Any of those hookup sites real?
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The problem with online ads is that it switches the "chase" roles and puts the ball in a woman's court from the get go. The consequence is that you'll see an endless amount of girls with unrealistic expectations.
What women say they want and what they actually settle for are two very different things.
She'll want a tall prince charming with an 8" cock and a nice house and car.
But she'll bang a freshly showered bum if he's got the right amount of persistance.
I'd stay away from all of them.
Internet dating is just a buffer against rejection. Once you're OK with rejection, and you overcome your anxiety, you'll realize what a waste internet dating is.
What women say they want and what they actually settle for are two very different things.
She'll want a tall prince charming with an 8" cock and a nice house and car.
But she'll bang a freshly showered bum if he's got the right amount of persistance.
I'd stay away from all of them.
Internet dating is just a buffer against rejection. Once you're OK with rejection, and you overcome your anxiety, you'll realize what a waste internet dating is.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Internet dating is just a buffer against rejection. Once you're OK with rejection, and you overcome your anxiety, you'll realize what a waste internet dating is.
Seriously, whats up with guys these days and their lack of balls? If you see a girl that you think is cute, just go up and start talking to her. There are only two responses you'll get: 1. she'll talk to you or 2. she won't want to talk to you.If you get #1, good, then just ask to talk to her again sometime and get her number. If you get #2, suck it up and move on.
The only thing I can say is just be realistic. If you're an obese 50 year old bastard, don't expect to go up to a 19 year old hot blonde and expect to get any "play." If you're a decent guy and decent looking, and not living at your "moms," then just go for it.
Otherwise, get a better attitude, get in shape and move out your "moms" and then try again.
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Originally Posted by doopstr
I always thought the girls on AFF were just hookers.
If I were single I think I would troll for girls on World of Warcraft. They aren't the best looking but I bet they are freaky as hell. Something about girl geeks just makes me think that they have a closet full of chains and whips.
If I were single I think I would troll for girls on World of Warcraft. They aren't the best looking but I bet they are freaky as hell. Something about girl geeks just makes me think that they have a closet full of chains and whips.
Generally women get sucked into playing by their bf/ husband/ f-buddy/whatever.
My coworker and I talk about getting honor points and what-not. She got into it from her ex-bf and i got into it from my husband.
I find us to be normal and not out of the ordinary.
I have no info on AFF though.
werd
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Originally Posted by pinky_ttc
Nada. No chains and no whips.
Generally women get sucked into playing by their bf/ husband/ f-buddy/whatever.
My coworker and I talk about getting honor points and what-not. She got into it from her ex-bf and i got into it from my husband.
I find us to be normal and not out of the ordinary.
I have no info on AFF though.
Generally women get sucked into playing by their bf/ husband/ f-buddy/whatever.
My coworker and I talk about getting honor points and what-not. She got into it from her ex-bf and i got into it from my husband.
I find us to be normal and not out of the ordinary.
I have no info on AFF though.
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Take Mizouse for example. Yea he's not a great looking dude but I know uglier guys who've gotten tail. Why? Because they're able to put their egos to the side, crash and burn, and keep a positive attitude. That takes balls and that resilience pays off.
Meanwhile, improving yourself by doing things like working out, developing a sense of style, working on things you love (but not obsessing on them if they're video games or porn), only makes it easier.
Mizouse seriously, when 1 finally does give you attention, and let's say you have things going for you, without experience developed by crashing through your fear of rejection, you'll have a hard time exiting if she treats you like shit. You'll have a hard time gauging respect and what to expect from a girl. It's a recipe for disaster.
I don't mean to cut on you dude but I genuinely think there's a lot you can learn and apply and grow and not be a joke on AZ. Eh but maybe it takes self-realization, I don't know. Maybe you can't push this on people
/rant
Meanwhile, improving yourself by doing things like working out, developing a sense of style, working on things you love (but not obsessing on them if they're video games or porn), only makes it easier.
Mizouse seriously, when 1 finally does give you attention, and let's say you have things going for you, without experience developed by crashing through your fear of rejection, you'll have a hard time exiting if she treats you like shit. You'll have a hard time gauging respect and what to expect from a girl. It's a recipe for disaster.
I don't mean to cut on you dude but I genuinely think there's a lot you can learn and apply and grow and not be a joke on AZ. Eh but maybe it takes self-realization, I don't know. Maybe you can't push this on people
/rant
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I know three couples that met on www.lavalife.com and eventually married, and another couple that met on Lavalife and have been together for 3 years - they will probably become engaged over the next year. One of the couples has been married 10 years already...they met when Lavalife was still under the name, "Web Personals".
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