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Old 08-07-2009, 02:54 PM
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I would say go for it, but when reality sets in, it will lead to jealousy and a break up.
Old 08-07-2009, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
You have point there!

I think they already live together but they are not yet engaged. Such a shame, you know. She's a really sweet, caring, pretty girl. I honestly don't like the guy for her.

where is she from i'd like to meet her. lol j/k

you see she probably is with the guy for the adventure. and sometimes girls like adventure. most of in here are against having fun so it would be hard for her to find a guy that likes what she likes. and right now she has and she is happy.

the guy is certainly happy. and they live together so he has no issues with this...
Old 08-07-2009, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
well obviously almost never..but you can only hope right...
LOL... ur a mess!

Originally Posted by sasha
A friend of a friend started a relationship with this guy, who introduced her to threesomes then swinging with another couple. Now they participate in orgies! I thought the relationship was not going to last so I was surprised to find out they are still together! They have been dating for about 5 years now!!!
"dating" is the key... I knew a girl years ago that had done some things like we are talking about today, and she basically had to move away and re-invent herself when she was looking for someone to settle down with...

...when I was really kicking it in the world, a whole buncha things went on that I would NEVER consider now that I have God leading my life and I am married...
Old 08-07-2009, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
LOL... ur a hot mess! ...
for got the hot part. :
Old 08-07-2009, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
for got the hot part. :
Zing!
Old 08-07-2009, 04:15 PM
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Its my general policy now that when you're in a serious relationship, that you should be sleeping with only one person.

Sure you think from your angle that it'd be great, but like some people have mentioned here, eventually an intimate relationship between 3 people will lead to jealousy.

I've been in such a situation and it turned into a "you spend more time with her" or a "you really want her and not me" or even a "you think she's better" type of thing.

IMO, God gave you one dick to satisfy one woman at a time.
Old 08-07-2009, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by BraveDemon
Its my general policy now that when you're in a serious relationship, that you should be sleeping with only one person.

Sure you think from your angle that it'd be great, but like some people have mentioned here, eventually an intimate relationship between 3 people will lead to jealousy.

I've been in such a situation and it turned into a "you spend more time with her" or a "you really want her and not me" or even a "you think she's better" type of thing.

IMO, God gave you one dick to satisfy one woman at a time.
Although i have to agree with your post, He, never said how many one rite after the other though...
Old 08-07-2009, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by BraveDemon
Its my general policy now that when you're in a serious relationship, that you should be sleeping with only one person.

Sure you think from your angle that it'd be great, but like some people have mentioned here, eventually an intimate relationship between 3 people will lead to jealousy.

I've been in such a situation and it turned into a "you spend more time with her" or a "you really want her and not me" or even a "you think she's better" type of thing.

IMO, God gave you one dick to satisfy one woman at a time.
As my husband would say, "It's hard enough to keep a woman happy. Why would a man want to have more than one?"
Old 08-07-2009, 06:20 PM
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Old 08-07-2009, 06:24 PM
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GF: Do the three way thing a few times and dump them both.
Wife: Do the three way a couple times, alright maybe a lot of times. Can't afford divorce.
Old 08-07-2009, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
GF: Do the three way thing a few times and dump them both.
Wife: Do the three way a couple times, alright maybe a lot of times. Can't afford divorce.
Old 08-07-2009, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
nah - I wouldn't be down with it.
+1

I'd be pissed that she was having a relationship with anyone behind my back, man or woman.
What if she left him for the girl in the long run? You have any idea how much that can fuck with a man's head?
Old 08-07-2009, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Gnate
+1

I'd be pissed that she was having a relationship with anyone behind my back, man or woman.
What if she left him for the girl in the long run? You have any idea how much that can fuck with a man's head?
Dang Gnizzle, you know no byotch leaving RL Chi-town for another chick. Don't get it twisted. That shit ain't happenin'.


I don't think a lot of thinking with the big head is going on in here. That was not even considered.
Old 08-07-2009, 09:34 PM
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Need pics of both girls before I make my decision.
Old 08-08-2009, 06:53 AM
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Well thanks for the conplement ravin... But this situation isn't happening in real life... I wish it was I'd be jumping on both lol.... This thread is more of conversation thread. I wanted ur opinions...

Now all of you have perfect points of view... Keep them coming...


But if it were true Ravin you right no biznatch would leave me.... Lol right don't we all wish that.lol... But if this scenario ever I mean ever comes true I will post it up....
Old 08-08-2009, 08:00 PM
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^^^^

Name's Ravi. Not Ravin.

