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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 07:44 PM
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aight here is my situation

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met a girl, and really get it off good, a lot in common, etc. i am 21, 22 next month. she is 17, 18 in march. on top of that, i work at the school she goes to.

i know i shouldnt continue this but i havent been into a girl like her in sooooooo long.

help.......
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 07:45 PM
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Keep on that.
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 07:52 PM
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Could be kinda intersting that she goes to the school you work out, what exactly is the situation.
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:00 PM
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I had a similiar situation, she was 17 and I was 22. Anyways, it was my sisters firend. To make a long story short I blew it. SO, if you think it's worth it stick with it.

Age aint nothin but a number.

The school thing could get complicated though.

I once dated the receptionist at work and well, she had to leave.
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:13 PM
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hell yea.. go for it playa!!!
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:15 PM
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Just take it easy for now, if you date, dont get too physical, since she is technically jailbait. Be careful for that. When she hits 18, go for it!
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:21 PM
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im not worried about the age thing since she will be 18 pretty soon. im more worried about the school. i would be fired on the spot and she of course would be expelled. we both want to try this out though. so i think i will pursue, but cautiously of course.
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:35 PM
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when i got with my bf i was 16 and he was 19.. my parents thought the age gap was kind of scandalous then, but now im 20 and hes 22 (hasnt turned 23 yet) and no one seems to care about the gap.. but theres always people who seem to think age matters.

but above all. when she hits 18 its LEGAL!
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:47 PM
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wait till she turns 18
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Old Nov 11, 2003 | 08:54 PM
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ey go for it but wait till shes 18 then fuck the shit outta her

good luck man
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Old Nov 12, 2003 | 11:06 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
when i got with my bf i was 16 and he was 19.. my parents thought the age gap was kind of scandalous then, but now im 20 and hes 22 (hasnt turned 23 yet) and no one seems to care about the gap.. but theres always people who seem to think age matters.

but above all. when she hits 18 its LEGAL!
In NY state it is legal if she is 17 only if the other person is within a certain number of years difference, such as she is 17 and the other party is 18. I dunno wat that number is because my friend had to find out for sure. I won't mention Y but he had to hahaha.
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Old Nov 12, 2003 | 09:03 PM
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yeah i found out that legally its a 3 year window. meaning a 17 can have relations with a 20 year old. but that wont do me any good. it looks like we might be starting something. but gots to be careful.
one of her best friends already almost messed things up today at work. i was talkin to one of the security guys we have on the school. he is around 50 and lives on campus. her friend comes up to us and say to me "i hear you want to hook up with my friend." so im thinking damn why you gotta be sayin that. i played it off but thats the kinda shit im afraid of.
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Old Nov 12, 2003 | 10:12 PM
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That shits gotta be tight!
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 03:36 AM
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If you really click with this girl and have things in common with her then age shouldnt' matter. It's all about the person and how they handle themselves. In this particular case, it's definitely a good idea to be careful until March tho!
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 06:04 AM
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if you're almost 22 and you 'dig' a high school chick you are a loser. nothing wrong with wanting to get your tip wet in a high schooler. but that shit with her friend coming up to you and what not, come on man, how retarded is that.
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 02:34 PM
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Rumor is she's 18 now go for it!
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 03:27 PM
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Once she turns 18 jump on that fo sure.
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 03:40 PM
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Just do it man. The only problem I see is finding shit to do when they are 17. You just cant go to a bar and have a drink.
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by spiroh
Just do it man. The only problem I see is finding shit to do when they are 17. You just cant go to a bar and have a drink.

i have a few friends that are bouncers at clubs and bars, so that wouldnt be an issue.
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 05:04 PM
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What do you do at said school?

If you're a teacher of hers... that would be a real issue! But, if you're just taking out trash, who cares...
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 06:24 PM
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Originally posted by amisconception
What do you do at said school?

If you're a teacher of hers... that would be a real issue! But, if you're just taking out trash, who cares...
it a junior high and high school. all i do there is supervise a couple of study hall periods and assistant activities director. easiest job in the world.
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Old Nov 13, 2003 | 06:27 PM
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Re: aight here is my situation

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a lot in common, etc. i am 21, 22 next month. she is 17, 18 in march
wow you DO have a lot in common
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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 11:01 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2003 | 02:39 PM
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so an update...through conversations with my older cousin and a few close friends, i have decided to attempt to hold her off until she turns 18. only hard part would be keeping her (and myself) interested until she turns 18. it turns out that she does have a boyfriend, but according to her best friend, it will end pretty soon. so that will help.

on top of that i have been talkin to one of the administration girls that work here. she is 27 with 3 year old kid. so im basically at both extremes here.
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Old Nov 21, 2003 | 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by rabs99
so an update...through conversations with my older cousin and a few close friends, i have decided to attempt to hold her off until she turns 18. only hard part would be keeping her (and myself) interested until she turns 18. it turns out that she does have a boyfriend, but according to her best friend, it will end pretty soon. so that will help.

on top of that i have been talkin to one of the administration girls that work here. she is 27 with 3 year old kid. so im basically at both extremes here.

ummm. fawk taht bro!!! the 17 gonn abe 18 might be alil immature.. but has NO baggage!!! I would rather have the younger broad than the used up one... I think your choice is wrong... at least for me...

but I wish you luck with whatever you do!!!
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