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Old Mar 9, 2005 | 10:51 PM
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Booty Call wants something more?

A booty call i have wants to be more than just "friends" i think she caught feelings, how do i tell her i dont want anything like that with her without breaking off the ass connection, shes good, very very good, n hawt too.
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Old Mar 9, 2005 | 11:07 PM
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Booty Call wants something more?

LIKE ANAL
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Old Mar 9, 2005 | 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
Booty Call wants something more?

LIKE ANAL
no you asshat, like a relationship, help
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:02 AM
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Whats wrong with that? Is she not fun to talk to? Can you be friend with her?

Really now, its nearly impossible to have selfish sex, its all about giving and taking, feelings will occur.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Whats wrong with that? Is she not fun to talk to? Can you be friend with her?

Really now, its nearly impossible to have selfish sex, its all about giving and taking, feelings will occur.
the thing is i dont really want a relationship now, but i dont wanna lose that
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:07 AM
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Whats wrong with that? Is she not fun to talk to? Can you be friend with her?

Really now, its nearly impossible to have selfish sex, its all about giving and taking, feelings will occur.
prety much somes it up. just tell her you wnat to take it slow and if you don't like her than you are faced with the delima. great sex shitty relationship, move on, either way you realy have no choice other than excepting this or not and have it blow up.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:09 AM
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You should be as up front about it as you can, especially if you care about her in any way. False hope SUCKS
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:15 AM
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hmmm, i guess ill have to figure something out, either say no and get shit blown up, or say yes ang get stuck ina arelationship i dont wanna be in
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:18 AM
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God take it slow killer, just start spending a little more time together, christ. You don't need to tell her you love her or tell her you want to be with her forever. Just say ok, well spend a little more time together and see how it goes, GOOD LORD BOY!
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by theroadrunner
God take it slow killer, just start spending a little more time together, christ. You don't need to tell her you love her or tell her you want to be with her forever. Just say ok, well spend a little more time together and see how it goes, GOOD LORD BOY!
no i dont wanna , do you even know what a booty call is?
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:25 AM
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lol if you are dead serious about not wanting a relationship don't even try to start one. Someone will just end up getting hurt in the end.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:34 AM
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yes... yes I do know what it is. YOu said she was hot and good in bed, if don't even want to get to know her at all then fuck it. Drop her like a ten ton stone. and there was some sarcasum in there too, but still. if you cant get to know a girl with out giving hope than you have little game, so don't act like it and drop her.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
no i dont wanna , do you even know what a booty call is?
Yes and unless it happens only ONCE, they dont work.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted by theroadrunner
yes... yes I do know what it is. YOu said she was hot and good in bed, if don't even want to get to know her at all then fuck it. Drop her like a ten ton stone. and there was some sarcasum in there too, but still. if you cant get to know a girl with out giving hope than you have little game, so don't act like it and drop her.
oh yea one very important thing i forgot, she is my ex from about a year ago
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Yes and unless it happens only ONCE, they dont work.
actually its been going on for quite a while, now im not sure what to do
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
oh yea one very important thing i forgot, she is my ex from about a year ago


THAT is a WHOLE different ballgame.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
oh yea one very important thing i forgot, she is my ex from about a year ago
Nice one boy blunder
definitly drop her #1 rule of screwing ex's, make sure they know it's only sex. Any hope and you could get totaly hosed tommy.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted by theroadrunner
Nice one boy blunder
definitly drop her #1 rule of screwing ex's, make sure they know it's only sex. Any hope and you could get totaly hosed tommy.
yea, shes the one with the feelings not me, i think ill get one more peice of ass, n say bbye
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:52 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
yea, shes the one with the feelings not me, i think ill get one more peice of ass, n say bbye
Good choice
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 12:57 AM
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Originally Posted by theroadrunner
Good choice
im great at making decisions arent i
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 01:08 AM
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im great at making decisions arent i
Almost as big of a smartass as me
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 02:31 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
A booty call i have wants to be more than just "friends" i think she caught feelings, how do i tell her i dont want anything like that with her without breaking off the ass connection, shes good, very very good, n hawt too.

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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 06:35 AM
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now you know a booty call can't be a booty call, women aren't built that way....
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
now you know a booty call can't be a booty call, women aren't built that way....
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 08:50 AM
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banging the ex? You were asking for trouble. I think it was fun while it lasted but might be time to walk away.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 09:00 AM
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banging the ex? You were asking for trouble. I think it was fun while it lasted but might be time to walk away.


can't have your cake and eat it too!
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 09:07 AM
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Just tell her that you don't want to ruin the friendship and at this point in time you are comfortable where things are.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
A booty call i have wants to be more than just "friends" i think she caught feelings, how do i tell her i dont want anything like that with her without breaking off the ass connection, shes good, very very good, n hawt too.

Step 1: copy this part out of your post: "i dont want anything like that with her without breaking off the ass connection, shes good, very very good, n hawt too."

Step 2: paste into word document

Step 3: Print

Step 4: read document aloud when she is in the room




ccannizz, who thinks people should just say in person what they post in this section of the forum.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 09:12 AM
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can't have your cake and eat it too!

Yeah sounds like your fawked lol ....
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by 55M2G7L
A booty call i have wants to be more than just "friends" i think she caught feelings, how do i tell her i dont want anything like that with her without breaking off the ass connection, shes good, very very good, n hawt too.
You want consistent action from an ex without a feeling developing? Yeah, and I'd like to get my paycheck without having to go to work. Neither of which will happen.
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 05:48 PM
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let her be your "girlfriend"

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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 07:39 PM
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Old Mar 10, 2005 | 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted by CLean B
let her be your "girlfriend"

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Old Mar 11, 2005 | 03:03 AM
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shes pregnant...your stuck
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Old Mar 11, 2005 | 08:50 AM
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shes pregnant...your stuck
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Old Mar 11, 2005 | 10:47 PM
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hey..happened to me....just be careful
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Old Mar 14, 2005 | 02:09 PM
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You want consistent action from an ex without a feeling developing? Yeah, and I'd like to get my paycheck without having to go to work. Neither of which will happen.


You can't do something like that without emotional connections, and as someone else said, women aren't built that way. and move on.
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Old Mar 14, 2005 | 04:19 PM
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i get a paycheck without doin any work
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Old Mar 14, 2005 | 09:01 PM
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I used to think you were smart.

Banging your ex? BANGING YOUR EX???? WTF were you smoking to think that would just be a booty call? Tell her y'all are ex's for a reason and drop it - if the ass ain't worth the relationship then there's your answer. I never really grasped the concept of a booty call. Do you honestly think you're the only one to hit it and forget it?
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Old Mar 14, 2005 | 09:28 PM
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Seriously - the best way to end this is...

discover masturbation or find new nookie. Therapy also helps so that you don't need a women to feel loved.
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