My memory seating is not working the lights arent even on. need help!

Based on your username, I'd say post this in the 2nd gen section. I don't know of any 1st gens with memory seating...

Blown fuse?

i checked all the fuses and nothing they all look good

There is a specific fuse for memory seating, on the passenger side multiplex I believe.

ill check it and post back thanks