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Hi all, my first post so be gentle I have a '12 TL Advance and my wife used the car with the driver 2 key and set up the seat/mirrors to her liking and saved it as driver 2. When I get in the car with my driver 1 key it still thinks I am driver 2 and moves everything back to her settings. I can push the driver 1 button to go back to my settings and all is well, but when I start the car the MID and nav screen both say "welcome driver 2". Dealer said to lock/unlock using the driver 1 fob and that should take care of it, which it didn't. I'm sure I'm not doing something right, but any suggestions?