i was on myspace 2 weeks ago and saw someone i thought u recognized. so i asked if it was her and she said "yes" blah, blah, blah..

long storey short, we are having lunch tomorrow after 3 years of not seeing or talking to each other. we went to the same school and ran cross country together. she was always quiet but, i knew she liked me. senior year SHE ASKED ME TO BE HER BOYFRIEND i said "no, just friends". i was interested in a cheerleader. (yes i dated the cheerleader) after the rejection she didnt talk to me for like 3 months...

anyway, so after this long we are going to get together and chat. everyone else in our group is married and some with kids..when i spoke to her on the phone last night she said "were getting left behind". i said not really, we are young. so we agreed on a spot, and i said 1 p.m., she then replied 12:30 we have much say...she is single.

should be interesting... she was a great friend in high school.

except i dont have much to talk about...help?

 

 

Srsly? I'm guessing your friends are all around 20. It's quite early to get married. Are you from Arizona?

Anyway, she's probably somewhat cute if you decided to ask her out to catch up. So get some pictures in and post tits.

Talk to her about what she's been up to since high school, how's college, life, work. Talk about your married friends and digress into questions about her past relationships. But only if you really want a relationship and want to know her better. Otherwise just buy her 10 drinks and fuck her.

 

How are most of your friends married with kids at 20?

 

lol. ill shoot for some pics. thanks
thats what ive been asking them. its fuckin unbelieveable, anyway....they got the chicks pregnant and had to man up!

 

Well, if you went this far, you might as well go thru with it...I tell you what tho, it definitely is an easy lay, so don't fuck it up! Go get her playboy!

FYI: Do not entertain any thoughts of getting serious right now. She is on the hunt for a man, and she lost out the first time, and may throw the kitchen sink at you (head, ass fucking, sucking your toes - the works), but don't go for the okey doke...eat the fruit, but spit out the seeds...if that don't make sense, fuck it, it sounded cool ass shit to say!

 

everything this guy darksom1 says is utter genius

 

all your friends get pregnant in high school?

and cross country ftw.

 

well, she did mention having joined a sorority, so i guess she is opening up!

2 of my friends got their girls pregnant after school, three other of my chick friends are married

 

You guys could always place bets on when all of those friends will be divorced

Why don't you post pics from her myspace now? That's less awkward than snapping pics of her on your date.

 

back from lunch!
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so, um she txt me telling me shed be late, i said "KOO" so i took off a bit later. when i got there she was waiting for me. she waived and came to meet me as i walked to her. gave me a hug and went inside.

we talked, she said i looked the same just older! (i guess she meant same GREAT LOOKS ). anyway we ordered food and sat down. i was actually surprised at how easily i was able to lead her into a conversation. i told her she looked like shes been working out, shed asked "are you trying to flatter me" i said "no, just being honest" and really i was.

we finished and asked her if she wanted to walk a bit, she agreed. we walked across the street for some ice cream.

she said " you are so different know adrian" iwas like she said "you sound different, more mature/proffesional" and went along to tell me that ERIK our only friend she keeps in touch with told her i was doing great! and that she is happy for me.

we talked about plans for the future. i guess she will be graduating form UCI soon and will go to Chapman Univertity. we left, as we walked she asked to see my car, so i pointed it out and she said "the acura, (yes) she said it really fits me, and that its a very nice car)

long story shortER, for the first time in a good while, i remembered what its like to have lunch with a YOUNG LADY. shes always been conservative. we said our BYES and she gave me a hug. told me to call her any time i want. and that we should hang out more often.

all in all, it went well. i think i made a good impression!

 

She's diggin you. I have my own reservations about her motivations, because I don't trust women without knowing them, but if you don't make a sexual move soon she's not going to see you for a sexual man AKA a real man and find someone else to stuff her.

