. Tell her that you like her, but don't want to ruin the friendship. She might just say "that's cool, but I want you to do me now anyway"

 

nail her but don't talk about feelings.

Not that difficult to do.

 

fuck her and chuck her

 

hmm...the flying camel comes to mind...

give her a wild ride and see what happens. if things are weird, drop her. iif things are cool, see where it goes. just make it clear you aren't really in the market for dating action at the moment.


and then give her a jelly donut after that flying camel

 

Thanks for the input all...and keep em coming.

 

if a girl is feelin me and says "meet the parents", but i'm not feelin her--- thats when she gets the boot

 

if u ask us here we all will tell you go ahead and nail her

you were struggling that if you should be ethical and not to nail her coz you think u r a gd guy, but you are keep having wet dreams for nailing her :P

i think this is the answer you want from us so you will be convinced that it's ok

have fun