Mike 350Z

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OK so there's this girl im still interested in, i've mentioned her before on here. Bottom line, I finally asked her to hang out and i got ignored, i think. Sucky part is i don't have her phone # yet so i gotta use AIM.

It was last tuesday night...pretty much everyone had gone home for Thanksgiving break, but she had to stay an extra day and so did i. So i thought great, both of us will be bored, we'll chill together. I message her, saying 'hey im still here too, i got some liquor, lemme know if you wanna do something' or something to that effect and her away msg. responds back saying 'still here' or something.

So i wait an hour or so and get no response so i say something to the same effect and get another away msg response: "All alone tonight" (sad face included) Once again, no response.

So im thinkin wtf, obviously it's possible she never saw the msgs, for whatever reason, cuz usually she gets back to me right away and she even IM's me to tell me random crap. Anywhoo i found out a friend was havin a small get together so i went out, got bent and had fun that nite.

For the past week I had a sour attitude towards her cuz i figured she just blew me off, but then i see her today and she flags me down and starts talkin to me like normal...so i have no idea what to think now. But shit...i'm 99.9% sure she sat alone in her room all nite, damn AIM and its ignoring possibilities. I'd really like to know but i know i shouldnt ask her directly, so i guess ill have to forget about it. right? any other ideas?

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amisconception

and why shouldn't you ask her directly?

you sound infatuated bro... you can't be just feeling this way toward one chick, it shows...

there's a lot you have to do, part of it is getting over her, if she hasn't shown you positive interest... move on, or change up your game...

Mike 350Z

i dunno...it seems kinda weird to say "uhh why didn't you respond to my messages." I wish i was more forward towards her, but i dont wanna give her the upper hand either.

amisconception

let her know... who cares... upper hand? if you let her know and she treats you like shit or without the respect that you demand, move on... she's not for you.