hey does anybody have a website where they show you how to remove the bumper so i can take out my headlights?

 

Its not that hard I had to do it to install my icebox. Clips under bumper, clips in fenderwell, remove black trim under hood over the headlights\radiator area .. and then just PULLLLLLLL really hard. becareful not to break it. Why do you want to take out your headlights?
EDIT: I'm half retarded today I'm sorry. the subject says headlight clearing

 

lol thanx but are there any pics of where the clips and stuff that i gotta take out are cuz ill miss one and ill prbly wind up breakin sumtin

 

sorry no pics but, they are those plastic pop-out clips aren't they? You can't miss em underneth the front fascia. I got mine out with a flathead.

 

This is for a TL. But it may work for you. Its from the acura-tl dot com site.
Headlight Clearing DIY
But here is my post of my experience of doing that same DIY mod. You may want to read this before you start.
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Good luck!