 

Yeah...sex is in the air...not love...not romance...not fucking getting married...pure, unadulterated, I-should've-fucked-her-the-last-time-because-she-was-on-me-like-clothes sex...put it in the air if it isn't in the air...fumigates the air of that married/preggo shit...

 

Yeah man this sounds a lot better than the typical "i took this girl out 14 times and didn't touch her once and now she doesn't answer my calls" thread. Good job, now just take it to the next level

 

looked like she had a good time. i havent txt or called her. i realize i should do something about it. not sure as to what tho, she lives in irvine, bout 30 mins from me. so in order for anything to happen i gotta ask her out on a date right? itll definately be harder because of the distance.

btw, she said she came out here to see me and catch up like we had planned. and that shed take advantage of it and say hi to her parents. she just saw them too, on tuesday. so im thinking she drove out here for me
hahaa, yeah...shes been single for a while. although, she was always very prude, times have changed. she might be looking for some fun.
ok, im not exactly at amisconception or darksom1's level. so how do i go about taking it to the next level... bit of help here

 

+1

 

next time you hang out with her, kiss her. This will make clear your intentions on a physical level.

 

I think she still likes you and she's trying to play it cool. But the question, are you attracted to her? Did you feel any chemistry between the 2 of you?

If you are interested in dating her, make it clear that you are asking her out on a date next time you guys make plans to go out or else you'll end up in the friend zone.

 

A 30 minute commute makes a relationship difficult?

 

sounds to me like she still has some feelings for you.. you should call her and get together again.. maybe out dancing or some drinks and take it from there..

 

That's what I was thinking. It's pretty obvious what she wants...she's just waiting on you to make the moves.

 

a 30 minute commute isnt bad, thats how much time it takes for me to go to work everyday

 

thats what i was thinkin 30 minutes aint shit. I could see if it was an hour and a half. Honestly I wouldnt date a chick who lived any closer.

To the OP since 30 minutes seems far to you invite her over to your place or make a move that will get you over to hers.

 

@ 30 minutes.

 

where are the pics?! someone ban this guy if he doesn't post em

 

Get her to move in to your house, all your questions from the other thread will be answered.

 

30 minutes? You've gotta be shittin' me.

Try 1000 miles buddy.

 

For taking it to the next level, well alcohol always makes it easier but putting your arm around her then kissing her later is always a good start. You just gotta be smooth bro, let it flow naturally. Don't be thinking "should I make a move now" because that's a good way to over-analyze and trip yourself up.

 

:newb:

 

Sounds like she's into you. Don't be afraid to call her. If she sai to call her anytime, go for it. You dont seem like the type of person that would bug her and I dont think she'd mind it all. Keep us posted.

 

30 minutes and shit. I drive that at least 10 times in a weekend to do stuff with my g/f.

 

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So I'd look out for two things. First, something made you want to pass on her the first go around. Maybe it was something about her, maybe something about a "better" girl that had your eye. Whatever that was, make sure you're not looking past that same issue because she now seems intriguing or just new. Second, be on guard for a revenge move. I had a very similar scenario play out in HS and on the second go-around when I was interested, she played along long enough to dump me about a month into it - which was her intent all along for me passing on her when she was interested.

Along those lines, seems like you made her pretty mad the first time. So if she got over that and want's you again, seems a bit clingy. Keep an eye on a girl that after you treat her poorly still wants to be with you.

 

1. You're 20....It sounds like she is in to you....go out there and make a move.

2. Post pics. Not of you....of her.

3. 30 minute commute is perfect. That way, you can still see each other when you like, but you can have your own space.

 

I prefer to live far away from the woman...at least 45 mins to an hour so that she thinks long and hard about an impromptu visit beforehand...its also good for relatives/friends...

 

ya i'm going to need to see some pics

 

 

i think u just made him think twice..

I'd say jsut fucking do it and man up to whatever happens bro. I wish you the best.. u learn alot about "getting pussy" at acurazine, LOL

 

Exactly.

 

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