Why are other TL drivers so unfriendly???
#41
Originally Posted by xavier25
LOL... As mentioned, there are so many TL's in No.VA that you'd be nodding/waving/whatever 10 times during a 30 min commute. Now if I see a modded car, then I definitely look closely and nod.
When I was coming home Tuesday, there were 2 in front of me and one a couple cars back of me. I was on the FFX Parkway coming from Burke to FairOaks.
#43
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Originally Posted by rt4563
People that make generalizations are stupid.
Doubt anyone is trying to be rude, but to most people waving to people in cars you dont know is just strange.
#44
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Originally Posted by geekybiker
Thing is that he's probably right. I would bet money that the vast majority of people who buy a TL wouldnt be classified as "enthusiasts". When you're trying to catch up to someone in traffic and waving at them, they're probably just confused and think you're some weirdo stalker.....
Doubt anyone is trying to be rude, but to most people waving to people in cars you dont know is just strange.
Doubt anyone is trying to be rude, but to most people waving to people in cars you dont know is just strange.
Probably true. Although with the BMW M's and MBZ AMG's, etc. most of the people I've come across in those cars like them because of the price tag and not because of the performance.
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TL drivers are pretty friendly here in TO =) once i saw this other teenager driving a white TL.. we both gunned the car and then go side by side =) we ended up going to the same dealership for service and had a chat
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Too bad the TL crowd is not as friendly as the Alfa Romeo crowd. It is very rare when I drive somewhere and I see an Alfa that greetings are not exchanged, be it horn honking light flashing waving etc etc. .
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I always nod or chuck a deuce at anyone i see driving the same car as me. I've always done that, even when i had my CRV, Corolla, Yukon, etc.
Nine times out of ten, they aren't looking at me and/or probably couldn't care less, but I do it anyway.
Where I live, there are very few TL's...I might see a couple a week.
I feel like there is or should be some type of pride or camaraderie there, whether your car is stock or modded.
Nine times out of ten, they aren't looking at me and/or probably couldn't care less, but I do it anyway.
Where I live, there are very few TL's...I might see a couple a week.
I feel like there is or should be some type of pride or camaraderie there, whether your car is stock or modded.
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Originally Posted by tidus888
TL drivers are pretty friendly here in TO =) once i saw this other teenager driving a white TL.. we both gunned the car and then go side by side =) we ended up going to the same dealership for service and had a chat
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Originally Posted by ndabunka
You waive to people you KNOW, not simply because they have the same kind of car... Sheesshhh, get a life!
PS - Sometimes I waive anyway (and then I wonder... do they think I am crazy?)
PS - Sometimes I waive anyway (and then I wonder... do they think I am crazy?)
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Had someone in a white 2G TL pacing me this morning. Gold emblems, in the Gurnee, IL area. Every time I looked over, the guy wasn't looking. Not sure what he was doing, so maybe that's happened to some of you - just a case of bad timing.
...or they just think you're some weirdo pacing them and they're avoiding eye contact.
...or they just think you're some weirdo pacing them and they're avoiding eye contact.
#53
Well, I live in NYC, so there's a lot of "mean muggin" goin on here lol... My TL is an A-Spec with performance mods and a new subwoofer but I dont think that that necessarily makes my car "better" than anyone elses. Faster, yes, but who cares. The thing that bothers me is when other TL drivers see me coming with my body kit n exhaust n all and decide to try to show off and speed pass me. Give me a break.
#55
im in the big city and unless the other guy in the TL is really THAT much of a TL fanatic we wouldnt bother making contact...
like i said... im in the city, making contact just cause u ahve the same car is kinda lame, unless there's gd reason to make contact (ie if u admire they're car for whatever reason)
like i said... im in the city, making contact just cause u ahve the same car is kinda lame, unless there's gd reason to make contact (ie if u admire they're car for whatever reason)
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I think we are just a bunch of snobs..... , funny thing is when I had a Civic Si, Element, RSX-S all the other drivers would go out of their way to make sure I saw them and would wave, now I see other TL drivers almost ignore me but I can tell they know we have the same car......
