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When you're in one...
how long do you go on thinking it's you and you just maybe need to handle it differently and make changes and it'll all be better or more tolerable?
Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes. -William Gibson
But/and also:
If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole. -Raylan Givens Justified
Need moar info:
A. What's the benefits-to-toxicity ratio?
Keep in mind the longterm adverse effects of toxicity, such as you normalizing it and then becoming quite toxic yourself with time.
B. How much will it cost to break it off vs tuff it out?
Maybe it's a few bucks for bus fare, maybe it's $100k of lawyer time and 2 years of missing work for court dates.
Need moar info:
A. What's the benefits-to-toxicity ratio?
Keep in mind the longterm adverse effects of toxicity, such as you normalizing it and then becoming quite toxic yourself with time.
B. How much will it cost to break it off vs tuff it out?
Maybe it's a few bucks for bus fare, maybe it's $100k of lawyer time and 2 years of missing work for court dates.
Spill the details plz
A. What's the benefits-to-toxicity ratio?
Keep in mind the longterm adverse effects of toxicity, such as you normalizing it and then becoming quite toxic yourself with time.
Hard to say...it varies and over time it seems to have gotten better and less frequent but maybe more intense. Could be a side effect of normalizing though.
I definitely start to wonder about the behaviors I've never seen in myself though. Might be onto something.
B. How much will it cost to break it off vs tuff it out?
Maybe it's a few bucks for bus fare, maybe it's $100k of lawyer time and 2 years of missing work for court dates.
Nothing...I'm not married anymore.
Most of the time!
Sometimes, things ain't as peachy...
Brady Bunch life is work, my friend.
All relationships are, obviously.
Relationships are alot of work indeed sir. Even more complicated when children are involved. If everything was like a rom-com, I think well, we'd probably solved cancer and hunger too, right?
I dunno...the best relationships all have their ups and downs...but, because the two fight through the bad together, they come out of it stronger, better. It's sorta like stuff, right? If you never have to work for anything, how do you appreciate it?
without being too disparaging about my ex-wife...
I will say that our serious fights in a decade could be counted on one hand.
with that said, it was almost flatline...no highs no lows...
I got a pulse now...so I take the good with the bad.
Sometimes it gets blown out of proportion.
Been busy! Lotta getting furniture and putting it together... Buying kitchen stuff and driving to discount stores outside of the city.
Way over due for my oil and tranny fluid service. Gotta get that done next Wednesday, not to mention my heat shield on the Honda is rattling and causing a whineing while I'm cruising at 30-45 or so...
without being too disparaging about my ex-wife...
I will say that our serious fights in a decade could be counted on one hand.
with that said, it was almost flatline...no highs no lows...
I got a pulse now...so I take the good with the bad.
Sometimes it gets blown out of proportion.
03-05-2020, 08:42 PM
