Call around to those that take oil and ask. Most will accept it as well.

 

if you have an old oil jug laying around just fill that and bring it to walmart or advanceauto or autozone. they will take it but they almost never pop the cap to see what fluid you're bringing them. hope that helps a bit.

as for tranny i would much rather buy a used odyssey/accord trans and have someone swap it in. sorry to hear about your tranny, i was in your shoes two weeks ago and def know what you're going through

 

Hey....let us know how the drain & fill went. Hopefully with a little luck, the refreshed fluid and new filter may help your TL's tired old tranny. If that does not seem to help any, the next thing to try would be to clean the shift solenoid screens. Also check all connections and grounds for the "electronically controlled" transmission.

Best of luck !