#57
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I think car people (us) notice other TLs and interesting cars and are likely to acknowledge eye contact, but we gotta face it - most of population don't even see the cars around them.
Hi rt4563; do you come here often?
Hi rt4563; do you come here often?
#58
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The other day, I was sitting at a red light. Sitting next to me was a 2G TL with nice rims. Well, the lady (early 20's) kept looking at my car (I don't think she could see me through the tint). The gentleman (early 20's also) saw her looking, gave me a nasty look and began having a heated discussion with the lady. When the light turned green, he sped off spinning tires and everything. A few seconds later, I was looking at him in my rearview mirror!
But I have noticed that other TL drivers kinda act like snobs and seem self absorbed. Once the cars get older, the snobs'll probably sell/trade and younger people will buy. I believe younger people would buy our cars brand new if they could afford them and their credit was able to get it for them. I don't mean that in a condescending way, it's just my opinion.
But I have noticed that other TL drivers kinda act like snobs and seem self absorbed. Once the cars get older, the snobs'll probably sell/trade and younger people will buy. I believe younger people would buy our cars brand new if they could afford them and their credit was able to get it for them. I don't mean that in a condescending way, it's just my opinion.
#59
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being 18 years old, I almost never see a fellow young TLer or CLer.. or any young newer acura-er where I live. All the people driving Acuras here are usually old grey ladies...
It is sort of hard to describe what happens when I see another cool Acura.. A sort of excitement takes over.. I jump up in my seat and check out their car, hoping they look like a nice person. If they look reasonable, I sort of hope for eye contact... When eye contact is made I usually act out a conversation in my head about what we say to each other... all over eye contact! LOL im just weird like that... and then maybe someday we can end up doing a photo shoot. or just shoot the shit talking about our cars... LOL
^^^ The above took me nearly 20 mins to type/think how to explain... it didnt come out sounding entirely correct, but thats OK. ^^^
It is sort of hard to describe what happens when I see another cool Acura.. A sort of excitement takes over.. I jump up in my seat and check out their car, hoping they look like a nice person. If they look reasonable, I sort of hope for eye contact... When eye contact is made I usually act out a conversation in my head about what we say to each other... all over eye contact! LOL im just weird like that... and then maybe someday we can end up doing a photo shoot. or just shoot the shit talking about our cars... LOL
^^^ The above took me nearly 20 mins to type/think how to explain... it didnt come out sounding entirely correct, but thats OK. ^^^
#60
Yeah it's strange, most people here don't even look or seem to notice. Me, I've owned several boats. In boating it's a very different phenomenon (at least if you're into bigger boats...I owned a 34 foot sailboat on Lake Michigan for many years), EVERYONE waves at everyone else..in fact we laugh and joke that to own a boat you have to perfect your "boaters wave"! hehe So...to get into your car where everyone is completely anonymous is a little strange for me...but then I hate to be the only dork waving at other TL drivers! LOL Did have one guy give me the thumbs up the other day though.
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yeah, for the most part, it is due to the market - older buyers: don't care about other TLs. the majority of old people doesn't appreciate younger people driving the same car as them.
only enthusiasts like people on this forum would look and wave/nod/whatever at other TLers - TL enthusiasts "sub culture".
on top of all that, if you have dark tint on your windows, then they usually don't look.
only enthusiasts like people on this forum would look and wave/nod/whatever at other TLers - TL enthusiasts "sub culture".
on top of all that, if you have dark tint on your windows, then they usually don't look.
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Originally Posted by gqchicago
... Me, I've owned several boats. In boating it's a very different phenomenon (at least if you're into bigger boats...I owned a 34 foot sailboat on Lake Michigan for many years), EVERYONE waves at everyone else..in fact we laugh and joke that to own a boat you have to perfect your "boaters wave"! ...
Thanks, gq, I feel so much better now.
That said, there's one other thing about this thread that is starting to really piss me off. Why are so many of you being haters about older people driving TLs?
