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Old 08-07-2009, 10:12 AM
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Alert! Girlfriend cheating w/ another girl...

open for discussion ok.. guys or chicks give me your about this.

I had a conversation with this dude and I think he is stupid. But I need an opinion from another male.

well this dude was asked this question if you girlfriend or wife came to you and said “babe I love you with all my heart. But I have been seeing another girl and I think she is hot. I would love for us to know each other and maybe you never know what can happen”

the guy said he would be mad about the whole situation and he would dump her. He said no one better be touching my girl but him.

I said you are a fucking homo bitch.

If my girl came to me saying that shit. man I would say where’s the girl. Lol
I wouldn’t be mad at all.

I told that idiot he was fucking stupid. lol


so azine fam tell me your opinion

What you think?
Old 08-07-2009, 10:18 AM
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if it's my gf, sure. i'm down.

if it's my wife, i'd be mad, fuck both of them, and maybe drop her ass (depending on just how hot the other chick is)
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I agree with your friend

Threesomes only lead to jealousy and drama
Old 08-07-2009, 10:27 AM
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nah - I wouldn't be down with it.
Old 08-07-2009, 10:28 AM
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Just to clarify, because he isn't down for a three way with his wife and another woman he's a homo?
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but two women, jealousy. who on the guy part being jealous

man i wouldn't be jealous at all. i'd hit it. and maybe it can lead to more fun. Obviously the girlfriend is the one saying she has been seeing another girl. and she wants it. and it can be something that can happen more than once.

i wouldnt be jealous...
Old 08-07-2009, 10:35 AM
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Either way you look at this girl is done with him. Whether she's cheating with another guy or girl, it's cheating. If he doesn't really care that much about her, have some fun with it. If he really cares about her it will never work, as she's a cheater and a new found bi-sexual. As Ken said, jealousy and drama will start... with either him or her other girlfriend wanting all the time to be theirs.
Old 08-07-2009, 10:37 AM
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Depends how I feel about the girl. If I really care for her, than no way. If it's a girl I'm just dating, then fuck yea.
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naw the guy isn't a homo for saying no... its a form of expression.

you can say no. but i find it hard to believe you would say no to a threesome with your girlfriend or wife.

i know i wouldn't. and am married. shit my wife says that. its on like donkey kong... lol

and dude is not a homo just to clarify...
Old 08-07-2009, 10:39 AM
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babe I love you with all my heart
Then she should be monogamous

If its some skank you met last week and you're wearing a body condom, go for it
Old 08-07-2009, 10:40 AM
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(out of breath) I came here as fast as I could!!! PSIC...I mean PICS!!
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
(out of breath) I came here as fast as I could!!! PSIC...I mean PICS!!


Figures
Old 08-07-2009, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Then she should be monogamous

If its some skank you met last week and you're wearing a body condom, go for it
no skank you don't know what she has. it has to be girlfriend brings a friend a friend home. i would fuck some random two girls w/o knowing who they are.

that just calls for STD's. am straight on that
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
(out of breath) I came here as fast as I could!!! PSIC...I mean PICS!!

sorry no pics. this was just a conversation between a group of friends just talking out loud.
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
sorry no pics. this was just a conversation between a group of friends just talking out loud.
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
sorry no pics. this was just a conversation between a group of friends just talking out loud.
I venture out of H&G and the gaming subforum for this?

And to answer the original question, the first thing I thought of was the Type O Negative song "My Girlfriend's Girlfriend"...I'd be down
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
“babe I love you with all my heart.
Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Then she should be monogamous


If she really cares for the guy she's with and the relationship is fulfilling all of her needs, she wouldn't be looking for other people to mess around with. Also, if the guy cares as much about the girl as we're assuming (this is a long term relationship), as much as you like to believe it, this simply would not work.

What if she started liking the other girl more than you? There's no way that she can share her time between the two and have everyone feeling like they receive their fair share unless they're just "f**k buddies" with no emotional attachment.

As much as girl-on-girl or f**king two girls is appealing, I wouldn't have it with a long term girlfriend or wife. Now, if there is no emotional attachment (and I'm not in a committed relationship), bring it! lol

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Originally Posted by thunder04



What if she started liking the other girl more than you? There's no way that she can share her time between the two and have everyone feeling like they receive their fair share unless they're just "f**k buddies" with no emotional attachment.
ok what happens if all three like it. and it becomes to a point where they are all happy with the situation. whats wrong with that.

thats where i would hope it goes too. i hope it would lead to a bigger relationship and not just a fling.

b/c later it would cause a problem where the wife or gf would leave.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
(out of breath) I came here as fast as I could!!! PSIC...I mean PICS!!


OK, so I clicked in the second I saw the thread title...

I dunno how I'd feel, and I'm generally not enthused at woman-on-woman action anyway.
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Originally Posted by Will Y.


OK, so I clicked in the second I saw the thread title...

I dunno how I'd feel, and I'm generally not enthused at woman-on-woman action anyway.

say what willis. you don't like woman on woman.

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I think you really don't care and that you've never had a solid real relationship.
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When I was younger and wasn't as emotionally attached to someone I was dating, then I would have been all for it. Now that I am older, wiser and in a committed relationship, then I agree with your friend. Being with someone else, male of female is cheating and it's not something I'm will be able to just be OK with.
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Originally Posted by thunder04
As much as girl-on-girl or f**king two girls is appealing, I wouldn't have it with a long term girlfriend or wife. Now, if there is no emotional attachment (and I'm not in a committed relationship), bring it! lol
and


this thread is kind of a let down, its not even a real story!
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Originally Posted by EuRTSX
I think you really don't care and that you've never had a solid real relationship.
well i see where you can assume i don't have a solid real relationship. but to be quiet honest i do.

and i don't think my girl will ever say those kind words to me.

this thread i created so we can all share some input. but i can only dream for that day...
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
say what willis. you don't like woman on woman.

Women on women does nothing for me
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maybe he answered that way because its his wife? if it was a gf, he might have answered another way...

but, priceless: "I said you are a fucking homo bitch."
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If my girlfriend came up to me with that sort of opinion of other girls, I would work with her to explore it, but I wouldn't exactly feel comfortable getting married with a girl would would not be satisfied with just me.

If she told me she was sleeping with someone else, I don't care what the gender, it's a violation of trust, and I would emotionally drop-out of the relationship while fucking her and her slutty girlfriend until it got boring. I'd quickly pick myself up and hunt for women who know themselves well enough to not destroy the trust in a relationship by not fully disclosing this aspect of their sexuality.



And ya.
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Women on women does nothing for me
<--- i like that...

but thats koo kenny..
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Originally Posted by Malayalee King
maybe he answered that way because its his wife? if it was a gf, he might have answered another way...

but, priceless: "I said you are a fucking homo bitch."
who you talking abut son... you got me confused...
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If the other girl brings me more money, then Im down...
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Women on women does nothing for me
But they have so many nice pink parts....
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
If the other girl brings me more money, then Im down...
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How else can I afford my lifestyle
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ok what happens if all three like it. and it becomes to a point where they are all happy with the situation. whats wrong with that.
Move to Utah
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Move to Utah

hey thats not a bad idea. but its boring out there...
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
hey thats not a bad idea. but its boring out there...
Two wives to cater to your every need though!


EDIT: And yes, fuck Utah...hated every second I was stuck there.


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