Lately, I've been enjoy having sex more while i'm under the influence of alcohol rather then when I'm not (a few drinks, 2-5 depending on the night). I'm not in love with anyone I'm currently seeing, so it's not like I'm in some euphoric serotonin-induced romance. But, should I be concerned?

 

keep hitting it.





when u coming down to fresno?

 

Maybe you have more confidence when boozin.

 

I was never able to have sex drug. Too sleepy.

I also can't stand having sex with drunk women. They get pretty ridiculous, plus there is always the possibility of them

 

I might come down in the next week or two.

I'll hit you up

 

dude i dont swing that way
ya but u can call me

 

Well, these aren't women I've never approached or been with before. What I mean is; during the actual act, I like having a buzz.

I read somewhere about people experimenting with different substances with sex, like ecstacy, weed, etc., and it seems to be a different experience across the board.

I'm just wondering if this sort of experimentation can be harmful in the long-term.

For example, I've heard that people who have sex with E usually don't have a great experience with sex without because of the hightened arrousal while under the influence of it.

 

lol - you've gotta introduce me to all the desi chicks

 

I have problems ejaculating when drunk.

 

It is possible that you just feel less uninhibited.

Just don't drink too much to the point of having a hard time coming, as wsklar pointed out.... and I hope you brush your teeth before engaging in sexual activities. Ethanol breath is not exactly a turn-on.

 

Yes, alcohol makes the girl look better and makes you stronger. Don't drink so much that you "lose" the ability. Also, I do some dumb things when I'm under the influence so make sure to have a condom with you when you do these one night stands.

 

I'll try to bring Nina and her friend with me but her friend is not single.

 

It's better to use mouthwash. It's not recommended to brush your teeth before sex if you're not in a commited relationship because of possible open wounds from the toothbrush. Also, under the influence of drugs/alcohol, you might be doing things you wouldn't normally do (ie: have sex without a condom), which is one reason that I never ever had sex while drunk except while in a committed relationship, and never under drugs.

However, amisconception, it sounds like you're not just having sex with random girls, so you don't have to worry as much about that. You can get addicted to the behaviour though, just as people can get addicted to watching tv or something. Sex may not be as good without it after awhile, and then you might start needing more and more to feel the same way.

 

I feel the exact same way. But I know what the reason is: confidence.

The only problem is I'll try to get a couple drinks in me before I start to pursue. The next thing I know, I've blown past the buzz stage to full on wasted.

 

A bad misconception that just because you know them, they don't have STD. Shit, you've got to ask AND get paper confirmation for that shit. Not that I do, but if you're serious.

 

Well, I'm not refering to using alcohol as a confidence booster to meet girls. I'm talking about prior to getting in bed, or leading up to it, I just like the way it feels I think it's just different from sex sober, so I've been digging it recently... Shyness in bed hasn't been an issue with me since I was a teenager...

 

Wouldn't some chicks dig that?

 

Ya, this is what I'm most worried about.

Literally, the last 10-15 times before I've had sex, I've either drank something I've had at my house, or ran over to 7-11 to pick up a 6-pack.

 

Absolutely true. I didn't state that you don't have to worry. It's slightly less of a concern, but it's still there.

 

alcohol is a mild aphrodisiac.

 

Why are you such a women ?... There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Just dont drink too much, otherwise you might risk falling, doing some sort of weird manuever on your nightstand.

 

Mild? I know of nothing that has helped more people have sex than alcohol. It's an ugly person's best friend.

 

Ever see the t-shirt?

ALCOHOL: HELPING UGLY PEOPLE HAVE SEX FOR 100 YEARS

Confidence is up, inhibitions are down and you just go with it like most of us would like to think we do on a regular basis. I don't need it, but I have noticed it sometimes makes things more interesting. That is all. Don't make a habit out of it if you can, but don't worry too much.