Soooo...I happen to be in quite the predicament. I have one female friend who I have remained quite close to for some time...we have never dated, we occasionally fucked, and as of yesterday...she told me that shes in love with me...and shes been in love with me for a while. I have absolutely no training for this type of situation...and I have no idea what to do. When she told me yesterday...I acted as if I didnt hear it and changed subject mad quick...I then canceled the rest of our day toegther. This is girl ranks as high as my g\f but I cant tell her that I feel the same way about her. Is there anyway to tell her this without ruining our friendship ?

BTW...For some of you bitches....answer the question first, and I'll consider.

 

You should just review your past threads, I am sure the answer is in there.

 

So your saying I should tell her the truth....

 

I re-read what I wrote....I DONT love this girl.

 

here we go again...
in before someone says "i told you so..."

 

Explain...because its like people dont understand the situation.

 

Tell her that you value your friendship and you want to leave it at just that. Tell her your in a serious relationship and you don't want to do anything to compromise it.

Do all this in a sweet sappy voice.

...also tell her about your good friend teg in Cali

 

Be like me, cut them off completely and pretend they don't exist
It's mean but damn it gets the job done.

 

Duh. I didn't have to read anything and I could have guessed that. Since Adam and Eve, there's one thing for sure. If you have to think more than a split second whether you love someone, then the answer is a resounding no. If you have to ask on an internet forum, the answer is no.

 

Xenogen,

Let me just give you the short and sweet answer, YOUR Fucked ...


In a case like this i always use my job as a way out... For you use your school as a way out, IE you have too much on your plate right now to get into anything.... and anyways you have a GF right ?...so IF she respects you it should stop right there.

And with your GF around, i would not fuck her again as it would only lead to a whole alota crap you dont want to get into....

On a side note i'm dissapointed.....You could of dealt with it right then and there, its clear you have no interest in her like that so why put off the Inevitable :

 

this best friend of yours know that you cheated on the other chick?

 

Should have just told her something at the time. Now, you have to bring it back up. Just tell her that you heard what she told you, and that you think she is really cool/sweet (whatever you like about her) but that you just don't have romantic feelings for her. Tell her that you truly enjoy her as a close friend. Try to make her not feel awkward. Then make sure you keep whatever patern of contact you have had in the past (talk/hang out at same intervals as usual) and don't confuse her with anymore physical contact. Try that.

 

If you haven't seen this movie, watch it, then tell me what you think your going to do.

 

 

I've always been on the receiving end of this conversation


But not from Xeno

 

i liked the original better
plus you get to see Penélope Cruz's tatas (dont remember if you do in vanilla sky)

 

Just tell her the plain truth, without any sugar coating on top. Tell her straight that you don't feel the same way and it's probably best to remain as friends. Giving excuses may not stop her from pursuing you, unless you still want that kind of attention...

 

You're fucked. There is really no way to remain friends with someone who has feelings for you. It never works out. You want to keep her as a "friend," don't tell her you don't love her. Keep her hanging on...it's mean but it'll keep her around. Once you tell her you don't have the same feelings for her as she does for you, there will be weirdness between you two, maybe for her (unless your friendship is strong enough to go beyond having feelings). Some friends make better friends than lovers. Either way, I still think you're fucked.

 

In order to keep with your ongoing theme of fucking your love life up so you have something to post about, I'd suggest telling her you love her too. Then fuck her. And film it. And send the tape to your girlfriend.

Oh, and post pics when done.

 

 

Have you cheated on your girl since she took you back?

 

Just add the traditional black bar over your genitals please.....

 

btw,

 

Im pretty much just gonna have to put it that way...she knows that I'm in a serious relationship, and she knows the g\f.

I could have done that, but Ive known her for 7 years...Its kinda hard to do that with someone you've known that long.

Tell me about it...

Knows the g\f, knows that Im in med school...technically it should stop right there, but what I need for her to do is move on...she wont jeopardize my current relationship, but I dont want her to think that if my relationship ends, that Im gonna be coming for her.

Last time I had sex with her was when I was single

I could have...but not hurting a girls feelings isnt exactly my department, and I didnt want to just blatantly say "I dont love you" and then have nothing else to say.

Yup

A little bit better than Teg's method but exactly what I intended to do.

The difference between my situation and that movie is...His fuckbuddy loved him...and I never made her "swallow my cum" other than that...are you telling me that I should kill the bitch, or never get in a car with her?

True...I also dont want that type of attention...I wish she just had kept it to herself.

Leme get this straight...you want me to tell her that I have feelings for her...even though I dont ? I really do want to keep her as a friend, and yes I do believe that there will be weirdness between us, but if I told her that, whats to stop this from getting to my g\f (whom Ive informed of the situation ) ? I mean she'll most definitely break up with me...So you're right Im fucked...Im either gonna lose a good friend, or my g\f.

Sounds like a plan JC

Nope...crazy...not stupid

 

 

wow... shes beautiful.

 

^

 

Minch...Honestly, If you spent less time on the computer and more time working on your self image, it would only be a matter of time before you could hook up with a chick like that. Be proactive man...dont just sit around and sulk. Work out 30-60 min a day doing cardio and weight training, use your money on yourself, start talking to random chicks in the REAL world...and you're set. You still need guidance, but you gotta make the commitment to better yourself.

 

Your best post eva.

 

Wow...a compliment from

 

But then again it is 3am, so this is like the only time I can spend on the computer

Yep

 

You know what I mean though...

 

I actually looked in the mirror this morning and I said "I'd do me". If that's not confidence I don't know what is


I'll get back into my cardio after I start attending school regularly again. (gym is on campus)

 

Anyone can say that...its when you can walk away from a chick knowing that she wants to have your children...that you can call it confidence.

 

Women are more turned on by coinfidence than actual looks, unless you have the male equivalent of a butter face.

 

When I was in Cali last week I met a chick who said she wanted to have my kids... but then I had to fly back East

 

whoa, this thread woke up.

but yeah, confidence > *.

and Xeno's friend > * too.

 

Tough choice there Xeno, she is nice, very cute, which i prefer over slutty hot. Oh and minch, i hope you didn't tell yourself that while sticking your junk back between your legs with lipstick on, ala silence of the lambs.

 

I'm done trying to offer advice to Xeno because all he's in this for is the e-fame of "Look at this girl I slept with"

If you really liked your gf as much you say it wouldn't even be a question and you wouldn't even need to post about it.

 

Here are all the women I slept with....

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