Now I understand getting annoyed if someone is going 20 mph and you can't get around them or that sort of behavior associated with "old people". But what the heck is wrong with someone minding their own business, driving their TL normally, and they just don't happen to be a Victoria's Secret or Esquire model? I'm referring to comments like the following:
Originally Posted by JJaber06
lol everytime I see another person in a TL, its usually a 60 year old gray haired lady. when me and my friends are driving they always make fun of me
Originally Posted by mmforever
Everytime I look into the next TL, its usually some old person who probably can't see far enough to see I'm in a TL, too. But I would nod or wave if I thought it mattered.
There are lots more quotes of this type but these are the worst. What the hell the deal here? That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
#63
Originally Posted by FLBusa
Yep... I have to agree. The people here on this forum are here because they have a genuine interest in the TL. A lot like motorcyclists... when I'm on the bike everyone waves and waves back, it's a sub-culture of enthusiasts. My belief is that most of the people that own TL's, if asked about the car will say... Yeah... it's a pretty nice car. They won't be able to tell you much or any of the performance details of the car nor do they even care. If the car rides nice, is dependable and projects an appearance of success... that's good enough for them. Waving to someone would mean making some kind of contact with another human being.
...and we certainly don't want any of that stuff happening.
I can see it now... "Honey... would you believe some weirdo in a car just like mine was waving at me!" "The nerve of some people..."
...and we certainly don't want any of that stuff happening.
I can see it now... "Honey... would you believe some weirdo in a car just like mine was waving at me!" "The nerve of some people..."
I'd definitely hate to be like that suburbanite character in "The Net" whose neighbors don't even recognize her, so they can't say for sure whether she lived in her place, and don't miss her if she disappears.
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I bet some drivers are so clueless they don't even realize it's another TL out there.
#64
Originally Posted by enigmaos
yeah, for the most part, it is due to the market - older buyers: don't care about other TLs. the majority of old people doesn't appreciate younger people driving the same car as them.
On the other hand, it could be a resentment thing. As in, I am 30-40-50 years old and I can finally afford a luxury sports car like this, so how does this 21-year-old deserve it? But you never know other people's true financial situation or how their lives will turn out.
#65
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Figured I'd chime in on this one. I'm 56, certainly what most of you guys would consider an old guy. But I'm also an enthusiast, I love my car and I've done some simple mods to it. I am fanatical about keeping it clean and shiny. I remember in the past I had a 72 2002Tii BMW, in those days BMW's were rare and 95% of people didn't even know what it was, you'd see another BMW and you'd always wave. The problem is, at least were I live, is that the TL is a fairly common car, and most of the people driving it, could care less.
If I see I nice car that someone obviously cares about, no matter what kind of car it is I can appreciate it. But to most people a car is car. As my wife says "It's just something to get from point a to point b". There have been a couple of times that I've had a fellow TL driver wave at me, but those times are rare, and I've been surprised.
That's what makes forums such as this so great! We're a bunch of people who share their enjoyment of our cars. And if someone sells his TL and buys something else (like a Camry), so be it, best of luck to him.
Also it doesn't bother me to see a younger person driving the same car as me, why should it bother me? Tell you the truth what bothers me is when you see a nice car that's being driven by someone who could care less. How many BMW's or MB's have you seen that are filthy? Wheel all caked up with brake dust, dull paint, birdsh*t all over it, THAT's what bothers me.
Dave
If I see I nice car that someone obviously cares about, no matter what kind of car it is I can appreciate it. But to most people a car is car. As my wife says "It's just something to get from point a to point b". There have been a couple of times that I've had a fellow TL driver wave at me, but those times are rare, and I've been surprised.
That's what makes forums such as this so great! We're a bunch of people who share their enjoyment of our cars. And if someone sells his TL and buys something else (like a Camry), so be it, best of luck to him.
Also it doesn't bother me to see a younger person driving the same car as me, why should it bother me? Tell you the truth what bothers me is when you see a nice car that's being driven by someone who could care less. How many BMW's or MB's have you seen that are filthy? Wheel all caked up with brake dust, dull paint, birdsh*t all over it, THAT's what bothers me.
