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Old 02-26-2004, 09:34 AM
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Could you marry someone if you cheated on them?

Anybody done this/know someone who's done this/thinking about doing this themselves?

Could you really keep from thinking about it if you had to spend every day of the rest of your life with them? Would you tell them before you proposed and play it from there??
Old 02-26-2004, 09:37 AM
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Maybe after years and years of time to get over it. I think I would feel bad forever. Plus she would hold it over you and not move forward.
Old 02-26-2004, 09:45 AM
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hells fawkin no.. NEVER!!! Thats the biggest disrespect.. how can you trust them EVER again?
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Old 02-26-2004, 09:52 AM
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kind of a weird wording. Could you marry someone that cheated on you....hell no. Could you marry someone that you cheated on...maybe. I would never be in that situtation.
Old 02-26-2004, 09:53 AM
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i would tell them before i married them, if they wanted to stay with me then, it was meant to be.

if they cheated on me, and told me.. no. never.
Old 02-26-2004, 10:13 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i would tell them before i married them, if they wanted to stay with me then, it was meant to be.

if they cheated on me, and told me.. no. never.
Old 02-26-2004, 11:55 AM
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nope

there was a reason for you to cheat on them...and who's to say it won't happen again after you get married??
Old 02-26-2004, 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
i would tell them before i married them, if they wanted to stay with me then, it was meant to be.

if they cheated on me, and told me.. no. never.
Its a two way street.


SO you're sayin, you'd tell the guy, then expect him to stay with you since it was meant to be,


BUT


if he cheated on you, then you'd bounce?



Thats so crooked! :o :o



Then again, I can't say shit bout cheatin' right now!
Old 02-26-2004, 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by TypeSKid
Its a two way street.


SO you're sayin, you'd tell the guy, then expect him to stay with you since it was meant to be,

BUT

if he cheated on you, then you'd bounce?

Thats so crooked! :o :o


Then again, I can't say shit bout cheatin' right now!
no, i said if he wanted to stay with me after i told him, then it was meant to be. not that he has to stay with me.

but if he told me, i wouldnt stay with him.

im saying its his decision if he wanted to stay with me after i cheated with him.
but i wouldnt cheat on him ever. i respect him and love him too much to break his trust like that
Old 02-26-2004, 12:32 PM
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wish I could say the same. I feel terrible today.
Old 02-26-2004, 01:21 PM
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well..you should.. i dont agree with your decision to not tell her.. but its not my relationship.
Old 02-26-2004, 01:38 PM
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sure why not.... if you can get away with it now whats gonna stop you from doing it when your married? like they say once a cheater always a cheater. or you can not cheat on her and not have to worry about anything.
Old 02-26-2004, 02:19 PM
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I agree with Rachael. If I told him and he still wanted to marry me I'd probably go with it, but if he told me that he cheated on me its over.
Old 02-26-2004, 04:05 PM
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^^^ But would you trust someone that was alright with it?
Old 02-27-2004, 05:47 PM
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I would and will soon.
Old 02-27-2004, 05:51 PM
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^^^ But would you trust someone that was alright with it?

I suppose it would depend on the person. If I knew that they probably were okay with it because they were plotting future a revenge I wouldn't go through with it...but if I felt that the person genuinely wanted to forgive me I'd marry him.
Old 02-27-2004, 11:29 PM
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my boss has cheated on his wife a few times and they're not divorced yet

seems ok with them

but i wouldn't personally set out to cheat on my future wife
Old 02-28-2004, 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
I suppose it would depend on the person. If I knew that they probably were okay with it because they were plotting future a revenge I wouldn't go through with it...but if I felt that the person genuinely wanted to forgive me I'd marry him.

Wow...a thinking girl. I am not used to this insight. You give hope to people like me who try not to think out of work....you and my fiance are rare that you think all the time. . I have totally made mistakes (I only assume she might have).People are people. Live and learn. My girl and I have "half known histories"....I haven't asked and she hasn't either. It works.
Old 02-28-2004, 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by blackmagiCL_S
Wow...a thinking girl. I am not used to this insight. You give hope to people like me who try not to think out of work....you and my fiance are rare that you think all the time. . I have totally made mistakes (I only assume she might have).People are people. Live and learn. My girl and I have "half known histories"....I haven't asked and she hasn't either. It works.

heh thanks sounds like you have a keeper Thinking all the time kind of sucks though..I drive myself CRAZYYY sometimes :thinking:
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