Okay so i have not been able to use my handsfree link with my phone since i bought my car. The code that is written in the owners manual does not work and I'm tired of hearing the lady's voice tell me I'm incorrect... So how do i reset the code on the HFL? I cannot even get in to the options to reset it so im at ground zero on this one.. any help would be appreciated!!

And please before you say use the search function i already have and haven't come up with a clear solution.