Dave
#66
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One more thing,
That's the reason I'm always harping about the lack of a Acurazine decal or sticker, it would help us to identify each other. If you were driving along and saw another TL with the decal, you could wave and reasonably expect a wave back.
Dave
That's the reason I'm always harping about the lack of a Acurazine decal or sticker, it would help us to identify each other. If you were driving along and saw another TL with the decal, you could wave and reasonably expect a wave back.
Dave
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Originally Posted by enigmaos
only enthusiasts like people on this forum would look and wave/nod/whatever at other TLers - TL enthusiasts "sub culture".
on top of all that, if you have dark tint on your windows, then they usually don't look.
on top of all that, if you have dark tint on your windows, then they usually don't look.
#68
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Originally Posted by rt4563
I have figured out my (apparently dorky) compulsion to wave to other TL drivers. I AM A BOATER. I have been waving to other boaters my whole life. Where I go boating (No Cal Delta) pretty much everyone waves to everyone - skiboats wave to yachts, motoryachts wave to sailboats, the whole deal.
Thanks, gq, I feel so much better now.
That said, there's one other thing about this thread that is starting to really piss me off. Why are so many of you being haters about older people driving TLs?
Now I understand getting annoyed if someone is going 20 mph and you can't get around them or that sort of behavior associated with "old people". But what the heck is wrong with someone minding their own business, driving their TL normally, and they just don't happen to be a Victoria's Secret or Esquire model? I'm referring to comments like the following:
That is really offensive, mmforever.
There are lots more quotes of this type but these are the worst. What the hell the deal here? That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
Thanks, gq, I feel so much better now.
That said, there's one other thing about this thread that is starting to really piss me off. Why are so many of you being haters about older people driving TLs?
Now I understand getting annoyed if someone is going 20 mph and you can't get around them or that sort of behavior associated with "old people". But what the heck is wrong with someone minding their own business, driving their TL normally, and they just don't happen to be a Victoria's Secret or Esquire model? I'm referring to comments like the following:
That is really offensive, mmforever.
There are lots more quotes of this type but these are the worst. What the hell the deal here? That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
You people with the tinting-- I can't tell if you see me waving and I can't see if you're waving... or giving me the finger...
#72
Originally Posted by evantec
On the other hand, it could be a resentment thing. As in, I am 30-40-50 years old and I can finally afford a luxury sports car like this, so how does this 21-year-old deserve it? But you never know other people's true financial situation or how their lives will turn out.
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To 99% of the population cars a just mobile appliances no different in their life then the wide screen TV or industrial style refrigerator.
Also demographics being what they are they tend to cluster in certain neigh. Its no big deal here to see a lot of TL's & 330's in the high school parking lot while Mom & Dad are driving heavier iron.
The waving & light flashing was a big deal in the 1950's when sports cars or any import was pretty rare & has faded out as these cars have reached commodity status like salt or pepper.
I expect the few Lambo or Ferrari drivers around here wave & flash at each other but when a car manufacture like Honda is cranking them out in the hundreds of thousands, what's the big deal?
Also demographics being what they are they tend to cluster in certain neigh. Its no big deal here to see a lot of TL's & 330's in the high school parking lot while Mom & Dad are driving heavier iron.
The waving & light flashing was a big deal in the 1950's when sports cars or any import was pretty rare & has faded out as these cars have reached commodity status like salt or pepper.
I expect the few Lambo or Ferrari drivers around here wave & flash at each other but when a car manufacture like Honda is cranking them out in the hundreds of thousands, what's the big deal?
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Originally Posted by enigmaos
probably doing this to you. lol
Hope they have 5As, though, 'cause it was hard for me to use both hands to make gestures safely while using a stick shift. :wink:
Oh, and I'd spring for an Acurazine plate frame or windshield header decal if they became available...
#75
Originally Posted by rt4563
That said, there's one other thing about this thread that is starting to really piss me off. Why are so many of you being haters about older people driving TLs?