I knew it was more of a conversation thread. If it were real, I would flame you for wasting time posting when you should be otherwise engaged.
Old 08-09-2009, 01:55 PM
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def a no go, coming from a girl, girls are crazy insane and jealous. it might seem like a great idea at first but then you will see in the long run that you will be pushed out of that ratio. no matter how you want to look at it , the other girl is the competition . its like your girl bringing another dude home and saying that shes intrested in you as well as him. personally i think that your friend is 100% right. If honestly his girl was just a fling maybe you can get away with a 3some or mess with the 2 of them for a few but if shes a serious relationship he should def. be against it.
Old 08-10-2009, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted by tinad2004
def a no go, coming from a girl, girls are crazy insane and jealous. it might seem like a great idea at first but then you will see in the long run that you will be pushed out of that ratio. no matter how you want to look at it , the other girl is the competition . its like your girl bringing another dude home and saying that shes intrested in you as well as him. personally i think that your friend is 100% right. If honestly his girl was just a fling maybe you can get away with a 3some or mess with the 2 of them for a few but if shes a serious relationship he should def. be against it.
good point form a girls view.
Old 08-10-2009, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
ok what happens if all three like it. and it becomes to a point where they are all happy with the situation. whats wrong with that.
You apparently do not know women that well...

If this guy starts showing more attention to the 'other' girl, there will be issues. There will also be issues when the two girls start screwing around together without him...
Old 08-10-2009, 03:00 PM
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You guys should watch the movie Fling. Its a really good movie. It has the guy who played Superman in Superman Returns in it. It will shed some light on this situation. LMAO Redbox has it.

My buddy of mine had a gf who he introduced to the idea of a 3sum. So him , her bf, and her all had a 3sum a few times. Then his girlfriend left him for a dyke. One day we went out so I could cheer him up and a song by T.I & Young Dro (rapper)s came on called My Girl Got a Girlfriend. And he was like "Yea that shit sounds cool(sarcastically)" and almost started cryin. Needless to say I would never have a 3sum or be involved emotionally with a girl who would want to do that. I wouldnt want something like that to happen to me. But if it was with a girl(s) I wasn't serious about then I'm all game.

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Old 08-10-2009, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted by SwervinCL
You apparently do not know women that well...

If this guy starts showing more attention to the 'other' girl, there will be issues. There will also be issues when the two girls start screwing around together without him...
dude two girls screwing without him. whats wrong with that!

and also me not know women that well. man i know women perfectly fine. this was a question we asked a buddy of mine. and he answered it the way he did. i felt he was so i ask you guys and you women here. to hear your opinion.

me personally i would hit it. you live once in your life and you must enjoy it.

i said must enjoy it.
Old 08-10-2009, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted by L's TL
You guys should watch the movie Fling. Its a really good movie. It has the guy who played Superman in Superman Returns in it. It will shed some light on this situation. LMAO Redbox has it.

My buddy of mine had a gf who he introduced to the idea of a 3sum. So him , her bf, and her all had a 3sum a few times. Then his girlfriend left him for a dyke. One day we went out so I could cheer him up and a song by T.I & Young Dro (rapper)s came on called My Girl Got a Girlfriend. And he was like "Yea that shit sounds cool(sarcastically)" and almost started cryin. Needless to say I would never have a 3sum or be involved emotionally with a girl who would want to do that. I wouldnt want something like that to happen to me. But if it was with a girl(s) I wasn't serious about then I'm all game.
you are 22 years old. man i wouldn't be all mad if a girl left for another bitch. i personally don't care. am young and girls come and go. and you being 22 you can find another girl that will be your soulmate down the road.

if your gril says she loves you then she will stay. thats my 's. tell your boy to cheer up and he will find another girl and don't say no to 3sum's b/c of one bad apple.
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Reality check

This is the girl she's into... do you still want that 3some?

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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
^^^^

Name's Ravi. Not Ravin.

I knew it was more of a conversation thread. If it were real, I would flame you for wasting time posting when you should be otherwise engaged.
my bad for calling you ravin, sorry...

and yes am engaged, and i don't think my time for 3sum will ever happen in my life time lol. but if i ever for some reason become single again. trust me it will happen..
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Reality check

This is the girl she's into... do you still want that 3some?

hahahahahahahaha good one.
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
my bad for calling you ravin, sorry...

and yes am engaged, and i don't think my time for 3sum will ever happen in my life time lol. but if i ever for some reason become single again. trust me it will happen..
No worries. The only "3sum" you have in your future will happen when a pillow falls in between you and your wife to be. Enjoy.
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
dude two girls screwing without him. whats wrong with that!
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Nothing, until his wife leaves him for her..
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well overall a good thread.
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I don't think I would waste my time dating a girl who wasn't really into me.
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Originally Posted by v6cord2k5
Need pics of both girls before I make my decision.

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