Well if you read down a few posts, you will see that i broke up with my girl of 5 years a week or so ago..
Now i'm kinda missing her..but i dunno if it's that i'm lonely or that i miss her..my friends are kinda asses and i have basiclly no support (since they all know the situation, but no one really cares) since i've asked a bunch of them for the last few days to go out, but no one has taken me up on it..shrug..just alone and i know that if i was with her, i wouldn't be (duh)..anyone have any suggestions to keep me busy? i'm buying GT4, but i'm not one to sit and play games for hours on end..

 

Your friends really suck. This is the time you find out who your real friends are. They should be supporting you in your time of need. You need distractions, something to keep your mind occupied and away from thoughts of the ex. Video games can work. Hit the gym, join some clubs, take a drive, spend some time with your family.

 

go to the beach...u're in CA, right? so go to the beach, and go jet-skiing, para-sailing, go to the park and play some basketball/tennis, start going to the gym and working out, it is the weekend, go play pool at the bar or go to a party and just enjoy urself...

break-up's are really hard and i know what you must be going through, but life ALWAYS GOES ON...that's the one thing that i learned...no matter what, LIFE WILL ALWAYS GO ON, so why not make the most of it? this ist he perfect time to catch up on your hobbies/interests/things you are passionate about...

 

time to go to the club again ??

 

lol u liked that shit huh? i think we are going to highlands on friday..your more then welcome to join

 

Agree, you gotta tell your friends "hey man, I need you right now"

When I was going through my divorce my friends would call me everyday. My best friend would come over unannounced and say "i'm taking you golfing whether you want to or not, you're getting out of the house."

 

thats the way things should be. Get some new homies or let the ones you have now know that you need them to be here for you right now. Your friends can't carry you through the entire after-breakup experience, but they can help you kill a lot of time while the pain subsides. Maybe you could take a small vacation or something?

 

Man I totally feel your pain. I'm going to a counselor next week. I'm totally down. Unlike you, I have friends and co-workers who try to cheer me up, but I just love her so much. No matter what I do, I can't stop thinking about her. It totally sucks. I lost 9 pounds in 4 days and have gotten only about 8 hours of sleep combined since sunday night. I don't know what to do, but I need serious help.

 

yah..i REALLY do need a vacation..but its hard trying to get my friends to go w/ me..cuz there all broke, in school, or working (i'll be on spring break in a 2weeks)..any ideas of where i should go?

 

Meet me in Paris/Switzerland!!! lol jj...thats where I'm going next week for my spring break If you can't get anyone to go anywhere with you, you could always go visit someone you haven't seen in a while. Traveling always makes me feel a little better

 

i miss single life...

 

i just can't wait till my 650+HP street driven 300ZXTT is done...then i think i'll be good for a long long time

 

Not to sound completely lame, but find a charity you like and devote some time to it, you'll meet some very real people who share some of your visions. Not to mention you'll feel great about helping what ever cause moves you. Or you could just go to Vegas and well, figure it out.....

 

WOW.... i guess everyone is having relationship problems in these past few days. Im also goin thru a break up. But what helps me the most, is how miserable I was at time when i was with her. Also, someone told me i should pray everytime i think bout her, and jus get her out of my head, so far its working.
And u gotta eat .... Life goes ON ! Stop torchering urself, I know uve heard this shitty line b4.. but ... its true ... If its meant to be... it will happen on its own.

Good luck to U.

 

I'm also going through a very rough time with my girlfriend. The pain I feel is absolutely awful. I can't stop thinking about how I just want things to be normal and healthy again. I am so fucked and out of sorts. We have been having problem since right before Christmas. I can't sleep. I cry like a little girl. And this the way Im feeling with some hope that things can possibly work out. If this really ends, I think my head will explode for sure. I just can't handle it at all. I feel like such a failure.

All of the things that people advise to do to ease the pain just don't even put a dent in it for me. I wish I had an answer for you to help you out. LOVE HURTS!!

 

there isn't a second that goes by that I don't think about rick and how our life used to be..i live a state of confusion now....I just threw myself into my kids and work..up until I was in the hospital a week ago, I was working 72 to 96 hours a week at the hospital...didn't really help though b/c he used to work here and everywhere I turn I think about us hanging out here...have seriously considered changing jobs, just haven't found one that I like yet...I have also started praying twice a day for healing and understanding for whatever he is going through that he had to shut me out of...wish I could help you. God bless.

 

You need to talk to your friends, especially your really close ones. I know that straight guys hate to pour their guts out, but it really helps to sit down with ONE friend where your girlfriends or other friends can't interrupt you, and stay up all night playing video games, like GT4 . While you're playing, just let it out slowly. Talk about your problems you're having (make sure you do this with a very understanding friend who isn't a cold feeling avoider). And don't be afraid of hugs either when you really get down and feel like you want to cry. Sometimes female friends can be better at listening, just make sure that you're not attracted to her if you pick a female friend.

 

SAM, let's get drinks Tuesday. I'll call you.

I could use a few drinks after Transexuality101 :sigh:

 

VEGAS. I've got like 8 friends going the 25th, 26th, and the 27th. It'll be a lot of fun. I'll give you the details when I talk to you.

 

Shoulda listend to me and pushed her off a bridge.....

Seriosly though, that sucks that your friends are being asswipes.

Might I suggest you go to Vegas and bang some high end hookers? That might cheer you up...

 

sounds good

 

update: i feel a lil better now..i hooked up with 2 random chicks at highlands on saturday night..fucked one sunday afternoon, fucked the other sunday night

WE BACK IN DIS! :P

no, i don't have pics..next time i see either one i'll take some fuckin shots

 

 

Damn, sounds like you're back in the game.