Now I understand getting annoyed if someone is going 20 mph and you can't get around them or that sort of behavior associated with "old people". But what the heck is wrong with someone minding their own business, driving their TL normally, and they just don't happen to be a Victoria's Secret or Esquire model? I'm referring to comments like the following:
: : :
There are lots more quotes of this type but these are the worst. What the hell the deal here? That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
Now I understand getting annoyed if someone is going 20 mph and you can't get around them or that sort of behavior associated with "old people". But what the heck is wrong with someone minding their own business, driving their TL normally, and they just don't happen to be a Victoria's Secret or Esquire model? I'm referring to comments like the following:
: : :
There are lots more quotes of this type but these are the worst. What the hell the deal here? That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
The truth is, even if I were 110 years old, I'd still like hot cars and want to drive. (If I can only go 20mph, somebody take the keys!) I don't have a particular age on my calendar marked saying when I'd suddenly not want to be into cool cars.
On the other hand, about 2 years ago, I threw my back -- only for a few days -- and finally had a short-lived appreciation for boulevard cruisers with no feel for the road. When every bump hurts, it's amazing how a soft mushy car is comfortable. But other than something bad like that happening, I can't see not wanting to drive a cool car.
#76
Originally Posted by rt4563
: : :
That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
That "grey haired old man" or that "granny" could be one of the coolest people you'll ever meet, if you'd just give them the chance.
We're going to see some interesting times when the baby-boomers -- the first generation to really worship youth and be in denial about aging -- hits retirement age and much later on, old age.
#77
Originally Posted by blakura
We could just make it a (internal) acurazine thing to just flash our lights at each other when we see another TL. If the person flashes back, they just might be a fellow acuraziner (or just polite). That might work until we get acurazine stickers (for the top part of the windshield of course) because I would be reluctant to putting a bumper sticker on my TL.
I'd vote for either license-plate frames or a rubber window-decal that doesn't need glue. I should probably check out the website's T-Shirt shop in the meantime!
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Yeah I would never wave to other TLs. Unless I'm on an extremely rural two-lane road, and happen to see a TL.
There are so many TLs on the road, that I see no point. Do people that drive a Taurus or a minivan wave at eachother?
I can justify waving if I am driving a rare car, which the TL is not. Now if I had a car like a Ferrari,Porsche,Corvette, or even a lifted Jeep I would most definately wave.
There are so many TLs on the road, that I see no point. Do people that drive a Taurus or a minivan wave at eachother?
I can justify waving if I am driving a rare car, which the TL is not. Now if I had a car like a Ferrari,Porsche,Corvette, or even a lifted Jeep I would most definately wave.
#79
Enthusiast drivers of rare cars flash identical models. Such drivers are aware of road conditions.
There is a certain pecking order in a brand universe. If I were to ever see the first acura, I would certainly stop and salute.
TL drivers are not rare. TL enthusiasts are rare. Guess TL enthusiasts should have exteriors modded beyond A-spec, and only recognize the A-spec at a minimum. Otherwise, you are simply distracting grandma and grandpa.
The average TL owner is old, richer than the acord buyer, and bought the thing on a reliability/comfort/quality/price/performance trade-off matrix that suggests an economist, not an enthusiast.
There is a certain pecking order in a brand universe. If I were to ever see the first acura, I would certainly stop and salute.
TL drivers are not rare. TL enthusiasts are rare. Guess TL enthusiasts should have exteriors modded beyond A-spec, and only recognize the A-spec at a minimum. Otherwise, you are simply distracting grandma and grandpa.
The average TL owner is old, richer than the acord buyer, and bought the thing on a reliability/comfort/quality/price/performance trade-off matrix that suggests an economist, not an enthusiast.
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Originally Posted by dmarcus48
One more thing,
That's the reason I'm always harping about the lack of a Acurazine decal or sticker, it would help us to identify each other. If you were driving along and saw another TL with the decal, you could wave and reasonably expect a wave back.
Dave
That's the reason I'm always harping about the lack of a Acurazine decal or sticker, it would help us to identify each other. If you were driving along and saw another TL with the decal, you could wave and reasonably expect a wave back.
Dave